Visiting Exeter

I don't know why

Visiting Devon

For decades, I have the wish to visit Exeter in Devon, I can't think why, unless it is beacuse I have not seen much of the county other than a few building sites, which I was dragged to by my late father when he worked for George Wimpey & co, in the 70's.

I can't recall the man's name, but he is correct, when he says "there is nothing to see along the North Somerset coast, I should know I lived there for over 20 years. The area is a series of small villages distant from each other.

The image on the post is NOT Exeter, it is Scarborough. I went back a few years ago, and I'd happily go again

Use it or lose it

The Main Attraction

50+ Ladies in Bristol

As the proverb says "Use it or lose it," that is what is going to happen to a lady I know who "claims" to live in Bristol.

After several months of trying to meet her, and many lies as to why she didn't want to meet, I am running out of patience with her, if she does live in Whitchurch, she's had plenty of time to meet me at Asda, as I live in Hartcliffe I can walk to Asda from my house.

She keeps saying we're in a relationship, how can you be in a relationship, when the other person keeps making excuses not to meet? At best, in my view, we have a friendhsip, which is soon to be terminated unless she changes the situation soon

 

The Main Attraction

 The Allure of the Older Lady

Granny Site UK

One of my attractions to the ladies is I love a man who is willing to cook, and I enjoy cooking very much.

Cooking is a way for me to be imaginative, and do something positive in my life.

Among my qualities are compassion, understanding, and being respectful to the ladies, all of which are natural to me. I never had a dominant personality.

Ladies also appreciate that I get pleasure from arousing them, as much as being aroused by them. I am not all about sex, to me the sex is part of a three-part-programme which includes cuddles before and after making love

Granny Site UK

 50+ Ladies in Bristol

Finding Love in later life

As my friendship with a lady in Bristol is shaky, to say the last, after several months, we are still to meet, and I keep getting excuses why she can't meet me, though I send her "petrol money," I decided to enrol in a site called Granny Site UK this morning.

I wasn't expecting a lot, but I am amazed at how many mature ladies find me attractive.

Sex with an older man

 My changing perspective

Only Fans

When my wife passed away in January, 2025, I went offline for several months, while I considered the New Dircection my life would take. When I came out of my self-imposed isolation, I had no desire for a new lady in my life, I had resigned myself to being alone, other than the family.

However, life didn't agree with my plan.

I found that contrary to my opinion of myself, ladies online find me attractive.

I have had many offers for a date, some I turned down as I didn't find the lady attractive, others I turned down as I thought a lady who "claims" to live close to me in Bristol, was keen to change our friendship, into a relationship, that never happened.

Several propositions to have sex have come from young ladies seeking sex with an older man, while that was off-putting for me, at the time, my attitude to having sex with a young lady is changing, especially as there is a young lady in Bedmnister who is keen to have sex with me, and Bedminster is close to Hartcliffe, where I live.

There is another plus to going to Bedminster, I can rekindle my friendship with Michelle, who runs the Latino Street Bites, in Redcliffe.

What lies beneath?

 50+ Ladies in Bristol 

Romance in Frostpunk?

As far as I am concerned, my friendship with a lady who "claims" to live in Whitchurch, Bristol is over. She keeps saying we are in a relationship, how can you be in a relationship, when the other person refuses to meet you?

I am not seeking romance, but if a lady over 50, in Bristol wished to ask for a date, I am open to meet her.

The Lovebomb

What is the lovebomb?

It's the initial sense of romance a person gets when they feel they are loved, it is a rush of adrenaline, I admit I fell for the scam. At first, I believed she lived in Bristol, but was wary of meeting me, as the weeks turned into months, my caution hardened, even now several months after she contacted me on Twitter, and now on WhatsApp, we have NOT met, despite me sending her "petrol money."

Two months ago, she admitted she has been misleading me, I accepted her reason of being unsure, but questioned why she hadn't been open with me about her reason for not meeting?

My attitude to her has changed, it has hardened, until three months ago I would iniaite contact in the morning, now I reply to her messages.

Asda

We planned to meet at Asda in Whitchurch, a point, supposedly, near to both of us. My view on the possibility of meeting has changed from desire, to hope, to apathy. I have long given up hope of meeting her, I can't stop her doing her shopping there, and perhaps meeting by accident, but I do NOT expect her to turn up for any meeting she asked for. 

Help an Indie Writer

 Book Promoters of Twitter

Alan Place - Indie Writer

Each week on Twitter, I get approached by promoters, saying they can help promote my writing to a new level, and asking why I stopped writing?

The best way to help me, and encourage me to write again is to buy a few inexpensive eBooks of mine.

The issue is, while they are correct, greater exposure would possibly help my sales, I have to pay a minimum of $200, which means I will be $200 down, before I begin, that is more than I earned as an Indie Writer in 15 years