That doesn't impress me

 What do you see in me?

Do ladies find me attractive?

What comes next?

I can't tell you what comes next, it is out of my control. What happens now, is in the hands of my friend in Oxfordshire.

I would like to meet her, to try to build a relationship, but I have doubts our meeting in Didcot will happen.

For weeks, I onderwod why I was being approached by business ladies, I put it down to running a business left little time for romance. I accepted, I'd be nothing more than a "bit of rough," to the ladies.

This week, another aspect arose, they are on subscription sites, so chatting to them pays for their attention.

So, they question arises, did they find me attractive, or was I intriguing as the new man on the block?

Am I becoming a Teacher's pet?

 Out of my League

                                                                            A bit of rough

Another amusing thought came to me a few minutes ago, with business ladies asking to meet me via SoulmateMeets, I could almost be classed as a teacher's pet.

This is a situation I do see as erotic, being sought after by a judge, doctorr, or businees lady shows how strong my personality is, even if all they want is "a bit of rough on the side."

The phothraph on the post is one I took at Whitby, North Yorkshire, back in the late 60's.

What do you see in me?

 My first question 

Is it my personality that holds you?

I ask the question not out for an ego boost, but out for general knowledge. The reply I usually get is "You appear to be an interesting, and polite man."

This week, more than last week, it has taken on a new meaning as I get asked after by female judges, ladies who own a business, and others with a higher education level than I have.

I have no issue with being "a bit of rough on the side," but after the sex, if we have any, what do we talk about?

War of the Worlds

 What do you see in me?

                                                                A bit of rough

This week my self-doubts have risen again, the reason is on soulmatemeet, the mature dating site, along with my good friend Svitlana, I am being approached by several ladies.

While this is a thrill, it also eaises some concerns, not about my relationship with Svitlana, I can handle that. The issue is some of the ladies are judges, other own their own business, which comes back to the question, what can ladies with that degree of knowledge see in me?

I had a friend in Seattle, who had been to university at the time I was born, we got on well, but that was because we knew the boundaries. Though we got on well, extremely friendly most of the time, Julia and I knew it was only friendship. She did offer me the opportunity to visit her, there was a contest she thought I had an opportunity to win being run in the area, we used to play Words with Friends most nights, Scrabble under a different name. Julia was amazed at my ability with words.

I politely declined, not only because the contest was ongoing for weeks, but I pointed out the styles of the players, I had no doubt, I would not lose many games - no bragging - but I wouldn't get far, most of the people in the contests win by closing the game down with words of two, or three letters.

I have no issue with being the "bit of rough on the side." for an attractive lady, but we have no common ground for conversation. We had the same issue at Bristol Museum, when they tried to get the curators, and the security staff to share a rest-room and have a conversation.

I pointed out to my friend, Francis Greenacre, we don't share the same world, while they talk about trips abroad, we'd talk about the football on tv. What they class as a once-a-week treat, we'd call it a once-a-month splashout. Despite our different outlooks on life, he saw my point