The Eclipse of Alan

                                              Ruby Wedding Anniversary

Happy Anniversary

Would I re-marry?

This weekend should have been a joyous family occasion, my Ruby Wedding Anniversary, 40 years. However, my wife died in January, 2025, so this will be my second anniversary without her 😢😢. 

She would have wished me to go on with my life, and not mourn her for all the time I have left. The children have said they have no objection to me having another lady friend, they know no lady can replace my lovely Linda.

I may go offline for the weekend to mourn the day.

I think I may have found another lady friend, or to be exact, Svitlana found me, as I wasn't after romance at the time she contacted me on SoulmateMeets.

I added my profile to the site, to see if ladies liked me, as I never saw myself as attractive to them. The response was amazing, whethe it was because I was new to the site, or genuine interest in me, I was deluged by requests from mature ladies asking to meet me, and several expressed a desire to have sex with me.

Despite hundreds of requests, the lady I am interested in is Svitlana. We get on well during our limited chats on Charming Talks, and are looking to meeting soon. I hadn't thought of re-marrying, but if Svitlana asked, it is something to talk about

Rocket!!!

 Svitlana's wish

Dynamite!!

                                            Dominate or be Dominated?

I won't deny, when my friend, Svitlana, started chatting she was a little over-powering for me, she has determined ideas of having sex with me, including sleepovers.

I find a lady who knows what she wants, and asks for it, arousing. We often chat about how we intend to move forward with our friendship, we are looking for a serious relationship status.

I had to delay some of Svitlana's ideas though, as my home situation is not condusive to getting married again. If my situation was different, I may have considered a second marriage.

I shall wait and see

Oxfordshire Romance

Svitlana

For now, I am going to delay buying a Senior Railcard, until I have seen my friend in Oxfordshire a few times, to see if we gel in person as well as we do online.

From our chats, I don't think we'll have problems when we meet. Svitlana has made her thoughts clear to me, about how she views our friendship, she wishes to have a deep relationship.

She proposed a sleepover a few weeks ago, this would suit me, not only as it would allow us to spend more time relaxing together, it would mean I don't need to do a rwo-way train journey in a day

Would I re-marry?

 Svitlana

I am taking my profile offline

It is the lady's choice

Would I re-marry, this is a subject I have not given any thought to, for several reasons.

My age, I am 70 in October, I wouldn't think it fair on a lady to wish to marry me, for what could be 10 years.

Until recently, I didn't consider myself attractive to ladies, so the issue didn't arise. I know differntly now.

Svitlana did ask me if I would marry her last week, I said, "we'll have to wait to see how we get on when we meet," not that I think we'll have any issues as we get on well chatting online. We do appear to be soulmates.

If the matter arises again, I would have to have a serious discussion with my companion, pointing out the possibility of it not lasting. A friend of my my late wife, lost her husband and went on a cruise to get over the loss. On the cruise she met, and fell in love with a widower her age, they married, and both passed away within two years, they were in their early 60s.

If the lady still wished to marry me, that is her choice. I would have no ojection, one she knew the situation.

If you are wondering, I have no plans to re-marry at the moment.

A new direction

Meeting Svitlana

It is the lady's choice

Svitlana's wish

In the last two months, my life has taken a new direction. In June, when I ended my business partnership, I can't say friendship, as we never met in person, with a lady - who turnined out to be a SCAMMER - I decided as a final act, I would add my profile to two Mature Dating apps, to find if ladies see me as attractive, not for vanity but for an evaluation, I never consider myself as attractive.

I was proved wrong, ladies find me attractive, at the point when I had given up on romance, romance found me. A lady in Didcot, Oxfordshire, has taken a shine to me. Svitlana is adamant she wishes to meet me to form a relationship.

Her birthday is a few days before my late wife's in March.

Would I re-marry?

  It depends

Who is asking?

This is not an easy question for me to answer.

The answer depends lies in two parts.

First, at my age, I wouldn't propose, not only because of my wife's memory, I know shw would wish for my remaining years to be happy. At 70, I think it would be unfair on the lady, at the most I expect to live 10 years.

If a lady raised the proposition, this is a situation we would need to explore fully, again for my age, and how long my life expectancy could be. In this scenario, the choice is the lady's.

What makes me a Marriage Prospect?

Would I re-marry?

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

The Lady's Choice

For several reasons, when my wife passed away, January 2025, I never considered re-marrying.

The main reason was I never considered myself attractive to ladies, that has been proven incorrect in the last two months, on various mature dating apps.

Also, I thought at 70, no lady would wish to marry me - again - I was wrong, my friend, Svitlana, in Oxfordshire mentioned the idea a few weeks ago. I explained my situation, and suggested we meet a few times to see how we got on, I have no reason to believe we won't get on together.

If my situation wasn't as awkward, I would have considered re-marrying, as always, if Svitlana still wishes to go ahead, we can discuss our situation.

Downsizing

 R.I.P. Linda

Would I re-marry?

Romance in Didcot

Since my wife passed away in January, the idea of downsizing has been on my mind. There are other matters which stop me, apart from having to do the house clean out.

The reasons I can't move are I have family issues here in Bristol, which mean I am trapped, and I couldn't afford to move. I was considering a move, if my romance with a lady I know in Didcot, Oxfordshire, blossomed., as she did ask if I was interested in marriage? In the future, if she asked me to move in with her, it would have been a possibility. I say would, as my situation isn't likely to change.

If my situation was not so complex, I would possibly consider re-marrying.