What are my plans?

Has my popularity on Mature Dating sites changed my decisions?

The rise of Alanism

Romance in Didcot

My popularity on dating sites last month has not changed how I see myself. I cannot understand why mature ladies find me attractive?

My immediate plan is to get my finances settled, I can do this by limiting my online chat to my friend, Svitlana, in Oxfordshire.

Once I have achieved this, I can think about arranging a meeting in Didcot, to see if we can turn our friendship into a relationship that will last.

The meeting won't be happening for several weeks as Svitlana has a holiday booked to return home to the Ukraine this month. I would like to meet her before my birthday in October, but it is the lady's choice when she feels ready

I only have eyes for you

An exclusive friend

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

                                             Alan Place - Exclusive friend

It could be understood that with my popular appeal in the Mature Dating scene, I could have several relationships, but that is not me.

I am only interested in meeting Svitlana, my friend in Oxfordshire. Svitlana wasn't the first lady who contacted me, she is the first in the UK, most of the others are either in Asia, the USA, or South America. I won't deny, living in the UK is a BIG PLUS, but more important is we clicked from our opening chat.

Some men could have been put off, by a lady who isn't worried about expressing her sexual desires, but within reason, I find it very arousing.

The #OlderLady tag

 The #granny tag

                                                      This is Your Life

The lady in the photograph is former Bollywood actress, Sharmila Tagore. Her father was an influential writer in the India of the 1940s. She shows ladies who wear glasses can be sexy.

Not all ladies over 50 are grannies.

I was as guilty as anyone in the assumption a lady in her late 50s is a granny. That was until a lady on a mature dating app we share, asked if I was put off by her not having children, when she is over 60?

I did find it odd, she is very attractive, but it didn't put me off. Some ladies concentrate on business, and forget their romance. I think accounts for around 50% of the ladies on the app, and why I am popular online.

I get approached by doctors, lawyers, ladies running their business, to name a few.

Has my popularity on Mature Dating sites changed my decisions?

 Mature Dating Sites 

What is my attraction?

You may imagine knowing my popualrity on Mature Dating Apps would have changed some desicions I make, but it hasn't.

I joined two apps to verify a thoughtline, I had harboured for most of my life.

The last thing I was after was a female companion, as I think I have one in Bristol, even if she is loathe to meet. I did point out, as our friendship is not moving to the relationship she wishes, though I may not be looking for a date, if a lady asks, I shall consider the option.

I was pleasantly suprised to find mature ladies find me attractive