I am popular with Ladies of Charming Talks

 Mature Dating

The Exclusive Lover

An Exclusive Friend

Svitlana

Despite the appeal I appear to generate among ladies on the dating app Charming Talks, I have eyes only for my friend from the Ukraine, who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

Svitlana and I hit it off from the get go. Some of our chats involve sex chats, today's has been more about my upcoming neck opeartion to remove a limpoma.

Though I have over 60 ladies wishing to chat to me, I am only interested in Svitlana, most of the ladies live either in the USA, or the Far East

Another reason why I don't chat to the ladies is many are younger than my daughters, while some men find this a turn-on, I am not one of those. I prefer a lady closer to my age, from the 56 to 78.

A girl in every port

 Louise Brooks

Passport Romancer

                                                       I only have eyes for you

This is the last film Louise Brooks was in during her Hollywood days, before she left for Germany, to become a star of the Weimar Cinema.

The story is about two sailors who have a competion who can "chat up" the most girls, until one falls for Ms. Brooks.

I am not saying, I could have had a lady in every port, but I had lots of requests from mature ladies to meet me, some were adamant they wished for sex.

There is only one lady I am interested in, she is Svitlana, my friend in Oxfordshire, and she knows that.

An Addictive Personality

 Alan Place

A dynamic personality

Mature Ladies

I have been told by many ladies I have known over the years, while they find me attractive, they are drawn more to my personality than my sex appeal.

I have nurtured my personality to be my strong suit, as I never considered myself attractive to ladies, I have been proven wrong in the last year, with several ladies offering to meet me, and some saying they are keen to make love to me

Svitlana's wish

A sleepover

An evening with Svitlana

An exclusive friend

When Svitlana began chatting to me online, my idea was for a lasting friendship, with the possibility of it turning into a more serious relationship.

I did consider the possibility of having sex with her, if she asked, as always that option is upto the lady. I did not have in mind a sleepover, that would have been imposing in my mind. However, I was delighted, when Svitlana proposed the idea a few weeks ago, and re-affirmed her decision this week, with the addage of the sleepover becoming more than one.

The sleepover helps me, it means we don't need worry about me catching the last train to Bristol from Didcot at 9:00 pm. Also, it gives us another day together.

The Invisible Man

 I don't use SoulmateMeets

Erotic Dreams

Mature Ladies

I expect several mature ladies on SoulmateMeets are wondering what has happened to me?

My profile is active on the site, but I don't use the site now, it was proving too expensive with so many requests for chats. Also, my friend, Svitlana, and I chat on Charming Talks, now, I only chat to her.

I will delete my profile once I have downloaded some photos Svitlana sent me.

I don't use SoulmateMeets

An exclusive friend

Romance in Didcot 

Charming Talks

I stopped using SoulmateMeets because I was getting engulfed by too many mature ladies, and I only wished to chat to my friend, Svitlana, who lives in Oxfordshire. We chat on Charming Talks,

One lady from SoulmateMeets has hunted me down again, she is the lady in France, I keep saying goes too far, and has expectations for a relationship I am not happy with.

I have no objection to ladies talking about sex, to me it is arousing, but this lady gets too explicit

Always on my mind

Another Life

 Cash Shortage

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

Owing to a cash shortage at this time of the month, I told my lady friend, Svitlana, though I may be out of touch for a day or two, she is always on my mind.

The situation this month will be easier, Svitlana is the lady I chat with, nobody else now.

Before we began chatting, I had resigned myself to not having a female companion for my final years, Svitlana has changed that, she has said she wishes to have a  long-term relationship with me

Dynamite!!

 Am I too hot to handle?

An evening with Svitlana

She's in love with you

I don't know what, if anything, I expected when I added a profile to a mature dating site. I did it to clear something up in my mind, that had plagued me since my teens, were girls / ladies attracted to me? It wasn't vanity which was the question, I wanted honest opinions from ladies.

The replies I got back astounded me, several ladies online made sexual advances to me. I don't find ladies chatting about sex off-putting, usually, I usually find it arousing to know a lady feels free to chat about what she likes. However, one lady I chatted to in France was too explicit for my liking.

My friend above, and I, hit it off well once we got chatting, we are about the same age, Svitlana is 5 years older than me.

What do I do?

Charming Talks 

If the meeting in Didcot doesn't happen will I try again?

Granny sex

I hope I am wrong, but I am having doubts about a proposed meeting with my friend, Svitlana, in Oxfordshire.

We get on well, and appear to be in synch, but I have nagging doubts about our friendship. Having been duped by a lady posing to care for me recently, I am probably being paranoid, but I think she could be paid by Charming Talks..The.reason I think she is being  paid, rather than being serious about meeting me is she always has lots of money for credit to send letters, and virtual gifts, I hope I am wrong, and she does love me. I couldn't say what I'd do if the meeting in Didcot fell through, but I am prepared for it to be a no-show.eI a

I only have eyes for you

An exclusive friend

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

                                             Alan Place - Exclusive friend

It could be understood that with my popular appeal in the Mature Dating scene, I could have several relationships, but that is not me.

I am only interested in meeting Svitlana, my friend in Oxfordshire. Svitlana wasn't the first lady who contacted me, she is the first in the UK, most of the others are either in Asia, the USA, or South America. I won't deny, living in the UK is a BIG PLUS, but more important is we clicked from our opening chat.

