The outlook appears good

Oxfordshire

The Oxfordshire Romance

A  new Romance blooms in Tropico

Despite my reservations, mainly about my self-esteem, Svitlana is determined to make our online friendship into a relationship. I don't try to say no, but I do tell her about my limitations.

I would like nothing more than for our relationship to bloom, as we both have a sexual context for our future meetings planned.

I never imagined anything like this would happen, when I added my details to two dating apps, I had no wish, other than to get an honest opinion of how mature ladies saw me. After the Pamela Olsted incident, I put all thoughts of a relationship out of my mind, until Svitlana contacted me. It was she who made the moves, something I find arousing

A Turning Point for me

 Mature Dating

SoulmateMeets

Dating a Granny

One of my biggest shocks in recent months, came this month.

For months, Pamela Olsted had been saying she thought I was attractive, but I doubted her honesty - with good reason - so, this month, to find an honest view on how mature ladies saw me, I added my profile to a mature dating app. The results astounded me, as I never saw myself as attractive to ladies.

I have been deluged with requests to meet, and several offers of sex. For now, there is only one lady I wish to have sex with, my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot

Their concerns have been cleared

 The Long Weekend

                                                    Anxious Friends

I have resolved the matter which caused much worry with my mature lady friends. They are aware of my cash shortage, and have accepted, for now, I am limited to the time I spend in the chat room.

Sex with a Granny

Dating a Granny

                                                                   Granny Sex

My friend, Svitlana, has made her intentions for us clear, she wishes to have sex with me. She didn't tell me straight away, but it became clear not long after our chatting began. Some men would be put off by a lady hitting on them, but I find a lady who knows what she wants arousing.

I won't deny I was a little put aback by the speed she approached the subject, I hoped we'd get to the subject of sex sometime, but I had no schedule. I let the lady choose the speed and direction of the chats to make her feel safe.

Recent events are proving interesting, I have been asked to keep in daily contact, this shows a deep connection, to me. This is not always possible, for the next month I have a cash shortage.

Svitlana isn't the only mature lady friend who says I should stay in contact, there are several others who get worried if I don't show on the app we share. I find it hard to believe I have had this effect on ladies, after only a few weeks.

When do I think I may make love again?

 It is the lady's choice

                                                        Dating a Granny

Though, my friend,Svitlana, has made her intentions clear to me. The choice of if we make love, is always the lady's, as far as I am concerned.

It would be nice to have sex before my birthday in October, but if we don't have sex at all, it is no issue for me. I would rather keep a good friend, than lose a possible lover.

Intimate photos

 A Phallic Myth

The Compliments keep coming

My friend and I have shared intimate photos, as we our friendshhip is blooming quickly. I hope I can live up to Svitlana's expectations, she thinks I have a large penis. I never brag about my sex life, but I have had no complaints about my performance as a lover. There are many advantages to dating a granny

Some Sexual thoughts

 Dating a Granny

                                                       FFM

My friend in Didcot, won't be the first older lady I have had a relationship with, I had two before, in 2010. Neither lasted long, one lady in Canada passed away, and the lady in Hampshire dropped me like a hot piece of scrap iron.

Svitlana

Glamorous Granny

To me, Svitlana is glamorus, and what is more enticing is she wishes to meet me. We chat three times a week on the app SoulmateMeets, and hope to meet soon. We have had a few discussions about what we like in the way of sex, if we get to be that close, it will be both exciting, and intoxicating.

I am fairly open to suggestions, but I do have things I won't do, even for Svitlana

Am I hard to understand?

Female Admirers

                                                                      Dating a Granny

Despite being on a mature dating app, I keep being asked to meet girls younger than my youngest daughter (33). I keep reading the same comments to my question, "What do you see in me?"

Older men make better lovers as they are more cosiderate.

                                                               SoulMateMeets

My popularity on the site has rasised an enviable issue, I am innundated with requests for dates, and sex with mature ladies. That situation I can handle, I am only interested in meeting my friend, Svitlana (above).

The problem is having limited funds for chatting on the site, several ladies keep asking why I appear to vanish for days?

If I wasn't trying to build a friendship with Svitlana, I may have pushed harder for some of the ladies. However, there are some which I find off-putting, not that I find them unattractive, but how do you communicate with a lady who has a degree, or runs a business after making love? For over a decade, I had a friend in Seattle who earned a degree the year I was born (1956). We did get on well, that is because we were freinds, and didn't have a closer relationship.

How did I come back so quick?

 Dating a Granny

                                                            I am a romantic

You may wonder how I came back so quick from break-up of my friendship with a lady who "claimed" to live in Bristol?

The truth is I was never convinced she was interested in me, unlike my friend, Svitlana (shown here), who is definitely interested in meeting me.

I am not upset at the break-up, I am relieved as it was getting boring. Each week, I'd read the same excuses not to meet me, it didn't take long to realise it was going nowhere fast, but I hoped she'd prove me wrong - she didn't.

I told her I had added my profile to three Granny Dating apps two weeks ago, in reality, she lost me well before the disclosure