What appeals to me?

 Personality over Glamour

Glamour is the attraction

In Praise of Older Women

If glamour is the attraction, personality is the magnet that bonds the relationship of two people.

I may have been drawn to my friend, Clara, in Whitchurch, Bristol for her looks, it is her personality which is keeping us together. We bonded closer through shared loss last month. I have been approached on Signal, Telegram, Twitter, WhatsApp, and Zangi by ladies asking for a date, but none wish to know me, as Clara does. Most are after money, as soon as they find I am disabled,and a pensioner, they drop me, but Clara and I have bonded closer with this knowledge.

I am 12 years older than Clara, this doesn't bother her, whereas most of the ladies who contacted me are younger than my daughters