That doesn't impress me

 What do you see in me?

Do ladies find me attractive?

What comes next?

I can't tell you what comes next, it is out of my control. What happens now, is in the hands of my friend in Oxfordshire.

I would like to meet her, to try to build a relationship, but I have doubts our meeting in Didcot will happen.

For weeks, I onderwod why I was being approached by business ladies, I put it down to running a business left little time for romance. I accepted, I'd be nothing more than a "bit of rough," to the ladies.

This week, another aspect arose, they are on subscription sites, so chatting to them pays for their attention.

So, they question arises, did they find me attractive, or was I intriguing as the new man on the block?

The True Path of Romance

 SoulmateMeets

SoulmateMeets is the worst site

                                  I am who I appear to be online

For weeks, I have had doubts about SoulmateMeets, and my thoughts were cemented by reviews on Trustpilot, SoulmateMeets is the worst app for mature dating. It is no more than a front to get your money, the possibility of a real connection is next-to-nothing. One person said the best way to start a romance, is to get out there. That lets me out, I am paranoid insecure about my appeal to ladies, and the last month destroyed any hopes, now I know I was being played.

What do I do?

Charming Talks 

If the meeting in Didcot doesn't happen will I try again?

Granny sex

I hope I am wrong, but I am having doubts about a proposed meeting with my friend, Svitlana, in Oxfordshire.

We get on well, and appear to be in synch, but I have nagging doubts about our friendship. Having been duped by a lady posing to care for me recently, I am probably being paranoid, but I think she could be paid by Charming Talks..The.reason I think she is being  paid, rather than being serious about meeting me is she always has lots of money for credit to send letters, and virtual gifts, I hope I am wrong, and she does love me. I couldn't say what I'd do if the meeting in Didcot fell through, but I am prepared for it to be a no-show.eI a

Absent without Leave

Would I be missed?

SoulMateMeets

Could I be tempted from Svitlana?

As far as we are concerned, there is only one way I could be tempted to leave Svitlana, if she chose to end our friendship, and she has said she has no plan to do that.

I expect several ladies on SoulmateMeets are wondering why I have gone A.W.O.L?

There are two main answers, Charming Talks offered free chat tokens for the first week, and I needed those as I was struggling to pay Soulmate, and needed to convince Svitlana I hadn't lost interest in her.

The other reason is I found some of the ladies unattractive personality wise, in particular a lady in France who was to explicit in her sex chat. Within reason, I find a lady who chooses to talk about sex arousing, this lady was adamant we should go to the "next stage," when I had made no comment on how I felt about our remote friendship.

I only have eyes for you

An exclusive friend

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

                                             Alan Place - Exclusive friend

It could be understood that with my popular appeal in the Mature Dating scene, I could have several relationships, but that is not me.

I am only interested in meeting Svitlana, my friend in Oxfordshire. Svitlana wasn't the first lady who contacted me, she is the first in the UK, most of the others are either in Asia, the USA, or South America. I won't deny, living in the UK is a BIG PLUS, but more important is we clicked from our opening chat.

Some men could have been put off, by a lady who isn't worried about expressing her sexual desires, but within reason, I find it very arousing.

Be Prepared

The Cancelled trip

Meeting in Didcot

An evening with Svitlana

I may be being fatalistic, but I am prepared for the trip to Didcot, to meet a friend, to be a non-event. If Svitlana does not turn up, I can visit a nearby castle, and still have a nice day out.

I have an odd feeling things are going too smoothly for us, I could be over-cautious, but I have been let down recently.

When you are in love with a beautiful woman

 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Linda

Svitlana

Two stunning ladies

I consider myself to be fortunate to love, and be loved by two ladies I class as beautiful. Looks aren't everything, both my late wife, Linda, who passed away in January, 2025, and my new lady friend, Svitlana have a lovely personality, that is what matters most to me.

I didn't intend to have another relationship after my wife's death, I added my profile to a dating app to clear a question in my mind, and from the get-go, Svitlana, and I, hit it off.