Rude or Concerned?

 Two different moods

Valentyna

If I don't reply ASAP, to her comments, Valentyna gets in my face, despite the fact I told her I am not online for long owing to a cash shortage. She starts ranting, and getting irate, so I tend to ignore her.

Svitlana

On the other hand, Svitlana gets concerned if we don't chat each day, you could view this as being possessive, I view it as caring for your partner to be.

If I had to choose which granny I preferred from the ladies I chat with, I would be hard=pressed to decide. If I had to choose which I disliked, that would be Valentyna. Her recent attitude to me is questionable at best, and possibly rude, or possessive.

While I have no objection to a lady who can dominate me, that has to be taken in proportion