Their concerns have been cleared

 The Long Weekend

                                                    Anxious Friends

I have resolved the matter which caused much worry with my mature lady friends. They are aware of my cash shortage, and have accepted, for now, I am limited to the time I spend in the chat room.

The Cancelled trip

 Latino Street BItes

Going to the next stage

                                             Asda in Bedminster

I will go back to doing my food shopping in Bedminster, Bristol. By doing this, I can have lunch in my freind's cafe, in the undercroft of St. Mary's Church in Redcliffe.

I would have gone back this weekend, but I had a family matter to sort out. I am prepared to accept my proposed meeeting with my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot, will not happen. I can't say why, I have an odd feeling, things are going too well.

Svitlana talks about going to the next stage in our friendship, I am taking a back seat for a while to establish where I am.

Am I heading for trouble?

 My world of Domination

                                                             Elena

Two angry Mature Ladies

Elena is cross with me because she sees me access the mature dating app we share, but thinks I ignore her as I don't chat to her.The issue is I can access the site, but I have no money for credit to chat.

Valentyna

Valentyna is to put it everday terms, "too pushy," She goes on about going to the "next stage" of the friendship, I don't know where she thinks we are in this stage?

I have no objection to a lady telling me what she wants, but this is turning into possession.

A granny could be getting concerend

 I think one of my Granny friends is getting possessive

                                                    I am not interested in Valentyna

I expect some rude comments on my return online tomorrow from my friend, Valentyna. She keeps saying we should go to the "next stage" in our friendship, but she has not defined where we are in this stage?

I think she thinks we should arrange a meeting, which is difficult, as I don't know where I left my passport. Besides, I am not that keen on her, she is pretty, but her abrasive personality I find off-putting. She hasn't said where in France she lives.

I think one of my Granny friends is getting possessive

 Valentyna

Rude or Concerned?

I think Valentyna could be getting possessive. If I don't reply to her letters, and comments on the dating app we share, she gets in my face, and angry, as if I am hers, and ignoring her, This is after explaining my cash shortage several times to her.

If this is the case, she is in for a HUGE shock, she is talking about going to the next stage, when we have hardly got off the ground.

If there is one lady I wish to progress with, it is NOT Valentyna, it is Svitlana, her concern over me not being in contact is because she cares for my health

Meeting in Didcot

 Going to the next stage

Meeting Svitlana

There is only one granny I wish to go to the next stage with, she is my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot.

We are building a firm friendship, despite a few cash setbacks this month, which we are hoping will turn into a relationship.

If iwas the type to play the field, which I am not, I could have sex with several of my mature lady friends

Glamorous Granny

 Sex with a Granny

             What arouses me?

I am not being superficial, when I say I couldn't have sex with a lady I found unattractive. If I can't get aroused, the sex will be bad for both of us.

The main thing which arouse me are a nice personality, respect, a nice figure, nice hair, and not being too pushy. One of the mature ladies I chatted to is getting ahead of herself. She is talking about going to the next stage already, we have only just touched base, and she is heading to second base.

Not only is this off-putting, her attitude is getting nasty. I prefer a gentle pace, not a sprint, I realise, age is our enemy

Take it easy

The difference between Svitlana and Valentyna

                                                            Going to the next stage

The difference between Svitlana and Valentyna, other than Svitlana lives in the UK, and Valentyna is in France, i in their approach to me.

I would estimate Svitlana is arond 10 years older than Valentyna, yet she is willing to take the time to get to know me. True, her opening comments were sexual, but we built a friendship after that.

All of Valentyna's comments are directed at having sex with me, yet she doesn't take the time to get to know me. I must say, I find my friend, Svetlana's comments and desire to meet me arousing

Going to the next stage

 A lasting friendship

                                          Does a mature lady friend qualify for a girlfriend?

Valentyna, my older lady friend in France is talking about taking our friendship to the next stage. While I am happy to do that for my friend, Svitlana, in Oxfordsire, and perhaps for Svetlana, my friend in Valencia, I am not so keen on going there yet with her. The reason is we have hardly "touched base."