What lies hidden?

 It could be concussion

Mature Dating

Meeting Svitlana

My friend, Svitlana who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire is genuinely concerned about the aftermath of my accident, one of the first things she asks each night is how am I feeling, and do I feel anything is happening?

The person whose action caused the accident, asks how I feel, but her question is not about my health, but about my ability to get another Apple pay card for her, so she can send me some money I am owed. 

I have noticed something odd since the accident, I get the feeling I am wearing my spectacles, when I know I am not, It is as though the pressure is constant, probably from my broken nose

Lost in Space

 Sex with a Granny

Alan Place - Lover

Grandfather I'd like to F##K

Over the last two months, since I added my profile to two mature dating apps, I have had many ladies, both young, and mature, asking to meet me. Some ladies have offered to have sex with me.

I have formed a relationship with a lady who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, and though I will be out of touch over the weekend, she knows I am not ignoring her, other ladies.

I am a one-lady man, and Svitlana is that lady to me.

Peter Lorre

 Robert Mitchum

Hollywood Mysteries

Noir

For most of my life, I considered myself like the roles Peter Lorre played in Hollywood, the mysterious outsider. Since July that has changed, now I consider myself more like Robert Mitchum, deep and mysterious.

The reason for the change is I added my profile to two mature dating apps, and found ladies find me attractive, I wasn't looking for romance, but it found me

Online Chat rooms

The Dangers of being an Introvert 

I never considered myself attractive

I never see myself as ladies see me

The main risk of being an introvert like me is you have to rely on online chat rooms to make contact, as I found out with Pamela Olsted aka Clara Kent, this can leave you vulnerable to scammers. Most people online are genuine I have found out.

My problem was until last month, July 2026, I never considered myself as attractive to ladies, adding my profile to two mature dating apps changed my view, if not my outlook of myself. I am still unsure of my appeal

What is my allure?

 The Allure of Alan

Sex with Alan

Would I consider sex with a young lady?

Last month proved to be an eye-opener for me.

All my life, I considered myself unattractive to the ladies, last month crashed that allusion.

Whether it was because I was new to the mature dating scene, or there was genuine interest in me, I had many mature ladies asking to meet me. Several openly said they wished to have sex with me. I have also had many offers from young girls, young enough to be my daughter, while some men would find that a turn-on, I don't.

I have only eyes for one lady, my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

Alan Place - Recluse

 Would I be missed?

Could I be tempted from Svitlana?

                                                        Mature Dating Apps

Until this afternoon, I would have said it would take a lot for me not to want to be with my friend, Svitlana, things have changed. I don't know if she does find me attractive, or if she's playing me to get money for subscription site.

I am prepared for NOT to turn up, when we arrange a meeting, if that happens, I can still enjoy the day as I can vist Wallingford Castle.

The best way to know if a person is genuine is to go out, and meet people, for an introvert like me, that is extremely hard. I thought myself unattractive, then the ladies online said I was wrong, now I find they may have said that to boost their pay from sites.

When you are in love with a beautiful woman

 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Linda

Svitlana

Two stunning ladies

I consider myself to be fortunate to love, and be loved by two ladies I class as beautiful. Looks aren't everything, both my late wife, Linda, who passed away in January, 2025, and my new lady friend, Svitlana have a lovely personality, that is what matters most to me.

I didn't intend to have another relationship after my wife's death, I added my profile to a dating app to clear a question in my mind, and from the get-go, Svitlana, and I, hit it off.

I am taking my profile offline

 A Turning Point for me

Meeting Svitlana

Romance in Didcot

I can thank Pamela Olsted for one thing, if she hadn't made me question how mature ladies see me, I wouldn't have come in contact with my beautiful friend, Svitlana, in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

Our friendship is growing strong, and I am in favour of Svitlana's idea of turning it into a romantic relationship soon.

For this reason, I decuded to delete my profile from a mature dating app we made first contact on. My decision will upset several mature lady friends I made, but our connection was never as mine is with Svitlana, and they are in the EU, USA,  and South America, not the UK.

It isn't only that Svitlana lives in an area I can get to that forged our link, we got on well from the start.

Mature Dating

Sexual Encounters

Romance in Didcot

Sex with Alan

After a tense weekend, when I thought my friendship, with a mature lady in Didcot, was over. Svitlana and I have decided we are meant for each other.

I had chats with other ladies on the dating app, but none meant as much as Svitlana, we clicked from the get-go. I have no objections to ladies chatting about sex, as many on the site SoulmateMeets, did with me. 

Like all things, there was to be a limit, one lady in France was so explicit it would have out me off, if I'd been interested, which I wasn't. She kept going on about going to the "next stage," when I hadn't had any reaction to her; I did have several ladies offer to meet for sex, but only Svitlana means something to me.

After tommorow I may leave the Mature Dating scene

My next objective

                      From Tropico to Frostpunk

 Welcome to my NIGHTMARE

I am going to have to rethink my world, if I can't convince my friend in Didcot that I am serous about meeting her. I only had Svitlana in mind to meet, and build a relationship with, but she thiks I am not serious as I can't afford to keep chatting each day.

