My sex appeal

 Hunted or Haunted?

I don't know why

The time has come, I think, to attempt to clarify my sex appeal.

This will be my outlook on what is happening, as I have little contact with many of the ladies who see me as attractive.

From lady friends I used to have, in ages past, certain trends appeared in our chats. It isn't always about physical attraction, I have never considered myself attractive to ladies.

The most common trend in the comments are I respect the ladies. Unlike many men, I see a lady online as a lady looking for someone to talk to, not as a target for a sex chat. If the lady wishes to talk about sex, that is her choice.

I have been told, I have a gentle personality, and I am pleasant to talk to. I built what popularity I have on being a nice person, not on seeing myself as a he-man type. Looks can change, the person usually stays, there are exceptions to all rules.

I have never cosidered cosmetic surgery, even before I knew of my genetic flaws, I discounted the idea. The only thing I would have liked is black hair.

Since joining two Mature Dating apps last month, I have been overwhelmed by the number of mature ladies who find me attractive. I am both delighted, and a little scared. I joined the sites to find out if ladies found me attractive, end of the story, I never thought of going further. I have a friend in Oxfordshire who is adamant she wishes to meet me soon