What do I find arousing?
For me, one thing I find arousing about my friend, Svitlana, is she knows what she enjoys, and isn't afraid to ask me to please her.
From the beginning of our friendship, she has made her wishes clear to me. To some men, a lady talking openly about her sexual desires is seen as a threat, I am not one.
I don't object to sex chat, within reason, if the chat is all sex it can get boring (no pun), if it is part of a loving relationship involving tust and boundaries, it is exciting.
If a lady tells me what arouses her, it makes things a lot easier for me to arouse her, and her arousal is mine. Unlike many men, I see love-making as a partnership, not a one-way street. True, I have some desires, what they are I don't know, I get my pleasure from pleasing a lady. I have not given my sexual desire a lot of thought beyond giving pleasure to a lady.
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