Am I being Haunted?

 Am I trying to move on too soon?

The ghost of Linda Mary Place

I realise I could be, and I probably am , overthinking the occurences, but I am begining to wonder if I am being haunted by the memories of my late wife.

 

After she passed away, in January 2025, I said I wouldn't consider another relationship until the following April, I had a lot of family issues in the period to get through. The key word is CONSIDER, I had no plans for another relationship at the time, I am 69, and never thought a lady would wish to form a relationship with me.

 

However, when I returned to Twitter in Spetember 2025, I was beseiged by ladies asking to meet me. Many I disregarded as the lady didn't appeal to me, lots were young girls seeking a daddy figure, I couldn't form a bond with a girl young enough to be my daughter.

 

The change came in November, I was contacted by a lady called Clara, who lives near me, in Bristol. We got chatting, got on well, and transferred our chat to WhatsApp. While Clara is over 10 years younger than me, she is showing real interest in wanting to know me. 

 

The early part of our relationship was plagued by missed dates, which I take the blame for as I was going to the wrong area of the city, through a misdirected notion. However, since February, I have been going to the correct area, and Clara has been beset with incidents which stop us meeting.

 

I know my late wife wouldn't wish me to rot away, and the children are happy to let me move on, rather than be secluded until the end of my days, but I do wonder