Meat Feast

 Svitlana

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I woke this morning feeling very aroused, this is something I never did while I was in contact with Clara, the lady who "claimed" to live in Bristol. The reason for this is I know the feelings Svitlana has for me are genuine, whereas I always had the feeling Clara was after my money. I was right, she admitted she had been telling lies

Alan at 69

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About me

Here is an updated short biography, more details are available if you get to know me.

I am from Yorkshire.

I have lived in the Bristol area since 1963, and in Bristol since 1983, when I got married.

My wife of 38 years died in January, 2025.

I am romantic, and believe in love.

I can cook, I enjoy gardening, growing herbs, walking by the sea, and in the woods listening to nature.

I am teetotal, partially by choice.

I am disabled, but I can walk, if slowly. My disability is a torn tendon, the short version of the injury is I got it playing sports in the Royal Air Force in 1974. For years, I knew it was there, but it wasn't an issue, until one rainy July day in 2011, when the tendon tore for good.

After leaving the RAF, I worked for Bristol City Council for 15 years in the museums.

My music tastes are varied, ranging from classical to jazz of the 50s, and from folk to rockabilly.

I am an awardwinning writer, a matter I rarely mention

50+ ladies in the Bristol area

Silver Surfer

Alan at 69

I have almost resigned myself to spending my last days with no female companion. I was in contact with a lady who "claims" to live in Whitchurch, not far from where I live in Hartcliffe, Bristol. Clara has said we were in a relationship, for the last five months, this is hard for me accept as we have not met, and each attempt to meet has been rejected by her.

Though I am not seeking romance, if a lady in her 50s, living in Bristol, was to approach me, I would consider the possibility of another relationship

Is Clara in Bristol?

 Is she in the UK?

Are we in a relationship?

I have been "friends" with a lady called Clara for several months, and I am still not sure how we stand, why?

She "claims" to live in Bristol, when I asked her where she lived, she replied Filwood Park. When I said, "You're only up the road from me," she chanhed her address to Woollands Lane, a road 4 miles away, near Whitchurch.

We keep arranging to meet as Asda in Whitchurch, but she always has a ready made reason not to turn up.

Our "relationship," if we had one is vague, as we are yet to meet after a dozen cancelled dates. Clara says we have a relationship, I am not sure, I'll wait to see if we meet before making my decision.

I couldn't say with any certainty if she is in the UK.

I don't wish to think she is a scammer, but it is looking like that from my pov.

The Alan Exclusive is over

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For several weeks, I have put of requests for meetings from ladies, as Clara said I was "her man." The longer she keeps me waiting, the sonner this situation will end, while I am not seeking romance, if a 50+ lady in the Bristol area asked for a date, I would consider the option seriously.

I think after a dozen cancellations, Clara has no interest in me, other than my money

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50+ ladies in the Bristol area

I am NOT seeking romance

While I am not actively seeking romance, if a lady in her 50's living in the Bristol area was to ask me, I would seriously think about having another romantic relationship.

You may ask, what about your relationship with the lady in Whitchurch?

That is a good question, what about that relationship?

From her view, we ARE in a relationship, and have been for months. However, from my view, we are in a state of flux as we are yet to meet, after over a dozen planned dates. Each date we plan, she has a reason not to turn up. I am running out of patience, quickly, with this scenario.