I am tempted

 Meeting Svitlana 

A sleepover

Several days ago, my friend, Svitlana, suggested I have a sleepover when I visit her in Didcot. I won't deny the suggestion pleased me, it would give us more time together, and make for a less stressful day for me on the train, but as I have respect for my friend, I suggested we meet a few times, before the prospect becomes a reality.

I would not have made the suggestion, no matter how long we were together

Why do ladies feel safe with me?

 I treat people with respect

Respect to me is not always forthcoming

When I begin a chat, whether on Facebook, Twitter, or WhatsApp, I treat people with the respect I expect in return.

The respect is not always returned, at times I have been offended, and that takes a lot for me; especially when the rudeness is at the beginning of the chat.

Last year, I had two coloured young ladies expecting me to want to go out with as they were young, coloured, and had large breasts. They had no idea what I liked, but assumed, wrongly, I was into large breasts and bottoms. Large breasts, within reason, are attrractive to me, but these were oversize, and turned me off.

I have nothing against, colour, race, or religion as long as the lady is respectful to me.

I have been told ladies prefer chatting to me as I don't force myself on them. and never expect a lady online is looking for no more than a pleasant chat.