Hell Harbour

Lupe Velez

Buenos Dias Mexico

!s that Madonna?

Hell Harbour is a 1930's romance, featuring the Mexican Sptfire, Lupe Velez. The film is the story of a young girl trying yo avoid a "marriage of convience," by escaping to Havana, Cuba, and falling for a sea captian

Have I missed chatting to Pamela aka Clara?

Pamela Olsted 

Something good from my time with Clara

Svitlana

It has been a month since I stopped chatting to a lady who "claimed" to live in Whitchurch, Bristol, not far from where I am in Hartcliffe.

I had long considered her a scammer, at least once a month, she'd ask for money for "car repairs," then there was bus money.

The answer to the question is No, I do not miss chatting to the lady.

The best thing which came from that time is I added my profile to two mature dating apps, and the lady above, who lives in Oxfordshire, contacted me.

Svitlana and I hope to turn our online friendship into the relationship that the other lady "claimed" to want.

Tomorrow's World

If Romance calls

Getting over Pamela Olsted

                                                                                       Sister Act

Hopefully, by tomorrow evening I can be rid of the stench of Pamela Olsted aka Clara Kent.

Her sister has said, she will pay off Pamela's debts. I won't lie, having that money back WILL make a big improvement in both my mental health state, and my finances. For the first time since November, we can eat each week, as I was sending the money, we had to go a week without food.

It has taken months for me to regain the trust of my children, they told me she was a SCAMMER, and I had the feeling too, but I was willling to give her the opportunity to prove me wrong, which she never did.

In discussion with Svitlana

Not all chats are about sex

A new direction

A Sailor's Love

Though our online chats include sex, some nights, Svitlana and I chat about our interests. Last night, among other topics, we shared stories about fishing, as our grandfathers were fishermen.

Svitlana's grandfather fished in the waters off the coast of the Ukraine, while mine fished in the North Sea, we also discussed the Crab Stick fraud. The so-called crab sticks, contain NO crab, having tasted crab I could tell that. They are made from Pollack, a fish in the Cod family found off the coast of New Foundland.

My romance - A Sailor's Love - is a modern romance with elements of spirituality, romance, and environmental concerns about the erosion of the coast.

The south coast of the UK is getting smaller, the coast is made from chalk, and over time, it has been eroded. One developer started to build a hotel near the coast, only to find the site was undermined by caves

The New Age of Alan

The Great Depression

I should be grateful

How long will it be before my Depression will overcome me?

The emotional strain of knowing, SCAMMER, Pamela Olsted was easy to get over, we had not met, and I knew we wouldn't meet, long before I cut her from my life.

The financial damage however, is taking a great toll on my health, I have no money for food for two weeks of the month.

Her sister has said, she wishes to re-pay the money for helping out Pamela, I take that with a large dose of salt.

It didn't take long before the emotional scars healed over, and I moved on. I wasn't seeking another romance, after my wife passed away I decided I was too old for a lady to consider me. I was proven wrong, a lady living in Didcot, Oxfordshire, has taken to me.

Svitlana is five years older than me, and wishes to meet and form a friendship, we hope to change into a relationship.

The Poor Relative

The Cold Facts

Sister Act

Meeting Svitlana

The time and money I spent with Pamela Olsted has raised questions of my insecurity.

I am wondering if lady I love, Svitlana, considers me "the poor relative?" While she, and I, wish for a long chat, I am forced, after giving PO such a lot of money, to keep cutting our chats to save credit for tomorrow.

This could be my insecrities playing mind games, but they do have a good point. I do wonder if Svitlana is "out of my league."

The Eclipse of Alan

                                              Ruby Wedding Anniversary

Happy Anniversary

Would I re-marry?

This weekend should have been a joyous family occasion, my Ruby Wedding Anniversary, 40 years. However, my wife died in January, 2025, so this will be my second anniversary without her 😢😢. 

She would have wished me to go on with my life, and not mourn her for all the time I have left. The children have said they have no objection to me having another lady friend, they know no lady can replace my lovely Linda.

I may go offline for the weekend to mourn the day.

I think I may have found another lady friend, or to be exact, Svitlana found me, as I wasn't after romance at the time she contacted me on SoulmateMeets.

I added my profile to the site, to see if ladies liked me, as I never saw myself as attractive to them. The response was amazing, whethe it was because I was new to the site, or genuine interest in me, I was deluged by requests from mature ladies asking to meet me, and several expressed a desire to have sex with me.

Despite hundreds of requests, the lady I am interested in is Svitlana. We get on well during our limited chats on Charming Talks, and are looking to meeting soon. I hadn't thought of re-marrying, but if Svitlana asked, it is something to talk about