My friend in Valencia

 Svetlana 

Barbra Streisand lookalike 

I don't chat with my friend, Svetlana, in Valencia because I think she looks like Barbra Streisand, a compliment she liked. Nor because she has nice breasts, I haven't told her that. After she contacted me on SoulmateMeets, I saw that when her is down it flows like waves on sand.

I know, I am old romantic, I am not going to change. This is the Byronic Hero in me. While we get on well, Svetlana is one of the ladies I consider out of my league, she runs a business.

Running a business doesn't leave much time for romance, despite our education differences, she said she doesn't consider me below her.

From her looks, and name, I would think Svetlana comes from the Baltic region, or Russia.

Svitlana isn't the only one

 I did nothing

                                                                    Blogs on Sex

The way things are going, this blog could be called Alan's sex blog, soon 😜😜. Sex appears to be the trend for now, for how long is hard to say.

My friend, Svitlana, wasn't the first mature lady to approach me for a meeting, I had been approached by Svetlana, my friend in Valencia.

Svetlana has the age advantage being 10 years younger than Svitlana, but Svitlana lives in the UK, not far from me.

I wouldn't ask for intimate photos, but both ladies sent some

Different Stokes

 My friend in Valencia

Mature Ladies

I won't deny I find my friend, Svetlana, very attractive. To do that would not only be an insult to her, but make a liar.

This is the where the difference comes in, while some of my lady friends on SoulmateMeets, enjoy chatting about sex, my connection with Svetlana has not gone there.

We chat about food, music, art, and the entertainment world. As with all conversations with ladies, I don't lead the chat to sex, if the lady wishes to raise the topic, I will happily oblige. It is a turn-on for me, to know a lady knows what she likes, and is not afraid to ask for her pleasures.

I walk the line

 Glamour is the attraction

                                                   Svitlana

                                                        Svetlana

Russian Roulette

For some reason I cannot understand, both of these beautiful ladies consider me as attractive, and are making their moves on me. I can't deny I am aroused.

It would be possible fo me to have A Double Romance, if I was the type, which I am not. Svitlana lives in the UK, while Svetlana lives in Valencia in Spain. Both ladies from their names I would think come from Russia. Playing this double life, is like Russian Roulette, like the game, the game wins all the time. I don't wish to lose the friendship of either lady, or the possible relationship with Svitlana we are starting

Passport Romancer

 I had a dream

                                                          Svetlana

My friend in Valencia

Last night's dream was a little disconcerting as it started with my friend, Svitlana, deciding to end our friendship as a result of my cash shortage, and not being able to chat for long online, I can't blame.

I don't usually enjoy spreading my love around, but morals have got in my way a lot over the years. If I did decide to have sex with other ladies, my friend, Svetlana, in Valencia, would be close to the top of the list, not only as she is close.

Would I be missed?

 SoulMateMeets

                                                                 Svitlana

                                                                  Svetlana

The rise of Alanism

I know two Female Admirers who would miss me if I failed to appear online for a long period. Svetlana, and Svitlana have shown they care about me, deeply. I get other ladies asking why I am offline, that is more because they wish to chat to me, than they care about me. Some get angry when I don't reply, even though I have explained my situation several times.

Are they paid by SoulMateMeets?

 Always Online 

Are they really intersted in me?

Svetlana, my friend in Valencia, Spain roused my concerns a few weks ago. When I suggested we move off the site so we could chat for longer on WhatsApp, she said she would rather stay on SoulmateMeets, at the time I didn't think much of it. Now, with the constant question about my absences, despite being told constantly I can't afford to chat for long periods, I think the mature ladies are being paid by the site. This raises the question is Svitlana interested in meeting me, or is she playing me?

Warlock

 Alan Place

                                                  What do i have?

From the response to my profile on the mature dating app, you would think I had a charm to enchat the mature ladies who seek my company.

The charm I use is my personality, and not forcing myself on a lady. If a lady wishes sex chat, she is free to begin, but I don't chat with sex in mind. I shall admit, many of the older ladies I chat to, I do see as very attractive, especially Svetlana, my friend in Valencia.

