I don't see the threat

 Openness can be arousing

                                                  A different outlook

Some men see an assertive lady as a threat to their masculinity, I am not one of them.

I see a lady who kows what she wants, and isn't afraid to ask for it as arousing. The fact I am willing to attempt to be able to please the ladies, has made me several friends on SoulmateMeets. I keep being asked to meet ladies, and some have openly admitted they wish for sex with me. I never expected this reaction when I joined the app, I was only trying to find out if ladies see me as attractive, to settle a question in my mind.

I am still questioning whether my attraction is as "the new man on the block," or because of my gentle personality? As I always doubt myself, I think I'll leave that answer to the mature ladies I befriend