What arouses me?

 An aroused partner

Sexual Explosions

Ladies I have spoken to online are suprised, pleased, and aroused to chat to me, why?

My big turn-on is seeing the lady I am with, aroused. Unlike many men, my pleasure comes from giving pleasure to a lady. In a way it is self-serving, as if I can arouse the lady, she is likely to be more willing to arouse me, and the cycle continues