My Angel

 Romance in Didcot

An evening with Svitlana

To my darling Linda

While no lady will replace my late wife, Linda, totally in my heart. The lady I am trying to build a relationship with, Svitlana, has become the angel in my life.

Our friendship has been dominated in an ongoing scam I got involved in several months ago, which limits, severly, how long I can chat online with Svitlana.

Even with this restriction, Svitlana is dedicated to being the lady in my life.

Svitlana

I have no idea what I did to deserve the love of such a beautiful lady from Ukraine, and I cannot understand either why she has no male companion, or what she sees in me to keep her adamant we are meant for each other.

I am taking my profile offline

 A Turning Point for me

Meeting Svitlana

Romance in Didcot

I can thank Pamela Olsted for one thing, if she hadn't made me question how mature ladies see me, I wouldn't have come in contact with my beautiful friend, Svitlana, in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

Our friendship is growing strong, and I am in favour of Svitlana's idea of turning it into a romantic relationship soon.

For this reason, I decuded to delete my profile from a mature dating app we made first contact on. My decision will upset several mature lady friends I made, but our connection was never as mine is with Svitlana, and they are in the EU, USA,  and South America, not the UK.

It isn't only that Svitlana lives in an area I can get to that forged our link, we got on well from the start.

I have no doubts over Svitlana

 Meeting Svitlana

In discussion with Svitlana

Svitlana's dedication

My friend Svitlana has made her situation clear to me, despite my limited cash, she is adamant that I am the man she wants in her life. Our friendship is strained as I am trying to get some money I have been owed for almost a year, this means we can chat for only an hour each night for now

The Great Divide

Romance found me

The difference between Pamela and Svitlana

                                    The True Path of Romance

Other than Svitlana doesn't keep asking for money, the big difference between our chats, and those I had with Pamela Olstad "AKA Clara Kent," is Svitlana interacts with the chat, whereas the other lady only agreed with my suggestions.

It was hard to chat to PO, whereas chatting to Svitlana is a pleasure, as we got on well from our first chat. Svitlana often chooses to chat about sex, which I find arousing. Unlike some men, I find a lady who asks for what she, is a delight, not a threat. What can be more arousing than kowing you are arousing your partner?

Family Assistance

 The Poor Relative

Svitlana's dedication

A Foreign Affair

I am grateful for the assistance my family have given me over the last three months, they are helping me both financially, and mentally get over a lady who took some money from me in a scam.

The main issue with my cash is I am struggling to get out of my overdraft, no sooner do I get my pension, than 1/3 goes to pay the overdraft, all I needed was a month without this situation, and I would be in the clear.

I haven't clarified the situation of my friend, Svitlana, for them. I know they wish me to be happy, and I am happy to be looking forward to a relationship with Svitlana. When I feel comfortable with how the friendship with Svitlana is going, I will tell them

Svitlana isn't the only one

 I did nothing

                                                                    Blogs on Sex

The way things are going, this blog could be called Alan's sex blog, soon 😜😜. Sex appears to be the trend for now, for how long is hard to say.

My friend, Svitlana, wasn't the first mature lady to approach me for a meeting, I had been approached by Svetlana, my friend in Valencia.

Svetlana has the age advantage being 10 years younger than Svitlana, but Svitlana lives in the UK, not far from me.

I wouldn't ask for intimate photos, but both ladies sent some

Losing track of time

Meeting Svitlana

We have to gel

Svitlana

A  new Romance blooms in Tropico

It has taken weeks, but I have finally got the majority of posts about Pamels Olsted from showing in the statistcs of the blog. Most I pushed out with new posts, others I changed the context from her, to the lady in my life, Svitlana, who DOES live in the UK.

Thre are no posts showing Pamela until the six month list, and they are not in the immediate ratings list.

After months of online chatting, I hope to meet Svitlana, I am sure we'll get on well when we meet.

