Going to the next stage

 A lasting friendship

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

                                Does a mature lady friend qualify for a girlfriend?

Svitlana, my older lady friend in Didcot is talking about taking our friendship to the next stage. I am happy to do that for my friend,  as our friendship has been growing since we had our first online chat on SoulmateMeets, and is continuing on Charming Talks.

What am I looking for?

 How do you define a Relationship?

A lasting friendship

I often have the same discussion with a lady in Bristol.

We have VERY different definitions of what constitutes a relationship.

She says, she thinks we ARE in a relationship, my argument is how can we be in a relationship, when not only have we not met, but you keep cancelling our dates?

The only relationship I would say we ARE in is a business agreement, that is not even close to a friendship this month.

In my concept of a romantic relationship, two people meet to get slowly get to know, understand, relate, and hopefully turn friendship into a love. That is not how I see my friendship with the lady.

What I was seeking is a lasting friendship which, hopefully, turned into a romance. We started out like that, over the months, the friendship has turned into a business stance, I was not after that. If things don't change soon, I will end our friendship, and move on

Am i in a relationship?

Meeting Svitlana

                                            What am I looking for?

One of the things I am loking for is a lasting friendship, whether this involves sex, is upt o the lady. I will be happy if Svitlana, and I,remain friends.

I would enjoy sex, but it is not essential to a lasting relationship as I see it. Honesty is the key to a lasting relationship, I'd be happy is all we had was hugs and kisses