You say you miss me.

 I have moved on

Getting over Pamela Olsted

From the responses to my appearance on a Mature Dating site, I wouldn't be suprised if Pamela Olsted did miss our chats.

I was sure she would try to contact me, and she has, but I didn't reply, why should I, she lied to me for months.

Besides, I have moved on, and have formed true freindships with ladies on the site.

After months of being lied to, I would never trust anything she said, other than she misses me, and I am attractive. My popularity on SoulmateMeets is not only about my attractiveness, it also about how pleasant, and respectful to the ladies I am

Bollywood BBW

 BBW ladies

Kira Junega

This beautiful lady is Bollywood actress, Kira Junega, proving again that BBW ladies are as attractive, if not more so, than the impression of slim young things the cinema craves.

Yes, I have a thing for BBW ladies, it comes from the wish to be able to cuddle the lady. As one comment on Facebook said, "Only dogs like bones."

What do I seek?

 Soulmate

I can be a problem

I have written much about the reactions of mature ladies to my appearance on SoulmateMeets, but little about what I am looking for, now is the time.

What I am looking for is a soulmate, not necessarily a sexual partner, though I am capable of making love. 

The thing which matters most to me, is that we get along as friends, beyond that is a bonus. At my age (70), the idea of sex, is a hope, with my health issues, I cannot blame a lady with desires for not wanting to be with me. I can be a problem, I am very much a Byronic Hero type, who loves passionatley, and has a darker side.

As a sidetrack, this may amuse you, I am reading a biography of Lord Byron written by Edna O'Brien, yes, a man reading a lady writer.

 That to some people is strange, but what about Agatha Christie, P,D. James, and Mary Anne Evans AKA George Elliot.

The last thing I look at is the the gender of a writer. 

To round-off from the opposite side of the coin, there are some male writers I can't read.

Men don't make passes at girls with glasses

A lady wearing glasses is not a turn-off

                                                            I do

                                 My Wife will be Pleased

I have never viewed ladies wearing glasses as an issue, my late wife, of 38 years, wore glasses all the time we knew each other. I had two girlfriends who wore glasses. Before you start a thought process, that is not a trait I look for. I didn't realise a young lady in Bristol Museum wished to ask me out, but I didn't realise this, she was attrctive to me, and yes, she wore spectacles. There was a young lady in Clevedon who liked me, but she was Taboo, she was the girlfreind of a close friend.

The main attraction for me is the personality of the lady, and if we get on

Carmen Maura

 Spanish BBW

A fuller figure

In most cases, a lady is classed as a BBW, Big Beautiful Woman, because she has a full figure, and doesn't comply to the sexist image issued by some men, who feel threatend by any lady who is not pencil thin.

I know it is personal opinion, but m opinion is I prefer a lady with a fuller figure such as Carmen Maura from Spain, or Catherine Denueuve from France.

I never liked Audrey Hepburn, as an actress, or an attrcative lady. There again, I never enjoyed the style of films she made.

To be honest, I don't think I could love a skinny lady, I like to have a body I can cuddle in moments of tenderness.

I don't see the threat

 Openness can be arousing

                                                  A different outlook

Some men see an assertive lady as a threat to their masculinity, I am not one of them.

I see a lady who kows what she wants, and isn't afraid to ask for it as arousing. The fact I am willing to attempt to be able to please the ladies, has made me several friends on SoulmateMeets. I keep being asked to meet ladies, and some have openly admitted they wish for sex with me. I never expected this reaction when I joined the app, I was only trying to find out if ladies see me as attractive, to settle a question in my mind.

I am still questioning whether my attraction is as "the new man on the block," or because of my gentle personality? As I always doubt myself, I think I'll leave that answer to the mature ladies I befriend

What have I caused?

Taking a break

                            Why do I appear to be off SoulmateMeets? 

Last night, I said I would be off SoulmateMeets until Monday, for two reasons, I don't have the money to chat for hours each night, and from time-to-time, I need a day off. 

Within minutes my friend, Svetlana, replied, "I miss you already." and my friend Svitlana replied, "I can't wait to hear from you again, love."

In a month, I have grown from an unkown on the site, to a beloved friend to mature ladies