I'm usually kind
Honesty is the way forward
One lady I knew is finding it was wrong to annoy me, or keep telling me lies. She "claimed" to live in Bristol, though she never proved it. She recently had her sister contact me to say she is ill in hospital, this may be true, why should I care?
If her sister hadn't told me lies for several months, she would have had my sympathy, instead, all she got was the "cold shoulder" of disbelief.
I am known for being kind, and considerate, which is what got me in trouble with the lady who now owes me a lot of money.
In short, she crossed a line from which there is no return. I told her, I now have a lady friend who does live in the UK.