Alan Place - Terminator

 Objective 2

In the clear

A fresh start

I expect Objective 2 the erasure of all blogs relating to the scam going back to November to be unseen by my laptop, I know they will be here, but I'll be happy to know, unless I search for them they will be buried.

Once this is completed, I will have almost have deleted ALL posts of the scam from regular viewing. From now, I am not adding tags to any of the posts realting to either the person "claiming" to be Pamela Olsted, or her "sister,"

My focus is on building a relationship with Svitlana, my friend in Didcot.

My Exceptional Lover

 Svitlana's dedication

My Angel

In discussion with Svitlana

The sense of warmth I feel with Svitlana, is the same I felt with my late wife, we connect well, and easily. This is something I never felt with Clara Kent AKA Pamela Olsted.

With PO, I always felt a feeling of the friendship being one-sided, I would ask a question, or say something, and she would agree, yet not progress into a chat.

Svitlana and I often share jokes, or feeely discuss sex

The Monkey on my back

 Will we meet?

2026

                                          Have I missed chatting to Pamela aka Clara?

If you haven't heard the quote "I have a monkey on my back," it means having something niggling at you all the time, in my case the SCAMMER, Pamela Olsted, who owes me £3,000. I thought I was helping a lady who wished to have a relationship with me, "no fool like an old fool."

IF, BIG if, all goes well, I should get my money this week as her sister has said she'll pay me.

I can't say I missed the chats we had, I was doing the chatting, and PO was only agreeing with me.

Hopefully, once this mess is cleared, I can progress with meeting my friend in Didcot.

I have no doubts now

 Sister Act 2

British Gas

British Gas Dilemma

If I had any doubts that Pamela Olsted isn't in the UK, I don't now. A few minutes ago her "sister" texted to say she had never heard of British Gas, and didn't trust them, that is ironic from someone whose sister has a criminal record for identity theft, and scammed me.

Reckless

 Romance in Didcot

The Oxfordshire Romance

I have moved on

I could be classed as reckless, I started a friendship with a lady online, within days of ending another friendship. 

My problem is being an introvert, making contact in person is impossile, mainly because until July, I thought i was unattractive. The two ladies are very different were Svitlana is kind, generous, and caring about us, all Pamela Olsted aka Clara Kent wanted was to scam me.

The truth is I was over Pamela months before I ended the friendship, she had been telling lies for months, once or twice, I can forgive, but for months is beyond forgiveness.

This film with Wiliam Powell, and his wife, Jean Harlow will be only the second film I have seen with Rosalind Russell in.

I have moved on

 My lady friend in Oxfordshire

She's in love with you

The difference between Pamela and Svitlana

Earlier this evening, Pamela Olsted's sister tried to convince me she's been in hospital in Bristol, since I stopped chatting to her, several weeks aga. It didn't work, if she is, I am not concerned. She lied to me for months, why should I care what happens to her?

Looking back, my chats with Pamela Olsted always seemd one-sided, she would I agree with what I said, but rarely put thoughts forward to enhance the chat.

With my new friend, Svitlana, things are much different, we chat openly, with Svitlana contributing to the chat as much as responding to my comments. At times, she gets a litte ahead of where I see our friendship, that is because she wants a relationship. I want a relationship too, if we take things at the correct pace I feel we'll get our wish

The Great Divide

Romance found me

The difference between Pamela and Svitlana

                                    The True Path of Romance

Other than Svitlana doesn't keep asking for money, the big difference between our chats, and those I had with Pamela Olstad "AKA Clara Kent," is Svitlana interacts with the chat, whereas the other lady only agreed with my suggestions.

It was hard to chat to PO, whereas chatting to Svitlana is a pleasure, as we got on well from our first chat. Svitlana often chooses to chat about sex, which I find arousing. Unlike some men, I find a lady who asks for what she, is a delight, not a threat. What can be more arousing than kowing you are arousing your partner?

I don't know what to think

 Be Prepared

Meeting in Didcot

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

I hope my meeting in Didcot, with my friend, Svitlana is a success; but I am prepared for her not to turn up. We get on well when we chat, and she appears keen to meet me.I hope I am being over-cautious, and our online friendship truns into a relationship, only Svitlana has all the cards, as I don't know how she truly feels                       

Mission Impossible

The Year of Hell

The wait is off

Welcome to my Hell

Ten months ago, I was contacted by Pamela Olsted, She "claimed" to live in Bristol, however, it was plain to see she didn't as she gave me three addresses.

I sent her some money, in the hope she would prove me wrong, and meet me, which she never did. Though she promised to repay the loan, the repayment has fallen to her family.

It has taken two months, and a £120 more, but hopefully next week I will have my £3,000 back. 

I would have gone out today, but I injured my leg this week, trying to get some more money for the loan repayment to be sent. I have to go out on Monday, to take some information to the hospital, for my operatio to have a large Lipoma removed, so I will get the final installment of cash then.

The time has come to forget my moral code

The difference between Pamela and Svitlana

                                         The Great Divide

Who cares?

I will forget what I believed in, and focus on what I know.

My code is based on people being honest, this month, I have crossed a line which would usually upset me, this time it doesn't concern me in the slightest, why?

I don't make a point of telling lies, for any reason, honesty is my credo, even when the truth can hurt. For several months, a lady I thought wanted to know me was telling me lies, and now, a person "claiming" to be her sister is continuing the trend, in the hope her scam will get her money. It did for a short time, but that time passed when I ended up in hospital after a fall caused by her incessant demands for Apple gift cards.

The difference between these ladies, and my friend, Svitlana, is that though Svitlana says things which are a bit odd at times, she hasn't lied to me, I believe her love for me is real