Another aspect of my confusion is I keep losing days this month, with concerns about hospital appointments.

Never say Never

 Dating a Granny

Would I leave Svitlana?

Svitlana

To answer the question, I would not leave Svitlana, unless she decided she didn't wish to be my lady friend in Oxfordshire. This is something, she has made clear, she has no intention to do.

Neither of us hoped to find romance at our ages, we're in our 70's. I am 70 in October, and Svitlana is 74. Yet, we got on so well with our online chats, we have bonded, and once my finances are more settled, we plan to meet in Didcot, where she lives.

Svitlana's wish

A sleepover

An evening with Svitlana

An exclusive friend

When Svitlana began chatting to me online, my idea was for a lasting friendship, with the possibility of it turning into a more serious relationship.

I did consider the possibility of having sex with her, if she asked, as always that option is upto the lady. I did not have in mind a sleepover, that would have been imposing in my mind. However, I was delighted, when Svitlana proposed the idea a few weeks ago, and re-affirmed her decision this week, with the addage of the sleepover becoming more than one.

The sleepover helps me, it means we don't need worry about me catching the last train to Bristol from Didcot at 9:00 pm. Also, it gives us another day together.

After October I may leave the Dating App

 Meeting Svitlana

Charming Talks

Meeting in Didcot

As I hope to meet my friend,Svitlana, hopefully by my birthday in October. If I can get her to add WhatsApp to her phone, I would leave the app we are using now, Charming Talks. 

My departure will upset some of the ladies as they see me as attractive, and try to tempt me for a chat, but I only stay on the site because Svitlana is there.

We had a laugh last night, I told Svitlana "some of the ladies call me a heartbreaker for not replying," her reply was they must think you have a girlfriend by now."

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

 Svitlana 

Romance in Didcot

The Oxfordshire Romance

This beautiful lady is my friend, Svitlana, who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire. She contacted me on soulmatemeets, and we clicked from the get-go. Unlike my previous friendship with a mature lady, which I ended yesterday, Svitlana doesn't put me on my guard. Our chat is informal, and very friendly; I am hoping we can meet soon, Svitlana is serious about meeting me.

I wasn't searching for romance, but I wasn't going to turn the opportunity of another relationship down, if a lady took a liking to me

An evening with Svitlana

 My birthday present

                                                Film Noir evenings

Meeting Svitlana

The ideal birthday present for me, would be a sleepover with my friend, Svitlana, she has suggested it, not at my request. As Svitlana mentioned the subject, it is her choice to ask. I will not raise the subject again, if she raises the subject we can discuss how to go forward. I will be happy to spend the day with her, and return to Bristol with happy memories. All this is a long way off, as my birthday isn't until October

A Romantic Cruise

 Summer Holiday

Svitlana's dedication

Svitlana's wish

I haven't been on a cruise since a school trip to the Baltic, in 1970. I have been across the English Channel several times, back and forth to Germany, during my term in the Royal Air Force.

Being unable to afford a holiday as the money had to pay family bills, while I was married, the matter never arose.

I was considering a few trips next year, but they were mainly inland. If my friend, Svitlana wished for a relaxing, romantic, cruise, it is something we could plan for. 

My plans for next year, before I got chatting online with Svitlana, were trips to Exeter, Gloucester, and possibly Edinburgh. I've been though Edinburgh several times, on my way south when I served in Scotland, but I never had time for a day out

Brief Encounters

 Dating a Granny

What is my allure?

Sex with Alan

I have had offers of friendship, and even sex, with several older ladies. I have no issue with dating an older lady, within reason, the lady in my life now my wife has passed away is Svitlana from Ukraine, she lives in Didcot.

Svitlana

Svitlana is four years older than I am, and we got on well from our first online chat, she and I are dedicated to moving our friendship into a relationship, once she has got back from holiday, and I have cleared my overdraft issues. At the present, I am limited to chatting for about an hour each night, and sometimes, I have to go offline for a day or two 😢😢.

