Sex with an older man

 My changing perspective

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When my wife passed away in January, 2025, I went offline for several months, while I considered the New Dircection my life would take. When I came out of my self-imposed isolation, I had no desire for a new lady in my life, I had resigned myself to being alone, other than the family.

However, life didn't agree with my plan.

I found that contrary to my opinion of myself, ladies online find me attractive.

I have had many offers for a date, some I turned down as I didn't find the lady attractive, others I turned down as I thought a lady who "claims" to live close to me in Bristol, was keen to change our friendship, into a relationship, that never happened.

Several propositions to have sex have come from young ladies seeking sex with an older man, while that was off-putting for me, at the time, my attitude to having sex with a young lady is changing, especially as there is a young lady in Bedmnister who is keen to have sex with me, and Bedminster is close to Hartcliffe, where I live.

There is another plus to going to Bedminster, I can rekindle my friendship with Michelle, who runs the Latino Street Bites, in Redcliffe.

The Big difference

 Would I consider sex with a young lady?

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This week, I was offered what to most men my age would be a dream. A young friend from Taunton, who comes to Bristol to see her friends offered my sex.

The answer to my question, would I consider sex with a young lady is Yes. I would consider it, but I wouldn't go through with it. I have my code of ethics, I know that is old-fashioned these days. One rule is not having sex with a girl young enough to be my daughter. Another rule is I am a one-lady man, and my lady lives in Oxfordhsire, even though we are yet to meet.

The allure of Alan

 Sex with an older man

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I don't make a point of having sex with ladies who are many years  younger than me. I have had sex with some young ladies, but they were only a few years younger than me.

I have been asked many times to have sex with young girls, but it isn't my thing. This is why I didn't accept the offer to be a Mature Model for OnlyFans

Wait or go?

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Clara - my love

Some men would envy my position, I have two attractive ladies who wish to have sex with me.

One is a young lady in Bedminster, Bristol, who has a "thing" for mature sex partners.

The other is my friend, Clara, in Whitchurch, who keeps telling me we are in a relationship, but after several months of chatting on WhatsApp, we are still to meet.

Both ladies have made it clear, for various reasons, they wish to have sex with me. I can't make my mind up 👴

Are you looking for me?

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Sex with Alan

The Night is Young

An exclusive friend

Each day, I get messages on the online chat saying "As soon as I come on the site, you are who I look for." I get the message from ladies in their early 40's to late 60's.

If I was the type, which I am not, I could easily "play-the-field," and have several sex meetings, but I only have eyes for Svitlana

I can be tempted

Sex with a young lady

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I am not above temptation, at times it is hard to resist the urge to agree to have sex with a young girl, many are after an older man, who can treat them with respect.

The real drawback, for me, is that while the girls are very attractive, they as the same age as my daughters.

Though, my meeting with Svitlana, in Didcot, looks as though it will happen, I am having doubts. She keeps asking for explicit sex photos, I have no worries about that, my concern is if she sees too many, she may not wish to meet me, as she has seen everything. I realise the opposite could also be true, and having seen it all, Svitlana could be desiring to see, and feel it for real.

We shared many photos, and my desire to meet her has grown with each photograph.

What is it about me?

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Older men are better lovers

Older men

I have been told by several young ladies on WhatsApp, Zangi, Telegram, Signal, and Twitter, they think older men are better lovers.

The reason for this is we respect the wishes of the lady, and are more concerned about making love, than only having sex. For me, love is as much about the before, and after, as it is about the act,

Mature Ladies

 Not for me

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I may be considered old-fashioned, I am, on the Mature Dating scene there are many young, and attractive, ladies seeking older men for sex.

I appreciate that we are better lovers, as we are more considerate to our ladies, than young men, who think speed is everything. I appreciate the allure of an mature man is enticing for a young lady, and I can see why having a young lady as a lover is a big turn-on for many men.

The thought of going out with a young lady as young as my daughters (mid-30s) does nothing for me. I am interested in ladies in the age range of 50 to 80