I feel like I am on a winter cruise

 It is the lady's choice

The Lady's choice

What are my plans?

I am sitting in my chair with a blanket over my lap, thinking "this reminds me of seeing videos about cruises for senior citizens."

The blanket isn't only for warmth, after my accident last month, my left knee cannot stand the pressure of my laptop on the joint.

I hadn't considered the possibility of a cruise before now, since my wife passed away in January 2025, my mind has been on clearing the house.

Before now, the idea of going on a cruise didn't appeal to me, I was one for seeing as much as I could, not sitting aboard a ship, last month changed my outlook. I have to admit, I can't do as much walking as I used to, so sitting on a boat is a good replacement. The next issue is where to go?

Now I am in a relationship with Svitlana, it is a matter to discuss for later, the first thing we aim to do is meet in Didcot, where she lives

Silver Trauma

The last of us

What are my plans?

My plan for next week

Silver Trauma is the medical term for accidents by senior citizens, doctors need to check for secondary related injuries.

After having an accident close to South Bristol Community Hospital, Hengrove, yesterday, my plans for next week are dominated by hospital visits.

On Momday, it is back to Southmead Hospital for a scan on my injured wrist, and booking an appointment for Friday at our doctor's to get the stitches removed from over my left eye. I planned to book an appointment, to have my medication updated, but I need to be careful as I may have an appoinment soon in Hengrove to get my lipoma removed 

Today is fry day

 My plan for next week

Latino Street Bites

Latino Street Bites

This afternoon, I shall be having lunch at my friend's cafe in Redcliffe, Bristol.

This is something I plan to do twice a week, now I have recoverred from my accident. Over the last year, I have become such a regular customer at Latino Street Bites, my friend, MIchelle, who runs the cafe misses me if I don't go.

Summer Holiday

 Svitlana's wish

What are my plans?

An evening with Svitlana

I hope to take a short break late this summer, my friend, Svitlana, is adamant she wants to meet, and wishes for me to sleepover, so we can relax without me worrying over catching the last train from Didcot back to Bristol. The extta fare is minimal, and we can share a second day, so it is a win-win for me.

What are my plans?

Has my popularity on Mature Dating sites changed my decisions?

The rise of Alanism

Romance in Didcot

My popularity on dating sites last month has not changed how I see myself. I cannot understand why mature ladies find me attractive?

My immediate plan is to get my finances settled, I can do this by limiting my online chat to my friend, Svitlana, in Oxfordshire.

Once I have achieved this, I can think about arranging a meeting in Didcot, to see if we can turn our friendship into a relationship that will last.

The meeting won't be happening for several weeks as Svitlana has a holiday booked to return home to the Ukraine this month. I would like to meet her before my birthday in October, but it is the lady's choice when she feels ready