My heart belong to Svitlana, my friend in Oxfordshire.

A Vacation in Spain

 The Allure of the Older Lady

The Oxfordshire Romance

I have often considered Spain for a vacation, this month a lady who lives there contacted me via the Mature Dating App - soulmatemeets - if I wasn't trying to meet a lady in Oxfordshire, I may have tried to see her. Svetlana has all the qualities I look for in a lady, and she is interested in me

August Deadline

 Svitlana

My Blonde Bombshell

Romance in Didcot

I wish to start a relationship with my friend Svetlana, in Didcot. The problem is my cash shortage makes it hard to keep chatting on the mature dating app we shared..

I was hoping to meet her soon, but my situation has prompted ther to ask. am  serious, if not can I tell we are over?

I have several other mature ladies asking to meet me, some are interested in sex.

I may bojunce back, but it will take time this time, I had a feeling this was coming. I had a dream about this thre days ago.

If I can't save the situation tonight, it will be dead by August.

Glanous Granny

 A hard choice

Svitlana

Svetlana

If I was asked which of the mature ladies I chat with do I consider the most attractive, tbh, I couldn't choose, as they are all beautiful to me. To say, I am spoiled for choice is putting it mildly, I would say of the 200 ladies who contacted me, less than 20 do I find unattractive. 

Most of the ladies are in their mid-50s, with some in their late 60s, and they are still gorgeous to me

if the meeting in Didcot doesn't happen will I try again?

 Life will go on

Female Admirers

Svetlana

As the meeting with Svitlana appears to becoming a non-event, the result of my cash shortage giving her the impression I don't care about our friendship. 

There are several mature ladies who wish to meet me, some asking for sex.

It raises the question, will I wish to attempt another romantic connection?

That is a big question for me, I would like another relationship, but I am wary for another rejection.

Take it easy

The difference between Svitlana and Valentyna

                                                            Going to the next stage

The difference between Svitlana and Valentyna, other than Svitlana lives in the UK, and Valentyna is in France, i in their approach to me.

I would estimate Svitlana is arond 10 years older than Valentyna, yet she is willing to take the time to get to know me. True, her opening comments were sexual, but we built a friendship after that.

All of Valentyna's comments are directed at having sex with me, yet she doesn't take the time to get to know me. I must say, I find my friend, Svetlana's comments and desire to meet me arousing

Anxious Friends

 SoulMateMeets

                                                                         Glamorous Granny

These beautiful ladies will be pleased to see my return to the Mature Dating app we chat on, shortly. Svetlana (top) is in Spain, and Svitlana is in the UK.

I do chat with other mature ladies on the app, but these are my main friends.

Going to the next stage

 A lasting friendship

                                          Does a mature lady friend qualify for a girlfriend?

Valentyna, my older lady friend in France is talking about taking our friendship to the next stage. While I am happy to do that for my friend, Svitlana, in Oxfordsire, and perhaps for Svetlana, my friend in Valencia, I am not so keen on going there yet with her. The reason is we have hardly "touched base."

Svitlana isn't the only one

 Alan Place -Fantasy Lover

Irina

Elena in London

Svetlana

Attention from Female Friends

These ladies are some of my Female Admirers, who have expressed a desire for sex, for some reason they see me as an attractive catch.

My Fantasy

Svitlana

I would like to suck Svitlana's panties, until they become so moist she cums, and we can enjoy our sex together, both satisfied. Of course, that depends if she wishes to go that far. From our explicit sex chats, I think she'll be pleased to do that

What have I caused?

Taking a break

                            Why do I appear to be off SoulmateMeets? 

Last night, I said I would be off SoulmateMeets until Monday, for two reasons, I don't have the money to chat for hours each night, and from time-to-time, I need a day off. 

Within minutes my friend, Svetlana, replied, "I miss you already." and my friend Svitlana replied, "I can't wait to hear from you again, love."

In a month, I have grown from an unkown on the site, to a beloved friend to mature ladies