Damage Control

 Something good

Cash Shortage

Is Clara in Bristol?

My cash shortage caused by Pamela Olsted could be over soon, her sister offered to pay me the money I was owed. I was offered £15,000, but said I was only wanting the £3,000 I was owed, even this is a little over what I paid out, but I think I am owed a little more for several months of living on the edge of my nerves, wondering how I can pay bills. Not to mention the lies I was told.

The sister said she is in Southmead Hospital in Bristol, I never had proof she is in Bristol. I believe she is in the USA, which makes sense now, as she would contact me at 01:00 UK time, which is around 19:00 US time.

I could have used the extra money for my new friendship with Svitlana in Oxfordshire, but I am too honest to take money I am not owed.

After what I went through, I am not holding my breath for the payment, it does raise a question, if her sister had the money, why did Pamela ask me for it?

I don't need bad Omens about tomorrow

 Connecting on WhatsApp

Is Clara in Bristol?

I didn't need hours of rain to tell me tomorrow will be another meeting in Whitchurch, that won't happen. My friend hasn't read my last post on WhatsApp to her, that was sent four hours ago.

We didn't stop chatting on a good note, there again, she keeps making these dates, and not turning up, can you blame me for thinking she doesn't live in Bristol?

I told her last month, she has until August to show up to a date, or our friendship is over, and she wanted a relationship, or so she said.

I need to go to Asda, to do some shopping, she can meet me there, but I am not expecting her too, this will be the15th time she arranged to meet me

The day the Lord has given us

 Another day and no confirmation

Is Clara in Bristol?

Another week is almost over, and I am still not sure if my friend, Clara, lives in Bristol.

She keeps assuring me  does, she keeps saying she loves, and wishes to turn our friendship into a romantic relationship, but she keeps failing to turn up to dates she asked me for.

She admitted she had been misleading me, and has asked for forgiveness, at the back of my mind is if she has already shown me disrespect, can I truly trust her?

I would like nothing more than our wishes for a happy romance to be true, but that is something I have no control over

Shopping in Whitchurch

 Is Clara in Bristol?

I am not good for any lady

Though my "friend" who claims to live in Whitchurch, Bristol,not far from Asda, keeps finding excuses not to meet, despite saying she is keen to meet, and loves me deeply, this won't stop me going to her area.

I like using Asda, as it has a good variety of foods for my expanding cookery book

50+ ladies in the Bristol area

Silver Surfer

Alan at 69

I have almost resigned myself to spending my last days with no female companion. I was in contact with a lady who "claims" to live in Whitchurch, not far from where I live in Hartcliffe, Bristol. Clara has said we were in a relationship, for the last five months, this is hard for me accept as we have not met, and each attempt to meet has been rejected by her.

Though I am not seeking romance, if a lady in her 50s, living in Bristol, was to approach me, I would consider the possibility of another relationship

How do you define a Relationship?

 Is Clara in Bristol?

                                             Romance in Whitchurch

For several months I have been chatting on WhatsApp with a lady who "claims" to live in Whitchurch, Bristol, not far from where I live in Hartcliffe.

Clara says we are in a relationship, I would disagree as we haven't met, after 12 dates, and she keeps giving me reasons for not meeting.

I agree, we have a strong bond of friendship, but I question whether it is a relationship. For several weeks I have been putting off requests to meet ladies who I was chatting to on Twitter, as Clara said I am "her man," unless things change (radically) by the end of May, that shall change.

Is Clara in Bristol?

 Is she in the UK?

Are we in a relationship?

I have been "friends" with a lady called Clara for several months, and I am still not sure how we stand, why?

She "claims" to live in Bristol, when I asked her where she lived, she replied Filwood Park. When I said, "You're only up the road from me," she chanhed her address to Woollands Lane, a road 4 miles away, near Whitchurch.

We keep arranging to meet as Asda in Whitchurch, but she always has a ready made reason not to turn up.

Our "relationship," if we had one is vague, as we are yet to meet after a dozen cancelled dates. Clara says we have a relationship, I am not sure, I'll wait to see if we meet before making my decision.

I couldn't say with any certainty if she is in the UK.

I don't wish to think she is a scammer, but it is looking like that from my pov.

The Alan Exclusive is over

If Romance calls

For several weeks, I have put of requests for meetings from ladies, as Clara said I was "her man." The longer she keeps me waiting, the sonner this situation will end, while I am not seeking romance, if a 50+ lady in the Bristol area asked for a date, I would consider the option seriously.

I think after a dozen cancellations, Clara has no interest in me, other than my money