Catford
The Allure of Alan
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It is a generational thing, Catford to me relates to dog racing, to the next gen, it means Eastenders on TV.
Looking back, my trip to Catford was one of my worst meetings with a lady I met online.
She said, she'd like to meet one weekend, we chose Sarurday the 14th, as there are few trains on the weekend, we met on Friday the 13th. That sould have been a warning, by the time I travelled from Bristol to Swindon, the grey skies had turned to snow, this was in February. By the time I got to Paddington Station, I was cold, and shivering. We travelled on the underground from Charring Cross to Catford, I have been on many stations in the UK, without a doubt Charring Cross is the most dangerous. The escalator from the station to the underground station is almost vertical.
We hadn't been in 15 minutes, when she had a phone call from a "sick friend," this is an old ploy. It put me in an awkward situation, if I said he couldn't see her, as I had come to see her, I may as well go home then and there. If I said, Okay, and tried to salvage something, either way the meeting was over.
The weekend was a total bust, we had argument after argument.
Two things did happen that could have shone a light on the matter.
A few days before the trip, I was on a flight, and we passed over an area I didn't know, I asked the flight manager "Where are we?" She replied, "We are flying over Catford." Later in the dream, the plane crashed on a deserted island, with no radio, and out of the traffic lanes.
The second thing happened two weeks after my return, which made me laugh, "She phoned me, and said she was reporting me for harassmnet."
I laughed, then explained why she had no chance of success, I'd only contacted her once a week, in reply to her contacting me, this I said is NOT harassment, even if I contacted you once a day, the police wouldn't move