The Big difference

 Would I consider sex with a young lady?

                                                          Sex with an older man

This week, I was offered what to most men my age would be a dream. A young friend from Taunton, who comes to Bristol to see her friends offered my sex.

The answer to my question, would I consider sex with a young lady is Yes. I would consider it, but I wouldn't go through with it. I have my code of ethics, I know that is old-fashioned these days. One rule is not having sex with a girl young enough to be my daughter. Another rule is I am a one-lady man, and my lady lives in Oxfordhsire, even though we are yet to meet.

The allure of Alan

 Sex with an older man

                                                            Young ladies online

I don't make a point of having sex with ladies who are many years  younger than me. I have had sex with some young ladies, but they were only a few years younger than me.

I have been asked many times to have sex with young girls, but it isn't my thing. This is why I didn't accept the offer to be a Mature Model for OnlyFans

Who would i choose?

 A Double Bind 

A Double Romance

At the moment, the choice bewtween Elena in Tottenham, North London, and Svitlana in Dicot.

For Elena, she is she is a little younger than me, by 4 years, and she is from the UK.

There isn't a lot between the two ladies, Svitlana is five years older than me.

I have got on well with Svitlana, but owing to a cash issue, I haven't had much time to chat with Elena.

Has my popularity on Mature Dating sites changed my decisions?

 Mature Dating Sites 

What is my attraction?

You may imagine knowing my popualrity on Mature Dating Apps would have changed some desicions I make, but it hasn't.

I joined two apps to verify a thoughtline, I had harboured for most of my life.

The last thing I was after was a female companion, as I think I have one in Bristol, even if she is loathe to meet. I did point out, as our friendship is not moving to the relationship she wishes, though I may not be looking for a date, if a lady asks, I shall consider the option.

I was pleasantly suprised to find mature ladies find me attractive

What is it about me?

 Sex with an older man 

Romance in Redcliffe?

This week, I was approached on WhatsApp, by a young lady who lives in Redcliffe, Bristol.

Helen has been tracking my weekly progress on my Samsung Health posts for a few weeks. I had noticed her monitoring me, but paid no attention, until she contacted me on Wednesday.

I keep coming back to the same question, why would a young lady, like Helen, wish to meet a man my age (70)? The answer I usually get is young ladies feel more loved by older men, who are not so interested in themsleves, and care for the lady

Grannies Friend

 Granny Sex 

Sex in the 70s 

This month, to my delight, I have been offered the possibility of sex with two grannies, not at the same time.

One lady "claims" to live in Bristol, but as she keeps refusing to meet me, I have my doubts on this subject, Clara is younger than me as she is 57. The other lady, Svitlana, lives in Oxfordshire, and is a couple years older than me at 74. Though Oxfordshire is 100 miles away, it is easy to reach by train, I'd rather travel 100 miles knowing I will meet the lady, than 3 miles thinking she'll give me another excuse. Clara knows I don't trust her, and she is on borrowed time as August is getting closer.

I also have the offer of sex with a young lady in her 30s from Taunton, Somerset, who visits friends in Bedminster each weekend.

I only met Svitlana as I was exploring, for my benefit, the opinion of ladies on how they see me, as I never considered myself attractive

Wait or go?

Sex with an older man

Clara - my love

Some men would envy my position, I have two attractive ladies who wish to have sex with me.

One is a young lady in Bedminster, Bristol, who has a "thing" for mature sex partners.

The other is my friend, Clara, in Whitchurch, who keeps telling me we are in a relationship, but after several months of chatting on WhatsApp, we are still to meet.

Both ladies have made it clear, for various reasons, they wish to have sex with me. I can't make my mind up 👴

Sex with an older man

 My changing perspective

Only Fans

When my wife passed away in January, 2025, I went offline for several months, while I considered the New Dircection my life would take. When I came out of my self-imposed isolation, I had no desire for a new lady in my life, I had resigned myself to being alone, other than the family.

However, life didn't agree with my plan.

I found that contrary to my opinion of myself, ladies online find me attractive.

I have had many offers for a date, some I turned down as I didn't find the lady attractive, others I turned down as I thought a lady who "claims" to live close to me in Bristol, was keen to change our friendship, into a relationship, that never happened.

Several propositions to have sex have come from young ladies seeking sex with an older man, while that was off-putting for me, at the time, my attitude to having sex with a young lady is changing, especially as there is a young lady in Bedmnister who is keen to have sex with me, and Bedminster is close to Hartcliffe, where I live.

There is another plus to going to Bedminster, I can rekindle my friendship with Michelle, who runs the Latino Street Bites, in Redcliffe.

Deal or no Deal

A dynamic personality

What do I do?

Fatal Attraction

I never see my charms, as I don't consider myself attractive to the ladies.

By relying on my personality, rather than my physical attraction, I have enabled myself to gain the friendship of several ladies over the years I have been online.

I did have sex with a few, two ladies were older than me, most were around my age at the time. Some meeting, such as the ones in Catford,  Bath, and Redditch were a total washout. None of them lasted more than a few months, but this is history. 

I am happy now I have been chatting to my friend, Svitlana in Didcot, we plan to meet soon, to build a relationship. Svitlana is an older lady too.