No wonder I am hungry

 Alan Place - A Writer in time

                                               A Return to Bloging

I have been so busy chatting, and blogging, I forgot to have a meal, that isn't unusal for me.

Technically, I didn't stop blogging, but the Mature Dating app, SoulmateMeets, has given me a surge of energy to blog about the mature ladies who find me attractive.

I have had offers for sex from several v attractive ladies, if I wasn't building a relationship with my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot, I could have accepted

The #OlderLady tag

 The #granny tag

                                                      This is Your Life

The lady in the photograph is former Bollywood actress, Sharmila Tagore. Her father was an influential writer in the India of the 1940s. She shows ladies who wear glasses can be sexy.

Not all ladies over 50 are grannies.

I was as guilty as anyone in the assumption a lady in her late 50s is a granny. That was until a lady on a mature dating app we share, asked if I was put off by her not having children, when she is over 60?

I did find it odd, she is very attractive, but it didn't put me off. Some ladies concentrate on business, and forget their romance. I think accounts for around 50% of the ladies on the app, and why I am popular online.

I get approached by doctors, lawyers, ladies running their business, to name a few.

Their concerns have been cleared

 The Long Weekend

                                                    Anxious Friends

I have resolved the matter which caused much worry with my mature lady friends. They are aware of my cash shortage, and have accepted, for now, I am limited to the time I spend in the chat room.

The Cancelled trip

 Latino Street BItes

                                             Asda in Bedminster

As I have no reason to go to Whitchurch, I will go back to doing my food shopping in Bedminster, Bristol. By doing this, I can have lunch in my freind's cafe, in the undercroft of St. Mary's Church in Redcliffe.

I would have gone back this weekend, but I had a family matter to sort out. A young lady I chatted to on Twitter is interested in meeting for sex, but I am not into being a father figure.

Know about me

 Is our friendship about to break?

                                      Friday Thought

I love deeply, hurt deeply, I have gone beyond holding a grudge

The thing to remember is though you may hurt me, as I have little self-confidence, I brush defeat off easily, as I expect rejection.

A lady I knew years ago said, "Alan is a good friend, but a terrible person to have as an enemy," that was over 20 year ago. Now, I don't fight I withdraw to my cave, lick my wounds, and rarely leave

If the meeting in Didcot doesn't happen will I try again?

 Meeting Svitlana

Older Ladies

I hope the meeting in Didcot with Svitlana does happen. I am prepared for it not to, though, as I have my doubts. Most of the doubts are based in a lack of self-confidence.

If the meeting doesn't happen, I will not rush into another meeting, that is not to say I am saying I am not willing to meet another lady, only it will take longer than my usual time.

Will I make love again?

A good question

                                         When do I think I may make love again?

                                                                   Meeting Svitlana

This is a multi-layered question, to which I can answer one part. The rest can only be answered if I meet my friend, Svitalana.

The part I can answer is I would like to make love again, to the right lady.

Whether I do depends on many aspects beyond my control.

Will I meet Svitlana?

Will we got on as well in person, as we appeart to do online?

Will she wish for sex, as she keeps telling me in our chats?

When, if at all, will she decide to go that stage?