Though I had many offers, until Svitlana, none meant anything to me, mainly because I couldn't see me meeting a lady who lives either in Asia, the USA, or South America. In 2009, I did fly to Canada, twice to meet a friend, but she paid for the flights, one of the reasons for my trips was she needed help sorting her house out, she died that December

An Exclusive Friend

 Romance in Didcot

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

Svitlana

As the friendship between Svitlana, my lady friend in Didcot and myself is blooming, I decided to take my profile of the Mature Dating apps we shared.

Though I made contact with several very attractive mature ladies, few did half as much as Svitlana has done to arouse my interest, some turned me off them.

I have nothing against sex chat, but one lady in France went too far, plus she seemed to be under the impression we were a couple, I did nothing to encourage her, and wished to go to the "next stage," when I hadn't made any attempt to settle first contact. In the right context, as with Svitlana, I find sex chat arousing,

The story behind the short story shown here is about the night I almost died in my sleep

Take it easy

The difference between Svitlana and Valentyna

                                                            Going to the next stage

The difference between Svitlana and Valentyna, other than Svitlana lives in the UK, and Valentyna is in France, i in their approach to me.

I would estimate Svitlana is arond 10 years older than Valentyna, yet she is willing to take the time to get to know me. True, her opening comments were sexual, but we built a friendship after that.

All of Valentyna's comments are directed at having sex with me, yet she doesn't take the time to get to know me. I must say, I find my friend, Svetlana's comments and desire to meet me arousing

Could I be tempted from Svitlana?

 It is the lady's choice

Romance in Didcot

The answer to my question lies with my friend, Svitlana.

As for my part, the answer is no, I cannot be tempted from Svitlana, there are several ladies on SoulmateMeets who I could be interested in. Only, if Svitlana decides not to be my companion.

As with many areas of romance, for me, the choice is upto the lady

A fresh start

 Svitlana's dedication

Romance in Didcot

Glad all over

I am planning to be clear of my overdraft ASAP, I have given up hope that the sister of Pamela Olsted who involved me in one of her scams will refund my loan.

I am forced to make further cutbacks in my household spending, I have few personal needs, other than going to lunch at a friend's cafe in Redcliffe, Bristol.

One week she says she needs £20 to pay bank fees, as the loan is 90% clear, the next week it has dropped to 65%, this has been going on for over a month, and I have ended the payments.

I am hoping to be clear of my overdraft by January. If I can be in the clear, it will make life easier for Svitlana and I.

One of the things I wish to do first is to visit Svitlana in Didcot, we can't plan that until she returns from her trip to see her family in Ukraine. After a couple of day trips, I will consider buying a Senior Railcard, if we get on well in person, I have no doubt we will.

Svitlana did suggest a sleepover at some time, this would make it more pleasant for us, as I won't have to worry about the retrurn trip to Bristol

My Exceptional Lover

 Svitlana's dedication

My Angel

In discussion with Svitlana

The sense of warmth I feel with Svitlana, is the same I felt with my late wife, we connect well, and easily. This is something I never felt with Clara Kent AKA Pamela Olsted.

With PO, I always felt a feeling of the friendship being one-sided, I would ask a question, or say something, and she would agree, yet not progress into a chat.

Svitlana and I often share jokes, or feeely discuss sex

Svitlana isn't the only one

 Ukraine

Svitlana

My friend Svitlana, isn't the only lady I spoke to from the Ukraine, last year I spoke to four young ladies who were in the fighting. The last one I knew was trying to scam me, how did I know?

She went from pleading for money for supplies one week, to saying she wanted to fly to meet me, the next week, then back to pleading, before saying she'd been invalided out after being shot in both knees. If the shooter is that good, why shoot her in the knees, when a headshot can kill?

I don't suspect Svitlana is trying to scam me, she appears to be genuinely interested in me, possibly too into me 😍