How do I do it?

 Explicit sex

Sexual Explosions

How do I arouse the ladies?

I admit, I have no idea how I arouse the mature ladies on the mature dating app we share. All I can say is I did nothing to encourage the, true, I don't discourage them. I find explicit sex chat from a lady is arousing.

Some of the sex chat is not only close to the mark, it leaves little to the imagination. I could claim the credit for arousing messages, most of the ladies begin the chats, the last thing I would do is open a chat with a lady online, and assume she wants to chat about sex, perhaps that IS my charm? Relying on my personality, rather than the sex appeal I exude for ladies.

My appeal could be a down play the sex appeal ladies say I have for them.

Panties or Thong?

 It is the lady's choice

I prefer panties

Satisfaction Guaranteed

I may not have the largest, or longest penis, yet I can satisfy the sexual desires of many ladies I knew years ago.

It isn't what you have, but how you use it, that matters, I get my arousal from arousing the lady I am making love to.

I decided NOT to buy Tropico 7

Tropico 7

Meeting Svitlana

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

There are several reasons why I chose not to buy Tropico 7, though it would be a great birthday present for me, coming out in October.

The main reason is I am hoping my  online friendship with Svitlana can turn into a relationship, once we meet. If this does hapen, I may not have time for pc games.

This will be the second game in the Tropico series I have not bought.

I am struggling to complete missons on Tropico 5, which is one reason I didn't get Tropico 6.

If I do have time, I am thinking of trying to play Thief, though it is a first-person game, and I find it hard playing them. I got on well with the 3rd game in the Thief series, which I played on X-box.

A Turning Point for me

 Mature Dating

SoulmateMeets

Dating a Granny

One of my biggest shocks in recent months, came this month.

For months, Pamela Olsted had been saying she thought I was attractive, but I doubted her honesty - with good reason - so, this month, to find an honest view on how mature ladies saw me, I added my profile to a mature dating app. The results astounded me, as I never saw myself as attractive to ladies.

I have been deluged with requests to meet, and several offers of sex. For now, there is only one lady I wish to have sex with, my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot

Alan's sex blog

 A Romantic hero with a dark side

Come Monday

                                       A  new Romance blooms in Tropico

A few days ago, I joking mentioned my blog was turning into a sex blog, with most of the news being about my online chats with mature ladies.

If I meet Svitlana, I will post general posts about our friendship, but nothing private. The same appies if my friendship is with another mature lady.

Come Monday

I hope to be back online this evening, this will please some of me female admirers, why they think so much of me baffles me.

NIghtmare Alley

 Iconic Films

Movie Nights

Film NOir

This film noir movie is about a fairground fortune teller, and shows a side of us, that we cannot avoid.

The story is about how people are judged by their appearance.

I have both version of the film, the 1947 version with Tyrone Power, and the 2021 remake with Cate Blanchett.

The basic storyline is most fortune tellers have a "mark" in the crowd, a person chosen by the teller for the show.

The film is about not breaking rhe Golden Rule of doing a cold call, making a judgement on someone you met a few minutes ago. How many of us do that?

You see a person approaching, and try to judge them, a soft hand means they don't do manual work, a firm handshake usually means a strong personality. NIce clothes means they are paid well, or have money. 

When I was working for Bristol Museum, I met a man who slept on the doorstep of Blaise Castle Musuem, at first glance he didn't look like a typical down-and-out, it turned out a year earlier he had a well-paid job, a wife, and a family. Then things went from bad to worse.

He lost his job, his car, and the wages. After struggling for months, his wife left him, and he lost the house they had lived in. So, he'd gone from running a business to living on handouts in only a year.

I got to know a young lady who had chosen to live on the "fringe" as she found regular life too stressful. She was attractive, polite, friendly, and loving, she had two dogs which were well-fed. One Boxing Day, I went to give her some food, but she'd gone.

A vexing issue

 Blonde Bombshell

Jean Harlow

My Blonde Bombshell

This morning, I had a mystery to solve. I was trying to think of the name of the blonde actress I was watching on dvd last night, for an hour her name escaped me.

I thought it was either Carole Lombard, or Lana Turner. It could have been Carole as I have seen, and enjoyed several of her films, I wish to see Lana's films, though I haven't seen any yet. I knew it couldn't be Jayne Mansfield, as I haven't seen, nor wish to see her.

The lady in question is Jean Harlow.

All the ladies died tragically, Jean was poisoned, Jean promoted at the "Blonde Bombshell," was a natural redhead, the chemicals used to dye her hair resulted in kidney failure. Carole died in a plane crash on her way to her husband, Clark Gable, worried he was having an affair with Lana Turner, something both denied. Lana was involved in an infamous murder case, the resolution of which is debated to this day. Jayne died in a car crash being trapped under sheets of glass.