What do I seek?

 Soulmate

I can be a problem

I have written much about the reactions of mature ladies to my appearance on SoulmateMeets, but little about what I am looking for, now is the time.

What I am looking for is a soulmate, not necessarily a sexual partner, though I am capable of making love. 

The thing which matters most to me, is that we get along as friends, beyond that is a bonus. At my age (70), the idea of sex, is a hope, with my health issues, I cannot blame a lady with desires for not wanting to be with me. I can be a problem, I am very much a Byronic Hero type, who loves passionatley, and has a darker side.

As a sidetrack, this may amuse you, I am reading a biography of Lord Byron written by Edna O'Brien, yes, a man reading a lady writer.

 That to some people is strange, but what about Agatha Christie, P,D. James, and Mary Anne Evans AKA George Elliot.

The last thing I look at is the the gender of a writer. 

To round-off from the opposite side of the coin, there are some male writers I can't read.