Lost in Space

 Sex with a Granny

Alan Place - Lover

Grandfather I'd like to F##K

Over the last two months, since I added my profile to two mature dating apps, I have had many ladies, both young, and mature, asking to meet me. Some ladies have offered to have sex with me.

I have formed a relationship with a lady who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, and though I will be out of touch over the weekend, she knows I am not ignoring her, other ladies.

I am a one-lady man, and Svitlana is that lady to me.

I am popular with Ladies of Charming Talks

 Mature Dating

The Exclusive Lover

An Exclusive Friend

Svitlana

Despite the appeal I appear to generate among ladies on the dating app Charming Talks, I have eyes only for my friend from the Ukraine, who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

Svitlana and I hit it off from the get go. Some of our chats involve sex chats, today's has been more about my upcoming neck opeartion to remove a limpoma.

Though I have over 60 ladies wishing to chat to me, I am only interested in Svitlana, most of the ladies live either in the USA, or the Far East

Another reason why I don't chat to the ladies is many are younger than my daughters, while some men find this a turn-on, I am not one of those. I prefer a lady closer to my age, from the 56 to 78.

Lost

 British Gas Dilemma

Svitlana's worries

The Monkey on my back

Because British Gas have turned a 10-day wait for my refund, into a month-long wait, I have no money for food, or to stay in contact with my friend, Svitlana in Oxfordshire.

I am also waiting for a debt to be repaid, however, I am not holding my breath for that payment.

I have told Svitlana, she has nothing to worry over, I am not ignoring her, and chatting to other ladies

Svitlana is the only lady for me

 One-lady man

You're the one I want

Svitlana

Since we began our online chat,Svitlana, my friend in Didcot, Oxfordshire, is the only lady I have been interested in meeting. I have many offers from ladies to meet, and almost as many to have sex.

It isn't only because she is in the UK which makes her my choice, we hit it off from the start, we are ideal for each other.

I am desired

 Romance in Didcot

Meeting Svitlana

She's in love with you

I have ladies online who class as their favourite, the only lady I am interested in is my friend,Svitlana, who lives in Didcot in Oxfordshire.

From the get-go we got on well, even if she was a little enthsiastic about her sex chat, but that is nothing I worry about. I find a lady who knows what she likes, and isn't afraid to ask, arousing.

There was one lady in France I found off-putting, she was too descriptive for my liking, and I wasn't really interested in her besides that,

Svitlana's Dedication

 An evening with Svitlana

Romance in Didcot

Svitlana's worries

One of my friend's concerns is that if we don't have daily contact, I have had something happen to me. I explained sometines I cannot afford to buy credit on the site we use - Charming Talks - she has accepted the situation, and we are looking forward to our restricted chat being extended soon.

Her other concern is I will not think of her, when I am not chatting, I have asured her she is always on my mind, even when I am not chatting to her.

Despite my difficulties, at the moment, our love is growing by the day. Svitlana is willing to wait until things get easier for us.

I have moved on

 My lady friend in Oxfordshire

She's in love with you

The difference between Pamela and Svitlana

Earlier this evening, Pamela Olsted's sister tried to convince me she's been in hospital in Bristol, since I stopped chatting to her, several weeks aga. It didn't work, if she is, I am not concerned. She lied to me for months, why should I care what happens to her?

Looking back, my chats with Pamela Olsted always seemd one-sided, she would I agree with what I said, but rarely put thoughts forward to enhance the chat.

With my new friend, Svitlana, things are much different, we chat openly, with Svitlana contributing to the chat as much as responding to my comments. At times, she gets a litte ahead of where I see our friendship, that is because she wants a relationship. I want a relationship too, if we take things at the correct pace I feel we'll get our wish

I get many offers

Dateline

Svitlana's wish

                                                    What do I do?

Other than being my usual non-assertive personality, I don't do anything I consider unusual, yet, the mature ladies I chat to find my pesonality attractive. I think one of my charms is that while I don't object to chatting about sex, I don't lead the chat in that direction.

I don't see a lady who knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to ask, as a threat, I find her arousing.