I have had messages from several friends online asking to meet, and the possibility of sex has been brought forward by the ladies.

If Svitlan ends our friendship, which looks likely. I have two options, crawl back in my shell, and live to me end, alone, or go the other way, get my passport, and arrange to meet some of the ladies close to me.

I decided NOT to buy Tropico 7

Tropico 7

Meeting Svitlana

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

There are several reasons why I chose not to buy Tropico 7, though it would be a great birthday present for me, coming out in October.

The main reason is I am hoping my  online friendship with Svitlana can turn into a relationship, once we meet. If this does hapen, I may not have time for pc games.

This will be the second game in the Tropico series I have not bought.

I am struggling to complete missons on Tropico 5, which is one reason I didn't get Tropico 6.

If I do have time, I am thinking of trying to play Thief, though it is a first-person game, and I find it hard playing them. I got on well with the 3rd game in the Thief series, which I played on X-box.

A Turning Point for me

 Mature Dating

SoulmateMeets

Dating a Granny

One of my biggest shocks in recent months, came this month.

For months, Pamela Olsted had been saying she thought I was attractive, but I doubted her honesty - with good reason - so, this month, to find an honest view on how mature ladies saw me, I added my profile to a mature dating app. The results astounded me, as I never saw myself as attractive to ladies.

I have been deluged with requests to meet, and several offers of sex. For now, there is only one lady I wish to have sex with, my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot

Come Monday

 Problems ahead

What do I seek?

By tomorrow evening, I hope to be back on the mature dating app I chat on. The cash issue isn't solved, it will be a few months before I am back on my feet.

It has been a long weekend without my friend, Svitlana to chat with. I am sure I will get some questions asked as to my absence often causes Svitlana to be concerned.

There is one thing she does know, that is I am not ignoring her, and chatting to other ladies. We often joke about the number of request for a chat I get on Charming Talks.

The AI overview

 Help from writer Jessica Scachetti

                                                                     A Blog Boost

A short while ago, writer Jessica Scachetti, reposted some of my blogs on her Twitter page, since then, I have a thriving blog.

The AI overview of the blog, states at the moment I am writing about my time in the Mature Dating arena, and my love of Yorkshire. I think that is a good write-up.

No wonder I am hungry

 Alan Place - A Writer in time

                                               A Return to Bloging

I have been so busy chatting, and blogging, I forgot to have a meal, that isn't unusal for me.

Technically, I didn't stop blogging, but the Mature Dating app, SoulmateMeets, has given me a surge of energy to blog about the mature ladies who find me attractive.

I have had offers for sex from several v attractive ladies, if I wasn't building a relationship with my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot, I could have accepted

The #OlderLady tag

 The #granny tag

                                                      This is Your Life

The lady in the photograph is former Bollywood actress, Sharmila Tagore. Her father was an influential writer in the India of the 1940s. She shows ladies who wear glasses can be sexy.

Not all ladies over 50 are grannies.

I was as guilty as anyone in the assumption a lady in her late 50s is a granny. That was until a lady on a mature dating app we share, asked if I was put off by her not having children, when she is over 60?

I did find it odd, she is very attractive, but it didn't put me off. Some ladies concentrate on business, and forget their romance. I think accounts for around 50% of the ladies on the app, and why I am popular online.

I get approached by doctors, lawyers, ladies running their business, to name a few.

Attention from Female Friends

 Female Admirers

                                                                        I did nothing

The attention I am gaining from female friends has little to do with me. All I did was add my profile to one mature dating app, the rest is upto the ladies.

If I am honest, I expected little, or no reaction, to my appearance. I didn't expect to be deluged with requests to meet, and half requesting sex.

Am I too hot to handle?

Alan at 69

Mature Dating

The opinion of my granny friends is they think I am too hot to handle. Several of my online contacts are trying to arrange to meet me, many for sex.

There are some I would like to meet, only if Svitlana, my friend in Oxfordshire decided to end our friendship, which from her letters to the app we share, is highly unlikely to happen.

I have done nothing out of my usual freindly personality to attract attention, this would appear to be my charm. If you start to impress people, sooner-or-later, you will falter, and the real you will come out.

For some reason, beyond my understanding, I arouse great passion among the grannies I chat to

No Encouragement was needed

 Female Admirers

Grannies Friend

I have many female admirers on the Mature Dating app we share. The ammount of grannies who see me as attractive astounds me, I never thought I'd get this attention when I added my profile to SoulmateMeets, at the end last month.

The only public picture, are ones such as the one on this post. I did add some "private" iomages, to add some spice to the profile, not that I needed to, by the volume of requests to meet me

Alan Place -Fantasy Lover

Dreamcatcher

                                                          The cost of Loving

It appears that for reasons beyond my comprehenison, I have become a fabourite on the Mature Dating app I use to chat with the Older Ladies who wish to meet me.

The lady in the image is Bollywood actress, Madhuri Dixit. Her acting has improved in recent years, from the early roles as the romance partner to Aamir Khan.