Glad all over

 A steady relationship

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Granny Friend

I am pleased to say that soon I can put the 8 months I chatted to the SCAMMER Pamela Olsted behind me. In the next week, her sister is planning to clear the debt of £3,000 I am owed.

This money will only ease my standard of living, but it will ease the strain on my mental health.

I didn't take long to get over her because we never had a serious connection, I knew she was lying back in February, when she gave me two addresses in Bristol, within one chat. They are close, by car, but two addresses was suspicious. I kept chatting to see if she would prove me wrong, but she never did.

I am pleased to say, I formed a true friendship with the lady on this post, Svitlana lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, and we get on well during our online chat sessions.

Unlike Pamela, Svitlana chats, I always had the feeling Pamela was going along with what I said, rather than putting ideas forward to move the chat,

The Great Divide

Romance found me

The difference between Pamela and Svitlana

                                    The True Path of Romance

Other than Svitlana doesn't keep asking for money, the big difference between our chats, and those I had with Pamela Olstad "AKA Clara Kent," is Svitlana interacts with the chat, whereas the other lady only agreed with my suggestions.

It was hard to chat to PO, whereas chatting to Svitlana is a pleasure, as we got on well from our first chat. Svitlana often chooses to chat about sex, which I find arousing. Unlike some men, I find a lady who asks for what she, is a delight, not a threat. What can be more arousing than kowing you are arousing your partner?

She's in love with you

Romance in Didcot

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Meeting Svitlana

I am still unsure if the planned meeting in Didcot will happen, after a short chat today, I am a little more at ease than I have been for the last few days.

I am prepared for the day trip to be a visit to the area, if that is the case, I will still enjoy the day, as there are some places of interest for me to visit nearby.

You're the one I want

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

An evening with Svitlana

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Though I am still not 100% certain my meeting in Didcot will happen, after a chat this afternoon, some of my reservations are a little more relaxed. Svitlana appears to be set that I am her man, that suits me, if she is telling the truth. Until we meet, I am prepared for her NOT to turn up, if that is the case, I will have a nice day trip.

That doesn't impress me

 What do you see in me?

Do ladies find me attractive?

What comes next?

I can't tell you what comes next, it is out of my control. What happens now, is in the hands of my friend in Oxfordshire.

I would like to meet her, to try to build a relationship, but I have doubts our meeting in Didcot will happen.

For weeks, I onderwod why I was being approached by business ladies, I put it down to running a business left little time for romance. I accepted, I'd be nothing more than a "bit of rough," to the ladies.

This week, another aspect arose, they are on subscription sites, so chatting to them pays for their attention.

So, they question arises, did they find me attractive, or was I intriguing as the new man on the block?

The True Path of Romance

 SoulmateMeets

SoulmateMeets is the worst site

                                  I am who I appear to be online

For weeks, I have had doubts about SoulmateMeets, and my thoughts were cemented by reviews on Trustpilot, SoulmateMeets is the worst app for mature dating. It is no more than a front to get your money, the possibility of a real connection is next-to-nothing. One person said the best way to start a romance, is to get out there. That lets me out, I am paranoid insecure about my appeal to ladies, and the last month destroyed any hopes, now I know I was being played.

My double bind

Exclusive Lover

Alan Place - Exclusive Friend

Romance in Didcot

My popularity on Mature Dating sites has created a problem.

The problem is my friend in Oxfordshire, is on several subscription sites, this is not a problem in itself. The question is does she like me, or is she keeping me on, so she can get more money from our chats on Charming Talks, we met last month on SoulmateMeets.

I think she is genuine, she understands I cannot keep paying a lot for the pleasure of her company. I have turned the ammount of chat time down this week.