Would I re-marry?

 Svitlana

I am taking my profile offline

It is the lady's choice

Would I re-marry, this is a subject I have not given any thought to, for several reasons.

My age, I am 70 in October, I wouldn't think it fair on a lady to wish to marry me, for what could be 10 years.

Until recently, I didn't consider myself attractive to ladies, so the issue didn't arise. I know differntly now.

Svitlana did ask me if I would marry her last week, I said, "we'll have to wait to see how we get on when we meet," not that I think we'll have any issues as we get on well chatting online. We do appear to be soulmates.

If the matter arises again, I would have to have a serious discussion with my companion, pointing out the possibility of it not lasting. A friend of my my late wife, lost her husband and went on a cruise to get over the loss. On the cruise she met, and fell in love with a widower her age, they married, and both passed away within two years, they were in their early 60s.

If the lady still wished to marry me, that is her choice. I would have no ojection, one she knew the situation.

If you are wondering, I have no plans to re-marry at the moment.

The rise of Alanism

 What is it about me?

I only have eyes for you

I never considered myself attractive

This month has been an eye-opener for me.

Until now, I never considered the possibilty ladies would consider me as attractive, which coul be why they do.

In the past month, I have innundated with requests to meet ladies, some are suggesting we have sex.

While I am pleased at the reaction I arouse, I have only one lady in my life, now my wife has passed away. That lady is my friend, Svitlana, who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

If I was the type to play-the-field, which I am not. I could have relationships in the USA, Asia, and the EU, so the possibility of the ladies meeting is remote.

Am I in a relationship?

 How do I arouse the ladies?

Svitlana

Romance in Didcot

It isn't totally settled, yet, as Svitlana and I are yet to meet, but from our chats on Charming Talks, we have little doubt we shall get on well, though we did have a few shaky days a week ago.

The outcome is I would say we are going to be in a relationship, soon.

Finding Love in later life

 An Attractive Prospect 

Svitlana

                                                                   I am in a relationship

When my wife, Linda, died in Janurary of 2025, I thought at 68, I would not have another romance.

This was not only because of my age, I never considered myself attractive to the ladies. I was wrong on both counts.

Within days of putting my profile on a mature dating app, a lady called Svitlana asked to meet me. She lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, not close to where I live in Bristol, but not too far to be out of reach.

We had a little upset last week, but our friendship is going well now.

I am in a relationship

 Romance in Didcot

An evening with Svitlana

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

Though we haven't said it in actuality, I would say that if Svitlana, and I are not in a relationship, it won't be long before our friendship reaches that stage.

From our first chat on SoulmateMeets, to our chats on the better-suited Charming Talks, we have hit the ground running. Our chats are easy, and relaxed, unlike some ladies I had contact with online.

I have no objection to a sex chat with a lady, if it is her choice, but one lady in France went too far for my liking. While we discuss some matters of sex, they are not the main topic, which is why the chats are relaxed.