What is my allure?

 The Allure of Alan

Sex with Alan

Would I consider sex with a young lady?

Last month proved to be an eye-opener for me.

All my life, I considered myself unattractive to the ladies, last month crashed that allusion.

Whether it was because I was new to the mature dating scene, or there was genuine interest in me, I had many mature ladies asking to meet me. Several openly said they wished to have sex with me. I have also had many offers from young girls, young enough to be my daughter, while some men would find that a turn-on, I don't.

I have only eyes for one lady, my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

The allure of Alan

 Sex with an older man

                                                            Young ladies online

I don't make a point of having sex with ladies who are many years  younger than me. I have had sex with some young ladies, but they were only a few years younger than me.

I have been asked many times to have sex with young girls, but it isn't my thing. This is why I didn't accept the offer to be a Mature Model for OnlyFans

Mystique

The Allure of the Older Lady

                                         Alan Place - Sex Object?

I am not saying some of the young ladies who tag my posts on Twitter, are not attractive to me, but most are younger than my youngest daughter.

Some men would be flattered by the attention of a young lady, I am not one of those; I am neither a "father figure," or a "sugar daddy." I prefer an older lady with charm, and elegance, who knows her value, to a young girl trying to get me on a sex chat line. I have nothing against the girls, or their work, it isn't for me.

I cannot understand my allure

 Ladies on Twitter

Alan Place - Sex Object?

I will never understand the allure I have among ladies of all ages on Twitter in the last quarter of 2025

Perhaps, that is my charm. As I never considered myself attractive to ladies, I never pushed myself, unlike some men, I rarely, if ever publish a photograph of myself not fuly clothed. The only ladies who seen me partially clothed are two close friends.

Brief Encounters

 Dating a Granny

What is my allure?

Sex with Alan

I have had offers of friendship, and even sex, with several older ladies. I have no issue with dating an older lady, within reason, the lady in my life now my wife has passed away is Svitlana from Ukraine, she lives in Didcot.

Svitlana

Svitlana is four years older than I am, and we got on well from our first online chat, she and I are dedicated to moving our friendship into a relationship, once she has got back from holiday, and I have cleared my overdraft issues. At the present, I am limited to chatting for about an hour each night, and sometimes, I have to go offline for a day or two 😢😢.

Though I had many offers, until Svitlana, none meant anything to me, mainly because I couldn't see me meeting a lady who lives either in Asia, the USA, or South America. In 2009, I did fly to Canada, twice to meet a friend, but she paid for the flights, one of the reasons for my trips was she needed help sorting her house out, she died that December