The Great Divide

Romance found me

The difference between Pamela and Svitlana

                                    The True Path of Romance

Other than Svitlana doesn't keep asking for money, the big difference between our chats, and those I had with Pamela Olstad "AKA Clara Kent," is Svitlana interacts with the chat, whereas the other lady only agreed with my suggestions.

It was hard to chat to PO, whereas chatting to Svitlana is a pleasure, as we got on well from our first chat. Svitlana often chooses to chat about sex, which I find arousing. Unlike some men, I find a lady who asks for what she, is a delight, not a threat. What can be more arousing than kowing you are arousing your partner?

Dynamite!!

 Am I too hot to handle?

An evening with Svitlana

She's in love with you

I don't know what, if anything, I expected when I added a profile to a mature dating site. I did it to clear something up in my mind, that had plagued me since my teens, were girls / ladies attracted to me? It wasn't vanity which was the question, I wanted honest opinions from ladies.

The replies I got back astounded me, several ladies online made sexual advances to me. I don't find ladies chatting about sex off-putting, usually, I usually find it arousing to know a lady feels free to chat about what she likes. However, one lady I chatted to in France was too explicit for my liking.

My friend above, and I, hit it off well once we got chatting, we are about the same age, Svitlana is 5 years older than me.

She's in love with you

Romance in Didcot

 The True Path of Romance

Meeting Svitlana

I am still unsure if the planned meeting in Didcot will happen, after a short chat today, I am a little more at ease than I have been for the last few days.

I am prepared for the day trip to be a visit to the area, if that is the case, I will still enjoy the day, as there are some places of interest for me to visit nearby.

You're the one I want

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

An evening with Svitlana

The True Path of Romance

Though I am still not 100% certain my meeting in Didcot will happen, after a chat this afternoon, some of my reservations are a little more relaxed. Svitlana appears to be set that I am her man, that suits me, if she is telling the truth. Until we meet, I am prepared for her NOT to turn up, if that is the case, I will have a nice day trip.

You say you miss me.

 I have moved on

Personal Property

                                               Getting over Pamela Olsted

From the responses to my appearance on a Mature Dating site, I wouldn't be suprised if Pamela Olsted did miss our chats.

I was sure she would try to contact me, and she has, but I didn't reply, why should I, she lied to me for months. 

Her sister contacted me too, but got a cold reply. I have no interest in her, other than my money. Her sister tried to convince me she has been ill since I cut her out of my life, and she is in a hospital in Bristol. I may have fallen for the trick before, but after giving me three addresses where she is "supposed" to live, within 8 months, I took the ICC (I couldn't Care) view. It is easy to look up a hospital online.

Besides, I have moved on, and have formed true friendship with a lady in Oxfordshire. 

After months of being lied to, I would never trust anything she said, other than she misses me, and I am attractive. My popularity on Charming Talk is not only about my attractiveness, it also about how pleasant, and respectful to the ladies I am.

I would like to think when Svitlana says she would miss me, if I wasn't online, it is true, but she is an attractive lady, and I can't help thinking she has other male friends. I hope I am overthinking.

Hidden Delights

 I only have eyes for you

                                                   Alan Place - Sex Object?    

                                            Alan Place - Mature Model

For some reason, the posts which gain the most reads feature my photograph.

If I was vain, I could say I am attractive to ladies of all ages, a lot does goes to which hash-tags you use though. It is worthwhile having a search to find the most used.

You keep 'a' knocking

 But you can't come in

An Exclusive friend

I only have eyes for you

Each day, I get offers of friendship, and sometimes sex, from ladies online, I can't understand my attraction. However, I am only interested in meeting my friend, Svitlana, in Oxfordshire.

We hit it off from the get-go, hopefully our friendship will change into a lasting relationship once we have met a few times. I didn't consider having another relationship until now

Boundaries are needed

A lady who knows what she wants

King of Hearts

Openness can be arousing

My friend, Svitlana, and I often have naughty sex chats, but she knows if she wishes to stop, all she has to do is ask. While sex chats can be arousing, you do need boundaries, and safe words. One lady in France I chatted to was so explicit, it was not sexy at all.

I don't view a lady asking for what she wants as a threat, I view it as arousing, my turn-on is knowing the lady I am with is aroused by me.