Brief Encounters

 Dating a Granny

What is my allure?

Sex with Alan

I have had offers of friendship, and even sex, with several older ladies. I have no issue with dating an older lady, within reason, the lady in my life now my wife has passed away is Svitlana from Ukraine, she lives in Didcot.

Svitlana

Svitlana is four years older than I am, and we got on well from our first online chat, she and I are dedicated to moving our friendship into a relationship, once she has got back from holiday, and I have cleared my overdraft issues. At the present, I am limited to chatting for about an hour each night, and sometimes, I have to go offline for a day or two 😢😢.

Though I had many offers, until Svitlana, none meant anything to me, mainly because I couldn't see me meeting a lady who lives either in Asia, the USA, or South America. In 2009, I did fly to Canada, twice to meet a friend, but she paid for the flights, one of the reasons for my trips was she needed help sorting her house out, she died that December

Never say Never

 Dating a Granny

Would I leave Svitlana?

Svitlana

To answer the question, I would not leave Svitlana, unless she decided she didn't wish to be my lady friend in Oxfordshire. This is something, she has made clear, she has no intention to do.

Neither of us hoped to find romance at our ages, we're in our 70's. I am 70 in October, and Svitlana is 74. Yet, we got on so well with our online chats, we have bonded, and once my finances are more settled, we plan to meet in Didcot, where she lives.

Are ladies on Dating Apps paid by the site?

 Mature Lady

Granny

Sex with a Granny

I can't help feeling tha ladies on the Dating Apps I use are paid by the site.

My friend, Svitlana, who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, always seems to have an endless balance to chat, while I need to limit myself to an hour a day. Ihave tried to ask her to leave the app, so we can chat longer, but she keeps baulking on the idea, which fuels my thoughts she is paid by the site,

A Turning Point for me

 Mature Dating

SoulmateMeets

Dating a Granny

One of my biggest shocks in recent months, came this month.

For months, Pamela Olsted had been saying she thought I was attractive, but I doubted her honesty - with good reason - so, this month, to find an honest view on how mature ladies saw me, I added my profile to a mature dating app. The results astounded me, as I never saw myself as attractive to ladies.

I have been deluged with requests to meet, and several offers of sex. For now, there is only one lady I wish to have sex with, my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot

The #OlderLady tag

 The #granny tag

                                                      This is Your Life

The lady in the photograph is former Bollywood actress, Sharmila Tagore. Her father was an influential writer in the India of the 1940s. She shows ladies who wear glasses can be sexy.

Not all ladies over 50 are grannies.

I was as guilty as anyone in the assumption a lady in her late 50s is a granny. That was until a lady on a mature dating app we share, asked if I was put off by her not having children, when she is over 60?

I did find it odd, she is very attractive, but it didn't put me off. Some ladies concentrate on business, and forget their romance. I think accounts for around 50% of the ladies on the app, and why I am popular online.

I get approached by doctors, lawyers, ladies running their business, to name a few.

I think one of my Granny friends is getting possessive

 Valentyna

Rude or Concerned?

I think Valentyna could be getting possessive. If I don't reply to her letters, and comments on the dating app we share, she gets in my face, and angry, as if I am hers, and ignoring her, This is after explaining my cash shortage several times to her.

If this is the case, she is in for a HUGE shock, she is talking about going to the next stage, when we have hardly got off the ground.

If there is one lady I wish to progress with, it is NOT Valentyna, it is Svitlana, her concern over me not being in contact is because she cares for my health

A dynamic personality

Glamorous Granny

                                                  Sex with a Granny

My aim when I added my profile to a mature dating app was simple, I wanted to view how ladies see me, not for my vanity. I wished to find now ladies saw me. The result was beyond my belief, not only am I seen as attractive, many are requesting to meet me, and some state they are looking for sex.

My wish was to haopefully make a few friends, and if they arein the UK, possibly arrange a meeting. Things didn't go to my plan, my gentle personality has won me admirers all over the globe. I couldn't cope with half of the request to meet.

Did I hope to meet a mature lady, and have sex?

