Delayed Shock

 It could be concussion 

The Shockwave

Damage Control

I think the delayed shock of my accident is becoming evident now, when I stand, I need to pause for a second or two to get my balance. This isn't only being a senior citizen catching his breath, I can feel my heart racing, and I have an almost constant headache, not serious, but there

Did she get the message?

 Silver Trauma

Silence is Golden

                                                               All quiet on WhatsApp

Last night, I blocked a scammer on WhatsApp, her actions resulted in my recent hospital visit, and having stitches put over my left eye, as well as getting a broken nose in my fall.

She hasn't tried to contact me via WhatsApp today, but as she is in the USA, several hours behind the UK, this could chnage soon. However, my stance will remain, no money will be sent, I decided this before the accident

The exception to my rules

 Lies

How did I come back so quick?

                                        The time has come to forget my moral code

Normally, I would not cross the line, and tell lies, but when two ladies have told me lies for several months, I can cross that line with nothing to worry about.

Last week, I was so tired from trying to get them Apple pay cards, as they said they would refund a loan, I collapsed in the street, and ended up in casualty with a disclocated wrist, a bad gash over my left eye, and a broken nose. It was at this point, I crossed the line which I refused to cross,even if years ago I could have earned money writing fake reviews.

My friend, Svitlana, may say some things which appear odd, but she is older than me, but I believe her declaration of love is genuine, while Pamela Olsted was only after my money, that is why moving on from PO was neither hard, or painful

The Poor Relative

The Cold Facts

Sister Act

Meeting Svitlana

The time and money I spent with Pamela Olsted has raised questions of my insecurity.

I am wondering if lady I love, Svitlana, considers me "the poor relative?" While she, and I, wish for a long chat, I am forced, after giving PO such a lot of money, to keep cutting our chats to save credit for tomorrow.

This could be my insecrities playing mind games, but they do have a good point. I do wonder if Svitlana is "out of my league."

No way back

Openness can be arousing 

Honesty is the way forward

Is Clara in Bristol?

The lady I knew who "claimed" to live near me in Bristol, got back in touch, as I knew she would when she saw the link was open again, so much for being ill in hospital.

She still calls me "babe," and thinks I care for her, even though I told her a month ago, I have moved on, and found a lady who does live in the UK.

The reason I re-opened the link is on the remote possibility she repays the money I sent, her sister has the details, and she has a PayPal link.

I have no interest in meeting her, even if she does live within walking distance of me in Whitchurch

The hard edge

About me

 I'm usually kind

Honesty is the way forward

One lady I knew is finding it was wrong to annoy me, or keep telling me lies. She "claimed" to live in Bristol, though she never proved it. She recently had her sister contact me to say she is ill in hospital, this may be true, why should I care?

If her sister hadn't told me lies for several months, she would have had my sympathy, instead, all she got was the "cold shoulder" of disbelief.

I am known for being kind, and considerate, which is what got me in trouble with the lady who now owes me a lot of money.

In short, she crossed a line from which there is no return. I told her, I now have a lady friend who does live in the UK.

Damage Control

 Something good

Cash Shortage

Is Clara in Bristol?

My cash shortage caused by Pamela Olsted could be over soon, her sister offered to pay me the money I was owed. I was offered £15,000, but said I was only wanting the £3,000 I was owed, even this is a little over what I paid out, but I think I am owed a little more for several months of living on the edge of my nerves, wondering how I can pay bills. Not to mention the lies I was told.

The sister said she is in Southmead Hospital in Bristol, I never had proof she is in Bristol. I believe she is in the USA, which makes sense now, as she would contact me at 01:00 UK time, which is around 19:00 US time.

I could have used the extra money for my new friendship with Svitlana in Oxfordshire, but I am too honest to take money I am not owed.

After what I went through, I am not holding my breath for the payment, it does raise a question, if her sister had the money, why did Pamela ask me for it?

All quiet on WhatsApp

 Disconnected but not bothered

Romance in Didcot

 Since yesterday afternoon, my WhatsApp chat has gone silent as the lady who said she was in Bristol got blocked for telling me lies for several months. I do miss our chats, but how can you trust a person who admits to misleading you, that is a huge mark of disrespect. Her latest attempt to get back in my favour is to get her sister to tell me, since we stopped chatting she has been in Southmead Hospital, Bristol.

Call me heartless, if she was, which I doubt, after being lied to for months, and sending her money, can you blame me for not caring?

I now chat with a friend on Charming Talks, who lives in Didcot, we hope to meet in a month's time

Silence is golden

 Rogue's Gallery

Damange Control

The Scam Network

Today the silence said more than I could in words.

I was in a relationship, according to the lady, with a lady who "claimed" to live in Whitchurch, Bristol.

I said "according to the lady" because we never met after 25  dates; she always had an excuse for not meeting me.

Today, for the first time in a month, a lady "claiming" to be her sister hasn't contacted me; probably because all she gets is a cold business reply.

Why should I reply warmly, when I am not sure I am being entrapped into another scam?

Her "sister" keeps asking for £20 so she can send the money I loaned back, but some weeks the payment is 90% closed, then it drops to 65% the next week