Global Warming

 The Mature Dating Trend of Alan Place

Mature Ladies

My appearance on Mature Dating Apps has caused a stir, without trying, I have caused a trend of mature ladies asking to meet me. Some are very explicit in how they view the possibility of what they see in me.

Some of the ladies have openly said, they wish to have sex with me. If I wasn't trying to form a relationship with a lady in Oxfordshire, I would be tempted, some of the ladies are to me, very beautiful, such as the lady I am chatting who lives in Spain. I do have a passport, though I haven't used it for travel, as I got to be used for identity for government purposes

Why did I add my Profile to Mature Dating sites?

I wasn't seeking Sex

 Mature Dating

The main reason I added my profile to two Mature Dating sites, had nothing to do with seeking sex with a granny, as it turned out two mature ladies have enquired about the possibility of meeting to make love.

The main reason for adding my profile is the same reason I came online decades ago, to find out if ladies like me, as I have low self-esteem, and don't consider myself attractive to ladies.

The other reason is a lady who "claims" to live near me, in Bristol, keeps making excuses not to meet me on dates she asked for, she has shown me disrespect by telling lies for months. I did find her reason, but that didn't change anything, if she had been honest, I could have accepted her reason. She keeps telling me how handsome she thinks I am, and how much she loves me, and wishes to turn our friendship into a relationship, but refuses to meet me.

So, I decided to see how other ladies see me, to my suprise i was innundated by requests to meet older ladies.

Mature Ladies

 Not for me

                                                                      60+ ladies

I may be considered old-fashioned, I am, on the Mature Dating scene there are many young, and attractive, ladies seeking older men for sex.

I appreciate that we are better lovers, as we are more considerate to our ladies, than young men, who think speed is everything. I appreciate the allure of an mature man is enticing for a young lady, and I can see why having a young lady as a lover is a big turn-on for many men.

The thought of going out with a young lady as young as my daughters (mid-30s) does nothing for me. I am interested in ladies in the age range of 50 to 80

Dateline - Alan Place

 I wouldn't have believed it

                                                                           Mature Dating

Two months ago, if you had told me mature ladies on a Mature Dating saw me as attractive, I wouldn't have believed you, yet here I am in such demand I cannot cope.

What did I do?

Nothing different to my normal style of friendly, respectful chat to the ladies. I think it makes a change for them to know a man who is not driven by the need for sex. Don't get me wrong, many of the ladies could win a Glamorous Granny contest. If I was offered the opportunity, I would consider the option.

I think most of it is down to running a business leaves no time for romance, and with retirement approaching, they seek company.

I have been offered dates from ladies in several countires, both close, such as Spain, and France, to far away, such as China, and Japan. The odd thing is only two ladies in the UK approached me from over 100 requests.

Though I get around 30 offers to chat a day, the only lady I am interested in is my friend, Svitlana who lives in Didcot, in Oxfordshire.

My sex appeal

 Hunted or Haunted?

I don't know why

The time has come, I think, to attempt to clarify my sex appeal.

This will be my outlook on what is happening, as I have little contact with many of the ladies who see me as attractive.

From lady friends I used to have, in ages past, certain trends appeared in our chats. It isn't always about physical attraction, I have never considered myself attractive to ladies.

The most common trend in the comments are I respect the ladies. Unlike many men, I see a lady online as a lady looking for someone to talk to, not as a target for a sex chat. If the lady wishes to talk about sex, that is her choice.

I have been told, I have a gentle personality, and I am pleasant to talk to. I built what popularity I have on being a nice person, not on seeing myself as a he-man type. Looks can change, the person usually stays, there are exceptions to all rules.

I have never cosidered cosmetic surgery, even before I knew of my genetic flaws, I discounted the idea. The only thing I would have liked is black hair.

