Is my belief in Spiritualism a turn-off?

 Alan Place - Ghost Story Writer

                                                          Ladies in the USA

I have found on Twitter, and WhatsApp that my belief in Spiritualism is a turn-off for many ladies in the USA.

We get on well, until the topic changes to Christianity, which usually happens, I make no apology for not being a devoit Christian.

As I often say, I believe things in the Bible did happen, but the reasons are based in Science, not Religion. Two of the main things for me to question are the Resurrection story, and the Crossing of the Red Sea.

How can a man who has had nails driven through his joints, and been left hanging on a cross for three days, remove a huge stone it took three fit, and well fed soldiers to place?

If you are going from Egypt to Israel, why on earth would you go hundreds of miles out of your way to cross a sea when you have a much safer, and shorter route only a few wide on the coast of Egypt?

Fallout

Ladies in Uniform 

Ladies in the USA

I won't deny I am attracted to a lady in a uniform, the uniform adds to the appeal, but the lady is more of interest to me than her uniform.

Recently, several ladies in the Armed Forces of the USA have been chatting to me on WhatsApp, once they find I am not interested in marriage, their interest falls off. It isn't that I don't find them attractive, it is that I am old enough to be their father

Ladies in the USA

 Several requests to form a relationship

What is it about me?

In the past several months, I have had several ladies requesting me to start a relationship.

For various reasons I declined them, mostly because the ladies are young enough to be my daughter, while that would be a turn-on for some men, it is not for me.

I prefer my lady to be close to my age, so we can share a truer sense of love.

Of the dozens who asked me, fewer than 10% were close to my age.

One young lady in Atlanta made me laugh.

I had told her my ankle was sore as the tendon tore decades ago, and because of a medical condition, even a simple operation was not on the cards for me. I had stated I am a disabled pensioner with little money, her reply would have been comical, if it wasn't so stupid. She said, "You know you can fly to India to get your ankle seen to."

If I told doctors here the operation was intenable, why would I fly to India?

I would love to have been able to visit India,  the state has a fascinating history.