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Tuesday, 26 May 2026

Did I have a relationship?

Romance in Whitchurch? 

                                             The Omens were there

The answer depends on what type of relationship.
A Business relationship, certainly, I was helping my friend with a little money.
A Romantic relationship, in her books, yes. In my books, NO.
After three months, we are still to meet, and I doubt we will, as she keeps finding excuses not to meet.
I had suspected she didn't want to meet, despite her please that she did, for several weeks. Mainly because she "claimed" her car kept needing repairs. I used to do car repairs on my car, so I know how a car works. A couple of months ago, I said I wouldn't be available for some weeks, as I needed space to think, her reaction was to plead me to return. I wasn't really in the mood at the time, but like a romantic fool, I gave her another chance, and what happened, another excuse.
Last week, she admitted, to put it politely, she had been misleading me about her reasons for not meeting. She said she didn't think the time was right for her, so I said, if you'd told me that I would have understood.
In the beginning, I put the long gaps between messages to her job, now I am not so certain, as the gaps are getting longer, even at night.
In short, I don't think this friendship will last beyond August.

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