It was a distant dream, the reality I thought would be hard to achieve considering my age (70), friendship was my aim

Sex with a Granny

Dating a Granny

                                                                   Granny Sex

My friend, Svitlana, has made her intentions for us clear, she wishes to have sex with me. She didn't tell me straight away, but it became clear not long after our chatting began. Some men would be put off by a lady hitting on them, but I find a lady who knows what she wants arousing.

I won't deny I was a little put aback by the speed she approached the subject, I hoped we'd get to the subject of sex sometime, but I had no schedule. I let the lady choose the speed and direction of the chats to make her feel safe.

Recent events are proving interesting, I have been asked to keep in daily contact, this shows a deep connection, to me. This is not always possible, for the next month I have a cash shortage.

Svitlana isn't the only mature lady friend who says I should stay in contact, there are several others who get worried if I don't show on the app we share. I find it hard to believe I have had this effect on ladies, after only a few weeks.

When do I think I may make love again?

 It is the lady's choice

                                                        Dating a Granny

Though, my friend,Svitlana, has made her intentions clear to me. The choice of if we make love, is always the lady's, as far as I am concerned.

It would be nice to have sex before my birthday in October, but if we don't have sex at all, it is no issue for me. I would rather keep a good friend, than lose a possible lover.

Intimate photos

 A Phallic Myth

The Compliments keep coming

My friend and I have shared intimate photos, as we our friendshhip is blooming quickly. I hope I can live up to Svitlana's expectations, she thinks I have a large penis. I never brag about my sex life, but I have had no complaints about my performance as a lover. There are many advantages to dating a granny

Some Sexual thoughts

 Dating a Granny

                                                       FFM

My friend in Didcot, won't be the first older lady I have had a relationship with, I had two before, in 2010. Neither lasted long, one lady in Canada passed away, and the lady in Hampshire dropped me like a hot piece of scrap iron.

Svitlana

Glamorous Granny

To me, Svitlana is glamorus, and what is more enticing is she wishes to meet me. We chat three times a week on the app SoulmateMeets, and hope to meet soon. We have had a few discussions about what we like in the way of sex, if we get to be that close, it will be both exciting, and intoxicating.

I am fairly open to suggestions, but I do have things I won't do, even for Svitlana

Dateline - Alan Place

 I wouldn't have believed it

                                                                           Mature Dating

Two months ago, if you had told me mature ladies on a Mature Dating saw me as attractive, I wouldn't have believed you, yet here I am in such demand I cannot cope.

What did I do?

Nothing different to my normal style of friendly, respectful chat to the ladies. I think it makes a change for them to know a man who is not driven by the need for sex. Don't get me wrong, many of the ladies could win a Glamorous Granny contest. If I was offered the opportunity, I would consider the option.

I think most of it is down to running a business leaves no time for romance, and with retirement approaching, they seek company.

I have been offered dates from ladies in several countires, both close, such as Spain, and France, to far away, such as China, and Japan. The odd thing is only two ladies in the UK approached me from over 100 requests.

Though I get around 30 offers to chat a day, the only lady I am interested in is my friend, Svitlana who lives in Didcot, in Oxfordshire.

Am I hard to understand?

Female Admirers

                                                                      Dating a Granny

Despite being on a mature dating app, I keep being asked to meet girls younger than my youngest daughter (33). I keep reading the same comments to my question, "What do you see in me?"

Older men make better lovers as they are more cosiderate.

                                                               SoulMateMeets

My popularity on the site has rasised an enviable issue, I am innundated with requests for dates, and sex with mature ladies. That situation I can handle, I am only interested in meeting my friend, Svitlana (above).

The problem is having limited funds for chatting on the site, several ladies keep asking why I appear to vanish for days?

If I wasn't trying to build a friendship with Svitlana, I may have pushed harder for some of the ladies. However, there are some which I find off-putting, not that I find them unattractive, but how do you communicate with a lady who has a degree, or runs a business after making love? For over a decade, I had a friend in Seattle who earned a degree the year I was born (1956). We did get on well, that is because we were freinds, and didn't have a closer relationship.

An intersting idea

A flight plan

                                                     I couldn't cope with the requests

An amusing thought just came to me.

I had not thought about it until the last posts this evening, IF, BIG if, I had accepted the invites from ladies on the various granny dating apps, it would raise a big problem.

