A Phallic Myth

 A Huge Penis

An Energy drain

It is a myth, men with a large penis make great sex partners.

More often, the energy needed to maintian an erection is so draining, they are unable to satisfy the lady.

To clarify a point, my penis is NOT large, but I can satisfy a lady.

Itn my opinion it is better to have a smaller penis, and be able to satisfy the lady, than to have a large penis, and do little

Harry Potter beats Science

 Why New Mexico?

Conspiracy Theories

The recent post on the YouTube channel, The History Guy, asked the question, why are so many hoaxes based in New Mexico?

The name of the state is the clue, New Mexico, as the title says in on the border between the USA and Mexico.

It was under the control of Spain for centuries, so this lead to a culture clasn between the Catholics of Mexico, and the Christians of the USA.

As the far reaches of the state, law was almost non-existant. So, the area was rife with legends of mysterious things.

The most recent hoax is The Skinwalker Ranch, there is NO known record in Native American history of such a being. I am suprised nobody saw the hoax, It appears on a ranch owned by one of the men involved in the TV series, and wasn't reported until 2000.

I would believe more in the incident at Roswell, than anything connected to a TV series.

A little-known scientific discovery was made in 1997, a large metal sphere three times the size of the Earth was discovered in the orbit of the Sun, why didn't this make the news?

At the same time, a book based on Harry Potter was published, as they say, "The rest is history." Science lost out to a cildren's book

Hollywood Glamour

 Personal Opinion 

Ava Gardner

Jane Russell

As they say, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder," to me, none can comapre with either Ava Gardner, or Jane Russell.

Sophia Loren was beautiful, but when you are married to a top director, it is hard not too look gorgeous.

I never rated Marilyn Munroe, or the young Bardot.

There is no doubt Elizabeth Taylor was beautiful. I prefered Ava, or Jane, as they had a sexy attitude too, I like a lady who knows what she wants, and isn't affraid to ask for it.

I was viewing a post on Twitter, a few minutes ago, I know beauty is personal, but I never liked Lucille Ball.

A lot of people like Claudia Cardinale, I am not one. She was all breasts, her acting was medicore at best, I much prefered Gina Lollobrigida. Claudia almost caused a film to be shut down, while filming The Red Balloon, her boyfreind producer demanded a larget role for her in the film. The director said NO!

Her role was as the imaginary lover of one of the crew, she was only in the film, so it could be sold to Italy.

One reason I didn't like the early films of Bardot, Audrey Hepburn, or Claudia, is I didn't like the light comedy films they were in

Would I leave Svitlana?

 The lady's choice

I have no intention of ruining something  that could be beautiful.

For my part, I have no itention of leaving my friend, Svitlana, once we have met. We've formed a solid friendship online, which may change into a relationship, later.

Like many things in my romantic sphere, I leave some things to the lady, if she wished to end our connection, it is her choice. I cannot deny I would be upset, at the end of the day, it is the lady's choice.

Not being an assertive personality, I like the lady to feel she is control, and make certain requests.

I find a lady who asks for what she likes a turn-on

My silver anniversary

 25 years online 

                                                                                 Space Precinct

In a few weeks, I will have been online for 25 years.

The reason I came online was to buy the SpacePrecinct DVDs from Amazon. I still have the box-set on my dvd shelf.

It was only years later, that I decided to do a pyschology study, to find how ladies saw me, and I was suprised by the results

My life has been a lie

 Another Life

                                           Romance in Didcot

I have several things to clear up in this blog.

What is the lie?

Who started it?

Why did it start?

What stopped the lie?

The lie is I thought I was unattractive.

I started the lie.

I began to convince myself of the lie, being unsure of myself in my teens. Rather than get turned down when I asked a girl out, I decided not to ask. From that point, I was on a downward spiral. I couldn't convince myself, even after I was married, as my wife was introduced to me on a blind date.

My wife convinced me she loved me, and we had 38 years together.

Even after my wife passed in in January, 2025, my opinion didn't alter. I was back to my mindset, only approaching 69. This is when the rot set in, at 69, I thought no lady would wish to engage in a relationship with me. This proved to be the BIGGEST lie I told myself, as my popularity on SoulmateMeets shows.

I have many admires, some are too young for cosideration, others are too far from me. One lady has taken to me, Svitlana, lives in Didcot.

My original purpose of entering the world of Mature Dating was to see how ladies viewed me, not to boost me ego, to get a female view of myself

Another Life

 Meeting Svitlana

A new Romance

While Svitlana and I are keen to meet. Next month will be hard for me, it would have been my 40th Wedding Anniversary, had my late wife lived 😢😢💔💔.

If Svitlana wishes to meet before August 16th, I shal tell her.

I know my wife would wish me to go on living, not rot away in seclusion, and the family are happy for me to find a compsnion too