Since joining two Mature Dating apps last month, I have been overwhelmed by the number of mature ladies who find me attractive. I am both delighted, and a little scared. I joined the sites to find out if ladies found me attractive, end of the story, I never thought of going further. I have a friend in Oxfordshire who is adamant she wishes to meet me soon

The #Mature tag

 Sex chat

                                                                          Young ladies online

As a mature man, I often get chatted up by young ladies online. To some men, this is seen as a good thing, to me, it is of little interest. I am interested in mature ladies.

For health reasons, I need to have sex slower than many men, even those my age (70). I am open to sex chat online with ladies my age, girls young enough to be my daughter do little for me.

The lady shown here was one of my favourite actresses of French New Wave cinema, she is Anouk Aimée, she passed away in 2024, at the age of 82. Her sister, Françoise Dorléac was not so fortunate, she died at the age of 25, in a car crash in Nice, she overshot a bend, and her fibreglass car burst into flames. The heat was so intense, the water from the hoses turned to steam. She was so badly burned, the only way she was identified was from her driver's licence

An Unavoidable delay

Pleasing the ladies

                                                        SoulMateMeets

I have several ladies on soulmatemeets who think I have neglected them, this is far from true. The reason for not being in contact is I cannot afforf the cost of chatting more than twice a week, at the moment.

I have been asked, how much like the character in my award-winning book - The Chronicles of Mark Johnson - am I?

We do share various matters, we hate the trend of celebrity.

We love the sea, peace and quiet, and a good mystery.

However, we differ in one area, Mark is considered a ladies man, while I am not, even if my popularity on mature dating apps would indicate otherwise. I have no control over how mature ladies see me, I don't go out to gain mature lovers.

The Law of Attraction

 Mature Ladies

                                                  60+ ladies

The link to my admires, with whom I chat on the Mature Dating app is they are all ladies over 60.

I do have young ladies who wish to chat, but I am not into being either a "father figure," or a "sugar daddy" to them. I know some men get a kick from being chased by girls young enough to be their daughter, I prefer ladies closer to my age, for one thing we have things in common to chat about

How do I do it?

 Explicit sex

Sexual Explosions

How do I arouse the ladies?

I admit, I have no idea how I arouse the mature ladies on the mature dating app we share. All I can say is I did nothing to encourage the, true, I don't discourage them. I find explicit sex chat from a lady is arousing.

Some of the sex chat is not only close to the mark, it leaves little to the imagination. I could claim the credit for arousing messages, most of the ladies begin the chats, the last thing I would do is open a chat with a lady online, and assume she wants to chat about sex, perhaps that IS my charm? Relying on my personality, rather than the sex appeal I exude for ladies.

My appeal could be a down play the sex appeal ladies say I have for them.

Ladies over 60 in the Bristol area

 Mature Ladies 

Connecting on WhatsApp

If there are any mature ladies in the Bristol area seeking a male companion, the best way to contact me is via WhatsApp (07593690567).

How the friendship develops is up to the lady, I am happy being friends, if you wish for more, it is a subject to be discussed.

Something I hadn't considered until now

 My Popularity on Mature Dating sites

Mature Dating

I added my profile to only two Mature Dating sites, and became engulfed with requests to meet mature ladies. It gets me thinking, "It's a good thing I didn't add it to more," I wouldn't have been able to cope.

I didn't add my profile to seek a granny for a date, but I wouldn't turn an attractive lady down.

I added my profile to find out if ladies saw me as attractive, as I have never had a high opinion of my attractiveness, which could be a reason I am popular with ladies who wish to chat online

I couldn't cope with the requests

 Frequent Flyer MIles

                                                  Mature Ladies

In my wicked way, I smile at the many requests I have had from mature ladies to meet via various mature dating apps I used last month.

At the same time, reading their posts on SoulmateMeets is a little concerning to me. I didn't realise so many grannies see me as attractive. I have no issue with making love to a lady who is a granny, so long as she is in her late 50s. That is because, I couldn't make love to a lady ying enough to be my daughter.

Looking at the requests, if I accpted half, I wouldn't be in the UK for more than two months of the year. This raises the question, when would I get a rest?

