How do I see myself?

I never see myself as ladies see me

                                                                      Alan Place - Sex Object?

Part of my charm is I underestimate my appeal.

Whether as a writer, or lover, I constantly underestimate my appeal, is that a bad thing?

Another aspect of my charm is that I show a lady respect, this goes a long way. If a lady wishes to engage in sex chat, that is her choice. I don't object, within reason.

Ladies for some reason I cannot understand, find me attractive, only six years ago, I was approached by an attractive lady, who asked to meet me. At the time, I had to decline her offer, I was married.

I may give off a lost boy appeal, or it could be my introvert side which appeals to ladies, who knows? All I know is ladies see me as attractive.