The Appeal of Older men

 Personality

Safety

This week on Twitter, as many times before, I have been in conversation with a younger lady who told me she feels safe talking to me.

Over the decades I have been chatting online, I have been told several times by ladies, they feel safe talking to me, why?

A) - Unlike some men, if I see a lady online, all I see is a lady seeking company, NOT a lady looking to hook-up for sex.

B) - I don't force myself on a lady.

C) - I am not the type of man who is all about himself, to the exclusion of the lady.

D) - I am easy to chat to, I have few things I won't chat about. I won't talk about money, that subject usually leads to the ruin of a conversation. I am not against talking about either religion, or politics, but I would rather not, those topics can lead to animosity.

My Golden Rule

I will not direct a chat to sex, but if the lady wishes to discuss it, that is fine with me. If we discussed the subject tonight, I do not assume the lady is open to chatting about tomorrow, unless she chooses.

We older men may not be as energetic as young men, but older people have more to talk about.