If I can't relax, my performance as a lover would drop rapidly.

This is all conjecture, I have one lady in my life, she lives in Oxfordshire

Am I being possessed?

 Two mature ladies are getting possessive about me

Elena

Valentyna

Two angry Mature Ladies

While most of Mature Lady freinds accept I cannot afford to be online al the time, Elena and Valentyna demand I reply to their comments ASAP. If I don't, I get angry comments saying I am ignoring them, if this behaviour continues, they could be right

I am in Demand

 SoulMateMeets

Mature Dating

My popularity on the SoulmateMeets app could be one of two things, either the attraction is for me, or because I am new on the site. Either way, the effect is the same, I am deluged with requests for dates by mature ladies.

The effect warms my heart, I never considered myself attractive to ladies, this could be the attraction as I don't push my sexuality as some men do. I learned how to attract the ladies by using my personality, not my looks.

I didn't join the app seeking romance, I joined to see if ladies saw me as attractive.

If I was the type, which I am not, I could easily set up four dates a week, but that isn't my style. I prefer to give my attention to one lady.

The Complete Alan

 Alan Place 

I never considered myself attactive to ladies

Mature Dating

Since I aded my profile to two Mature Dating Apps, I have been engulfed by mature ladies wishing to meet me. Several have made sexual advances to me.

Before I consider the possibility, the question I ask is when did you decide you wished for sex with me? To my suprise, the most frequent reply is as soon as I saw your photograph.

I never push my appeal to ladies, I leave the choice to them. Also, I am happy to let them decide when, or if we make love, and what we do. I get my arousal seeing the lady I am with aroused.

Pleasing the Ladies

 The Dominatrix

Mature ladies

                                                              Sexual Requests

I have been offered sex, by older ladies, I am not complaining but it is over-powering the number of grannies who see me as attractive. The interesting part, other than the volume of requests is that many of the requests have come from ladies who have run a business. Ladies with a higher education level than I have find me attractive, probably because of my personality

My turn-on is to see the lady aroused, this means she loves what I am doing, and that is an arousal in itself. I don't feel threatened by a lady asking for what she likes, nor by a lady who enjoys sex chat, within limits.

The Invisible Man

 I don't use SoulmateMeets

Erotic Dreams

Mature Ladies

I expect several mature ladies on SoulmateMeets are wondering what has happened to me?

My profile is active on the site, but I don't use the site now, it was proving too expensive with so many requests for chats. Also, my friend, Svitlana, and I chat on Charming Talks, now, I only chat to her.

I will delete my profile once I have downloaded some photos Svitlana sent me.

Alan's Harem

 A long time ago

Alan Place - Trendsetter

Though for many years, I had little contact with ladies online, I had a group of friends, who referred to themselves as Alan's Harem. There were about a dozen I was in contact with, mainly in the UK.

With my appearance on Mature Dating Apps in the last month, I have become a trendsetter as many mature ladies are taking a liking to me.

I get offers for sex from ladies of all ages, and nationalities, some are sexually explicit.

I couldn't cope with half of the requests, if I wished to, but I am looking forward to making love to one lady in the UK, my friend, Svitlana

An Addictive Personality

 Alan Place

A dynamic personality

Mature Ladies

I have been told by many ladies I have known over the years, while they find me attractive, they are drawn more to my personality than my sex appeal.

I have nurtured my personality to be my strong suit, as I never considered myself attractive to ladies, I have been proven wrong in the last year, with several ladies offering to meet me, and some saying they are keen to make love to me

Golden girls

 Ladies over 50

Mature Ladies

Seductive and enticing

A mature lady who knows she can be alluring, without exposing too much openly, is far more seductive to me, than a lady who is willing to expose all of herself at once. That was my issue with the dating app, Granny Site UK, many of theladies were attractive, but seeing ladies with their legs wide open is a turn-off for me.

The lady on here is a lady I chatted to when she became a singeer, her name is Janey Kirk, she has her show on Scottish tv