Dominate or be Dominated?

 The Dominatrix

                                                             My world of sex

                                                        My world of Domination

I can see how being told what to do can be classed as being dominated, within reason, I view it as Pleasing the ladies. I am not venturing into Sadism or Masochism, if you wish for that, I am NOT your man, other than that I have few no-go areas with sex.

My world of sex

 Granny Sex

The Cold Hard Facts

My sexual desires are a little off the normal, for some people. 

Bondage, Domination, Facesitting, Role Playing, Food Sex with soft fruits, Anal Sex, Rough Sex.

My main desire is to please the lady, within reason I am open to suggestion, I do have my boundaries, which I never cross.

By rough sex I do NOT mean Sadism, or Masochism, I mean a little blood letting can be arousing during love-making, within safe limits.

I started to write a story for a lady in London, years ago, who got her kicks from reading about violent sex, the stories were getting so bad they made me ill writing them. I was worried where they would stop?

My world of Domination

 BDSM

                                                            The Dominatrix

In the erotic world of BDSM there is one rule that is NEVER broken, the trust between lovers. You have to have safety rules, and you have to obey them without question, or the thrill becomes a danger.

I have no objection to being part of bondage, or domination sex play, within reason. If I am to please my lover in her wish, she must be willing to do the same for me, though my desire is not so dangerous

Pleasing the Ladies

 The Dominatrix

Mature ladies

                                                              Sexual Requests

I have been offered sex, by older ladies, I am not complaining but it is over-powering the number of grannies who see me as attractive. The interesting part, other than the volume of requests is that many of the requests have come from ladies who have run a business. Ladies with a higher education level than I have find me attractive, probably because of my personality

My turn-on is to see the lady aroused, this means she loves what I am doing, and that is an arousal in itself. I don't feel threatened by a lady asking for what she likes, nor by a lady who enjoys sex chat, within limits.

The Dominatrix

 A lady who knows what she wants

The Lady's Choice

I am under order from my friend,Svitlana, to stay in contact each day. Some men may be cross at being told by a lady what to do. I have no objection, I like to know I can please the lady. 

I have the feeling from our chats on the mature dating app, Svitlana has some ideas of what she wants from the complete Alan.

I have no objection if Svitlana wishes to be the dominant partner, pleasing a lady is my turn-on, and seeing her aroused would make me happy

A joint decision

 My lady friend in Oxfordshire

Am I too old-fashioned?

This may appear odd these days, as some of my future decisions will involve my friend in Didcot, I will not make the decions alone.

The other side of the coin is if my friend, Svitlana, wished to take on a role of a Dominatrix for part of our relationship, that is fine with me.

Pleasing the lady is my aim, so long as she is willing to pay her part in arousing me by letting me see her panties, under her skirt, not neccesarily leading to sex.