When you are in love with a beautiful woman

 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Linda

Svitlana

Two stunning ladies

I consider myself to be fortunate to love, and be loved by two ladies I class as beautiful. Looks aren't everything, both my late wife, Linda, who passed away in January, 2025, and my new lady friend, Svitlana have a lovely personality, that is what matters most to me.

I didn't intend to have another relationship after my wife's death, I added my profile to a dating app to clear a question in my mind, and from the get-go, Svitlana, and I, hit it off.

Would I re-marry?

 Svitlana

I am taking my profile offline

It is the lady's choice

Would I re-marry, this is a subject I have not given any thought to, for several reasons.

My age, I am 70 in October, I wouldn't think it fair on a lady to wish to marry me, for what could be 10 years.

Until recently, I didn't consider myself attractive to ladies, so the issue didn't arise. I know differntly now.

Svitlana did ask me if I would marry her last week, I said, "we'll have to wait to see how we get on when we meet," not that I think we'll have any issues as we get on well chatting online. We do appear to be soulmates.

If the matter arises again, I would have to have a serious discussion with my companion, pointing out the possibility of it not lasting. A friend of my my late wife, lost her husband and went on a cruise to get over the loss. On the cruise she met, and fell in love with a widower her age, they married, and both passed away within two years, they were in their early 60s.

If the lady still wished to marry me, that is her choice. I would have no ojection, one she knew the situation.

If you are wondering, I have no plans to re-marry at the moment.

The Lady Vanishes

When you are in love with a beautiful woman

An evening with Svitlana 

How do I do it?

For several days last week, I thought my friend, Svitlana, wished not to keep in touch, I couldn't blame her, I am going through a rough patch with my finances, but the waters are calming now

I have no definite answer to my question, only conjectures from what ladies have told me over my years online.

Respect - unlike some men, I do NOT see a lady online as a lady seeking a hook-up for sex. I see a lady wishing to have a chat, what we talk about is the lady's choice.

Sex chat - if she wishes to talk about sex, that is her choice, I try not to lead the chat that way, even if we're close friends, and sex was on the chat last night. Once the evening ends, a new day begins, I do NOT consider talking about sex, unless the lady does, as far as I am concerned, each day is a new day for chat.

Sex Appeal - this is a questionable choice. I have been asked several times, "Have you always been this attractive?" Yes, I have, I have made no attempt to improve my outward appearance to attract a lady. I prefer to rely on my personality. I never push myself at a lady, as I never thought I was attractive to ladies

Am I in a relationship?

 How do I arouse the ladies?

Svitlana

Romance in Didcot

It isn't totally settled, yet, as Svitlana and I are yet to meet, but from our chats on Charming Talks, we have little doubt we shall get on well, though we did have a few shaky days a week ago.

The outcome is I would say we are going to be in a relationship, soon.