if the meeting in Didcot doesn't happen will I try again?

 Life will go on

Female Admirers

Svetlana

As the meeting with Svitlana appears to becoming a non-event, the result of my cash shortage giving her the impression I don't care about our friendship. 

There are several mature ladies who wish to meet me, some asking for sex.

It raises the question, will I wish to attempt another romantic connection?

That is a big question for me, I would like another relationship, but I am wary for another rejection.

Passport Romancer

 I had a dream

                                                          Svetlana

My friend in Valencia

Last night's dream was a little disconcerting as it started with my friend, Svitlana, deciding to end our friendship as a result of my cash shortage, and not being able to chat for long online, I can't blame.

I don't usually enjoy spreading my love around, but morals have got in my way a lot over the years. If I did decide to have sex with other ladies, my friend, Svetlana, in Valencia, would be close to the top of the list, not only as she is close.

Are they paid by SoulMateMeets?

 Always Online 

Are they really intersted in me?

Svetlana, my friend in Valencia, Spain roused my concerns a few weks ago. When I suggested we move off the site so we could chat for longer on WhatsApp, she said she would rather stay on SoulmateMeets, at the time I didn't think much of it. Now, with the constant question about my absences, despite being told constantly I can't afford to chat for long periods, I think the mature ladies are being paid by the site. This raises the question is Svitlana interested in meeting me, or is she playing me?

Svitlana isn't the only one

 I did nothing

                                                                    Blogs on Sex

The way things are going, this blog could be called Alan's sex blog, soon 😜😜. Sex appears to be the trend for now, for how long is hard to say.

My friend, Svitlana, wasn't the first mature lady to approach me for a meeting, I had been approached by Svetlana, my friend in Valencia.

Svetlana has the age advantage being 10 years younger than Svitlana, but Svitlana lives in the UK, not far from me.

I wouldn't ask for intimate photos, but both ladies sent some

Take it easy

The difference between Svitlana and Valentyna

                                                            Going to the next stage

The difference between Svitlana and Valentyna, other than Svitlana lives in the UK, and Valentyna is in France, i in their approach to me.

I would estimate Svitlana is arond 10 years older than Valentyna, yet she is willing to take the time to get to know me. True, her opening comments were sexual, but we built a friendship after that.

All of Valentyna's comments are directed at having sex with me, yet she doesn't take the time to get to know me. I must say, I find my friend, Svetlana's comments and desire to meet me arousing

Warlock

 Alan Place

                                                  What do i have?

From the response to my profile on the mature dating app, you would think I had a charm to enchat the mature ladies who seek my company.

The charm I use is my personality, and not forcing myself on a lady. If a lady wishes sex chat, she is free to begin, but I don't chat with sex in mind. I shall admit, many of the older ladies I chat to, I do see as very attractive, especially Svetlana, my friend in Valencia.

My heart belong to Svitlana, my friend in Oxfordshire.

Different Stokes

 My friend in Valencia

Mature Ladies

I won't deny I find my friend, Svetlana, very attractive. To do that would not only be an insult to her, but make a liar.

This is the where the difference comes in, while some of my lady friends on SoulmateMeets, enjoy chatting about sex, my connection with Svetlana has not gone there.

We chat about food, music, art, and the entertainment world. As with all conversations with ladies, I don't lead the chat to sex, if the lady wishes to raise the topic, I will happily oblige. It is a turn-on for me, to know a lady knows what she likes, and is not afraid to ask for her pleasures.

My friend in Valencia

 Svetlana 

Barbra Streisand lookalike 

I don't chat with my friend, Svetlana, in Valencia because I think she looks like Barbra Streisand, a compliment she liked. Nor because she has nice breasts, I haven't told her that. After she contacted me on SoulmateMeets, I saw that when her is down it flows like waves on sand.

I know, I am old romantic, I am not going to change. This is the Byronic Hero in me. While we get on well, Svetlana is one of the ladies I consider out of my league, she runs a business.

Running a business doesn't leave much time for romance, despite our education differences, she said she doesn't consider me below her.

From her looks, and name, I would think Svetlana comes from the Baltic region, or Russia.

A Double Romance

 If Romance calls

Romance in Didcot

My friend in Valencia

Some men in my position would play both ends against the middle, and hope for the best, not me.

I have two attractive mature ladies wishing to have sex with me, it would be easy to run a double life, as one lady lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, and the other in Valencia, Spain. That is not my way, it would be unfair to the ladies, and I could lose two friends. It is a hard choice to make, both ladies I find attractive.