What is my attraction?

 Clara - my love

Alan at 69

I am mystifed as to what ladies on Signal, Telegram, Twitter, WhatsApp, and Zangi find attractive about me. Could that be the reason why ladies see me as attractive, that I am not pushing myself as being attractive?

Part of the attraction could be that I show the ladies the respect I feel they deserve, and never chat about sex, unless they choose to.

I have had ladies from mid-20's to late 60's, from the USA, Canada, and the UK asking to meet me. There is one lady who I wish to meet, my close friend, Clara, who lives in Whitchurch, Bristol. It isn't only that Clara lives near to where I live in Hartcliffe that is important, we have formed a relationship based on love, and trust.