My first week without a walk to Asda in Whitchurch

 Asda in Bedminster

                                                                       Latino Street Bites

Here we are, a week since my last walk to Asda, Whitchurch. I won't be going back to Whitchurch, I have too many bad memories of the area. Instead, I will use the Asda in Bedminster, it will mean catching a bus there, and back, but it has its advantages. Bedminster has shops I can look around, and I can revisit my friend's cafe - Latino Street Bites - for lunch twice a week.

I will miss the walk out, and the ladies I got to on the tills, but the walk back was getting too much for me, mentally. Having to walk back thinking was I deluding myself thinking a lady my age could find me attractive?

The answer to my question is YES, ladies my age, do find me attrractive, this was shown by the responses to my profile appearing on the Mature Dating scene

What is my type of lady?

 Do I have a type?

Ladies over 50

Until I lost my wife last year, I didn't give much thought to if I had a "type" of lady I may look for, that has changed since adding my profile to two mature dating apps.

I prefer ladies over 50, living in the UK.

Friendly personality, able to chat freely online.

Fuller figure, though not what I call too large bodied.

I don't object if the lady wishes to chat about sex, I try not to lead the conversation that way, but if the lady makes the choice I will follow

An Attractive Prospect

It wasn't first come first served

                                                                    Svitlana

When my friend,Svitlana, contacted me on a Mature Dating app,she wasn't the first lady who asked to meet me. I added my profile to some apps, to find out if any mature ladies saw me as attractive, not for vanity, but for genreal interest.

At the time of our contact, I was not looking for another relationship, I hadn't crossed the possibility out, I wasn't looking for anything serious. The main problem is most of the ladies are based in the USA, so a serious relationship is not an option for me. Living in the UK is a HUGE plus for Svitlana, also where she lives is not too far from where I live in Bristol.

She is a forthright lady, who knows what she likes, and is not afraid to ask for it, that to me is arousing. I have no objection to a lady asking for something she enjoys, within reason see this post, while I may be old-fashioned in some ways, I am also open to certain suggestions. I would rather a lady ask about partaking in something she likes, or wishes to try, than for her not to ask about something.

Mature Ladies

 Not for me

                                                                      50+ ladies

I may be considered old-fashioned, I am, on the Mature Dating scene there are many young, and attractive, ladies seeking older men for sex.

I appreciate that we are better lovers, as we are more considerate to our ladies, than young men, who think speed is everything. I appreciate the allure of an mature man is enticing for a young lady, and I can see why having a young lady as a lover is a big turn-on for many men.

The thought of going out with a young lady as young as my daughters (mid-30s) does nothing for me. I am interested in ladies in the age range of 50 to 80

Readership drops

 Back to Normal

                                               After the goldrush

The number of blog readers has returned to its usual low figures, after the mysterious surge of the last week. I am tempted to think the heatwave, or perhaps solar flare activity caused the sudden rise from virtually nothing to unbelievable figures for readers.

BDSM

 Bondage

                                               Domination

Some of the aspects of the BDSM scene, I do find exciting. I could be into bondage or domination, if the lady gets aroused that way. After all, being told how a lady gets excited makes it easier for me to arouse her.

I draw the line at Sadism and Masochism. I am NOT into either giving pain, or recieving it, a little blood letting during rough sex is acceptable, but not the intentional harming of your partner, well not for me.

I also draw the line at what can be politely described as "dirty sex," though I enjoy seeing a lady peeing, I am NOT into either being urinated over, or seeing a lady have a poo. There are things which should remain private

Svitlana isn't the only one

 Ukraine

Svitlana

My friend Svitlana, isn't the only lady I spoke to from the Ukraine, last year I spoke to four young ladies who were in the fighting. The last one I knew was trying to scam me, how did I know?

She went from pleading for money for supplies one week, to saying she wanted to fly to meet me, the next week, then back to pleading, before saying she'd been invalided out after being shot in both knees. If the shooter is that good, why shoot her in the knees, when a headshot can kill?

I don't suspect Svitlana is trying to scam me, she appears to be genuinely interested in me, possibly too into me 😍