I've had so many requests, I would need to organise a flight plan, as intricate as any airline 😃😃. Some areas would be easy, such as flights between Spain, France, and Italy. While other areas would pose problems such as the USA, Canada, and South America.

I couldn't cope with the requests

 Frequent Flyer MIles

                                                  Mature Ladies

In my wicked way, I smile at the many requests I have had from mature ladies to meet via various mature dating apps I used last month.

At the same time, reading their posts on SoulmateMeets is a little concerning to me. I didn't realise so many grannies see me as attractive. I have no issue with making love to a lady who is a granny, so long as she is in her late 50s. That is because, I couldn't make love to a lady ying enough to be my daughter.

Looking at the requests, if I accpted half, I wouldn't be in the UK for more than two months of the year. This raises the question, when would I get a rest?

If I can't relax, my performance as a lover would drop rapidly.

This is all conjecture, I have one lady in my life, she lives in Oxfordshire

GILF

 Granny Dating

                                              The Allure of the Older Lady

Years ago, I had a friend in Canada, a few years younger than me, who became a granny. At the time, I would happily have made love to her, then things turned sour.

Marge got religion, then became a health freak. In short, she became a hypocrit. She'd go on about how Jesus will come to save us from our sins, and how evil the world has become.

WHOA!!! 

Hold your horses.

Let's run back through her life. Reading this, you would imagine she lives hand-to-mouth on the street, NOTHING could be further from the truth.

She and her husband live in a nice home in Bonneyville, Alberta, they have two cars, she works as a chef in the golf club they are members of. They have a 60-inch TV in the front room, the last I heard, she is selling her paintings, and the kicker is they have a three-person jacuzzi.

Hardly people to say the world is evil, when they have more luxuries than most people.

How did I come back so quick?

 Dating a Granny

                                                            I am a romantic

You may wonder how I came back so quick from break-up of my friendship with a lady who "claimed" to live in Bristol?

The truth is I was never convinced she was interested in me, unlike my friend, Svitlana (shown here), who is definitely interested in meeting me.

I am not upset at the break-up, I am relieved as it was getting boring. Each week, I'd read the same excuses not to meet me, it didn't take long to realise it was going nowhere fast, but I hoped she'd prove me wrong - she didn't.

I told her I had added my profile to three Granny Dating apps two weeks ago, in reality, she lost me well before the disclosure

From Frostpunk to Tropico

 A  new Romance blooms in Tropico

Granny Dating

Two weeks ago, I added my profile to three Granny Dating apps, to see if any ladies saw me as attractive. The result was beyond what I could have imagined, and I have a vivid imagination 🤣🤣.

I was inundated with requests to meet ladies around my age, unfortunately many were from the USA.

The lady who blew me away is my new friend, Svitlana, who lives in Oxfordshire. Though she lives across the UK from me, I live in Bristol, the journey to her is only a short train ride.

At the end of last week, I was looking at a future as cold as the barren wastelands of the game Frostpunk, now, hopefully, I am hoping for a relationship closer to the warmth of Tropico.

Only time can tell, for now, Svitlana and I get on well online, even if we have limited time on soulmatemeets.

Profile Deletion

 Granny Dating Sites

                                                        Fatal Attraction

Three weeks ago, to try an experiment which proved too successful, I added my profile to three Granny Dating Apps. I did this to see if ladies find me attractive, not as a matter of ego, only curiosity, as I never saw myself that way.

The issue is I became so popular with older ladies, I have to delete some profiles as I cannot keep up with the requests. Also, I have made friends with a lady in Oxfordshire who wishes to meet me

Something I hadn't considered until now

 My Popularity on Mature Dating sites

Mature Dating

I added my profile to only two Mature Dating sites, and became engulfed with requests to meet mature ladies. It gets me thinking, "It's a good thing I didn't add it to more," I wouldn't have been able to cope.

I didn't add my profile to seek a granny for a date, but I wouldn't turn an attractive lady down.

I added my profile to find out if ladies saw me as attractive, as I have never had a high opinion of my attractiveness, which could be a reason I am popular with ladies who wish to chat online