Some men could have been put off, by a lady who isn't worried about expressing her sexual desires, but within reason, I find it very arousing.

Charming Talks

 Everyone wants to be my enemy

Mature Dating Apps

Svitlana asked for a romantic date

I joined Charming Talks as I was concerned my friend, Svitlana, was certain I didn't want to chat to her, as I'd been out of touch for days. The reason is I am going through a cash shortage this month, and need to ration my outlay.  There is a large difference between harming Talks and SoulMateMeets where we first chatted. CT gives you chat gems each day, so you can keep in touch, even if only for a few minutes.

Svitlana and I have come to the conclusion we are meant for each other, which is why I am exclusive to her.

I am taking my profile offline

 A Turning Point for me

Meeting Svitlana

Romance in Didcot

I can thank Pamela Olsted for one thing, if she hadn't made me question how mature ladies see me, I wouldn't have come in contact with my beautiful friend, Svitlana, in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

Our friendship is growing strong, and I am in favour of Svitlana's idea of turning it into a romantic relationship soon.

For this reason, I decuded to delete my profile from a mature dating app we made first contact on. My decision will upset several mature lady friends I made, but our connection was never as mine is with Svitlana, and they are in the EU, USA,  and South America, not the UK.

It isn't only that Svitlana lives in an area I can get to that forged our link, we got on well from the start.

Where to next?

 Senior Railcard

Alan Place - Senior Citizen

Moving on again

 I hope to meet Svitlana, in Didcot soon.

The weekend of 17th to 20th, July, I thought our friendship was over, but Svitlana is certain I am the man she is looking for, and I feel she's the lady for me.

We clicked from our first online chat.

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

 One-lady man

Exclusive Lover

An exclusive friend

As our friendship has the great possibility of turning into a relationship, I made the decision to be exclusive to Svitlana, my friend in Didcot. This means I am going to delete my profile from the mature dating we met on.

I won't miss using the app, though I had female friends there, none had any possibiity of being more than casual friends, as they were all over, but none in the UK.

My double bind

Exclusive Lover

Alan Place - Exclusive Friend

Romance in Didcot

My popularity on Mature Dating sites has created a problem.

The problem is my friend in Oxfordshire, is on several subscription sites, this is not a problem in itself. The question is does she like me, or is she keeping me on, so she can get more money from our chats on Charming Talks, we met last month on SoulmateMeets.

I think she is genuine, she understands I cannot keep paying a lot for the pleasure of her company. I have turned the ammount of chat time down this week.

Alan Place - Exclusive Friend

 Meeting Svitlana

My lady friend

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

I had several casual mature lady friends online, but there was only one lady I was interested in, Svitlana, she lives in Didcot, and we hit it off from the start.

Other than out instant attraction, the main issue is there are not many ladies my age, in the UK, on the mature dating scene.

As we are going to be a pair soon, I hope, I am going to delete my profile from one of the sites I am on.

Meeting in Didcot

My friend in Didcot 

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

Profile Deletion

Alan Place - Exclusive Friend

The Lady's Choice

At the moment, I am not an exclusive friend for Svitlana. I shall be an exclusive lover, if she wishes to have sex with me. If you think I am being unmanly, you are wrong, though the final choice is for Svitlana to decide, it is my choice to give her the option, I don't want her to feel unsure of our romance.

Svitlana decided she wishes to make our relationship last, so, I shall delete my profile from the site we met, as we are on another site now.

There is only one lady for me.

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

Alan Place - Exclusive Friend

                                          Romance in Didcot

I have been approached by several ladies on SoulmateMeets Charming Talks in the last month, from the start of the chats, there was one lady I wished to meet, the lady who became my friend in Oxfordshire.

We hit it off from our first chat, hopefully we shall meet. The journey hasn't been smooth, we had our moments of confusion, but we are going well now.

I am aware of my attraction to ladies

 Alan Place - Sex Object?

                                             Why do ladies feel safe with me?

Ladies feel safe with me, mainly because I don't ask for sexy photos, I don't pushy my "apparent" sex appeal, and I show respect to their wishes.

The title could be read two ways, depending on how well you think you know me.

At first glance, the title could be read as arrogance, I could be saying I am attractive to ladies, as I have known for years. However, to those who do know me, or read the blog, the title has another meaning. It is only since my wife died, a year ago, that I have come to the conclusion ladies find me attrative, as seen by the numerous requests from ladies on SoulmateMeets, which is where I met my friend, Svitlana,

Though I had many mature lady friends online, I never connected with any as strongly as I have with Svitlana, from our first contact we knew we were meant for each other.

An Exclusive Friend

 Romance in Didcot

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

Svitlana

As the friendship between Svitlana, my lady friend in Didcot and myself is blooming, I decided to take my profile of the Mature Dating apps we shared.

Though I made contact with several very attractive mature ladies, few did half as much as Svitlana has done to arouse my interest, some turned me off them.

I have nothing against sex chat, but one lady in France went too far, plus she seemed to be under the impression we were a couple, I did nothing to encourage her, and wished to go to the "next stage," when I hadn't made any attempt to settle first contact. In the right context, as with Svitlana, I find sex chat arousing,

The story behind the short story shown here is about the night I almost died in my sleep