My Panties collection

Intimate photos

                                                                 My turn-on

Some of my admirers have sent me photos of themselves in panties, I am thinking of forming a private album of these photos.

Remember, I did nothing, the ladies sent the images to me, I wouldn't ask, especially as some of the ladies sent explicit sex images. I may make an album of those too

Dreamcatcher

 Intimate photos

                                                               Explicit sex

I appear to have become a dreamcatcher among my older lady friends online. Many send me intimate photos of themselves, without being asked, I would never ask for that type of photograph, no matter how close the friendship became.

Some men may find that situation a threat, as they think being the man, they should be in control. I have never thought of a relationship that way. To my thinking, the best way for any relationship to flourish is if both partners feel free to discuss their desires.

On the flip side

I have become part of a young girl's fantasy, this isn't the first time this type of fantasy has become attached to me. The scenario she describes is typical of young girl over an older man.

I like being part of an an older lady's fantasy, this type of fixation is unhealthy. The girls involved in the previous incidents turned out to have mental health problems.

Stockings or Pantyhose?

 My turn-on

Alan Place - Panties Freak

This is not only my opinion, but it has a basis in medicine.

Stockings are healthier than pantyhose, the reason for this is they allow moisture to disperse from a lady's area, rather than be trapped there to spread germs, ladies who suffer thrush would agree.

There is also a sexual reason for my liking, I enjoy the feeling of the fleshy areas of the inner thigh. I've been told by several ladies on mature dating apps, they are into me licking them over beore making love

Teen Fantasy

 Alan Place - Panties Freak

An early thrill 

Before you get ideas that an old man (70) wishes to have sex with a teenage girl, that is NOT what Teen Fantasy means to this post.

In my case, the teen fantasy I refer to is a fantasy I have had since my teens.

I have a thing about seeing up a lady's skirt to see her panties. Even at 70, getting a look upskirt, I find arousing. My late wife didn't find it arousing to let me see her panties.

The fantasy lead to an arousing situation many years ago in the Bristol Museum. A lady I knew, who knew I fancied her appeared on a balcony at the museum, in a position, she knew I could see through her dress. I never considered it at coincidental. 

Too many things had to be set in motion for it to have been accidental.

She would have to have known which of the six museums I was working in that day.

To know which floor I was patrolling wouldn't have taken more than a few minutes.

To work out how to arouse me wouldn't have taken long, either

Satisfaction Guaranteed

 A Phallic Myth

                                                                Sexology

I don't have the largest penis, but I have had no complaints from the few ladies I had sex with.

It doesn't take a lot to get me aroused, this photo is a good example, I am more aroused by a flash of panties, than all the pictures of ladies showing their pubic area.

It's thr thought of what lies hidden that arouses me.

There are cases were this is not a turn-off, but the lady needs to be interested in me. In a private message, the photo is arousing.

This goes back to my teens, when others were "bragging" about having sex, I doubt few did, all I saw was the occasional flash of panties

Do I find mature ladies talking about sex off-putting?

 Granny Sex

                                                     My turn-on

This is a multi-layered question, which is not easy to answer.

In short, no, I don't find a lady who wishes to talk about sex as off-putting, I get turned-on by it.

However, there are limitations.

We have to be friends, if a lady comes onto too quick it can be upsetting, as it raises the question, is she interested in me?

I have to see her as attractive.

Ideally, she should be in the age I am looking for 50s to late 70s.

Too much sex chat can be boring.

If all she wishes is sex chat, the chat won't last long.

My turn-on

 An aroused partner

It is the lady's choice

What ladies like about me is I show them respect, and don't push my desires. My turn-on is seeing a lady aroused, what better way to arouse a lady than to be able to help her fulfil some of her sexual desires?

I am not too old-fashioned as not to be willing to try most forms of arousal, but I do have things I won't do. I make it clear to the lady, what we do, and when we do it is her choice, and she can call a halt anytime.