My writing is arousing

 Alan Place - Sex Object?

I never considered myself attractive to ladies

If I am to believe what I have been told for years, which I can believe, I have been told by lady readers they find some of my books sexaully arousing to the point of having an orgasm.

While I do NOT write sex stories, I tried, and failed, some of my stories feature sex. If I feel the story requires intimacy to progress, I won't change to avoid a sexual contest, I don't go in for lurid details.

I prefer tantalising tingles to lurid details of sex. 

In recent times, I hae been told several ladies online find me attractive; I think this could be because while I do not lead the convesation to sex, I don't ban it in the chat. If the lady wishes to talk on sex, I am fine, but I will not lead the talk there, and if we talk about it tonight, that does not mean I will tomorrow, unless the lady wishes to which is a reason I think ladies feel safe chatting to me.