I am popular with Ladies of Charming Talks

 Mature Dating

The Exclusive Lover

An Exclusive Friend

Svitlana

Despite the appeal I appear to generate among ladies on the dating app Charming Talks, I have eyes only for my friend from the Ukraine, who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

Svitlana and I hit it off from the get go. Some of our chats involve sex chats, today's has been more about my upcoming neck opeartion to remove a limpoma.

Though I have over 60 ladies wishing to chat to me, I am only interested in Svitlana, most of the ladies live either in the USA, or the Far East

Another reason why I don't chat to the ladies is many are younger than my daughters, while some men find this a turn-on, I am not one of those. I prefer a lady closer to my age, from the 56 to 78.

Lost

 British Gas Dilemma

Svitlana's worries

The Monkey on my back

Because British Gas have turned a 10-day wait for my refund, into a month-long wait, I have no money for food, or to stay in contact with my friend, Svitlana in Oxfordshire.

I am also waiting for a debt to be repaid, however, I am not holding my breath for that payment.

I have told Svitlana, she has nothing to worry over, I am not ignoring her, and chatting to other ladies

Svitlana is the only lady for me

 One-lady man

You're the one I want

Svitlana

Since we began our online chat,Svitlana, my friend in Didcot, Oxfordshire, is the only lady I have been interested in meeting. I have many offers from ladies to meet, and almost as many to have sex.

It isn't only because she is in the UK which makes her my choice, we hit it off from the start, we are ideal for each other.

I am desired

 Romance in Didcot

Meeting Svitlana

She's in love with you

I have ladies online who class as their favourite, the only lady I am interested in is my friend,Svitlana, who lives in Didcot in Oxfordshire.

From the get-go we got on well, even if she was a little enthsiastic about her sex chat, but that is nothing I worry about. I find a lady who knows what she likes, and isn't afraid to ask, arousing.

There was one lady in France I found off-putting, she was too descriptive for my liking, and I wasn't really interested in her besides that,

Are you looking for me?

Sex with an older man

Sex with Alan

The Night is Young

An exclusive friend

Each day, I get messages on the online chat saying "As soon as I come on the site, you are who I look for." I get the message from ladies in their early 40's to late 60's.

If I was the type, which I am not, I could easily "play-the-field," and have several sex meetings, but I only have eyes for Svitlana

I get many offers

Dateline

Svitlana's wish

                                                    What do I do?

Other than being my usual non-assertive personality, I don't do anything I consider unusual, yet, the mature ladies I chat to find my pesonality attractive. I think one of my charms is that while I don't object to chatting about sex, I don't lead the chat in that direction.

I don't see a lady who knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to ask, as a threat, I find her arousing.

She's in love with you

Romance in Didcot

 The True Path of Romance

Meeting Svitlana

I am still unsure if the planned meeting in Didcot will happen, after a short chat today, I am a little more at ease than I have been for the last few days.

I am prepared for the day trip to be a visit to the area, if that is the case, I will still enjoy the day, as there are some places of interest for me to visit nearby.

You're the one I want

My lady friend in Oxfordshire

An evening with Svitlana

The True Path of Romance

Though I am still not 100% certain my meeting in Didcot will happen, after a chat this afternoon, some of my reservations are a little more relaxed. Svitlana appears to be set that I am her man, that suits me, if she is telling the truth. Until we meet, I am prepared for her NOT to turn up, if that is the case, I will have a nice day trip.

Hidden Delights

 I only have eyes for you

                                                   Alan Place - Sex Object?    

                                            Alan Place - Mature Model

For some reason, the posts which gain the most reads feature my photograph.

If I was vain, I could say I am attractive to ladies of all ages, a lot does goes to which hash-tags you use though. It is worthwhile having a search to find the most used.

Boundaries are needed

A lady who knows what she wants

King of Hearts

Openness can be arousing

My friend, Svitlana, and I often have naughty sex chats, but she knows if she wishes to stop, all she has to do is ask. While sex chats can be arousing, you do need boundaries, and safe words. One lady in France I chatted to was so explicit, it was not sexy at all.

I don't view a lady asking for what she wants as a threat, I view it as arousing, my turn-on is knowing the lady I am with is aroused by me.

King of Hearts

 Alan Place - Sex Object?

Svitlana

I never considered myself attractive to ladies

I am trying to believe that ladies find me attractive, despite the many ladies on Twitter, and Charming Talks who compliment me.

Some like my nose, many like my beard, most like my gentle approach. I am old-fashioned, and show ladies respect which is rare in these days of young men trying to force themselves on ladies.

Years ago, a friend in Newcastle said I was like a dinosaur, in the nicest way, in a world of immorality, I stuck to my moral code of repspecting ladies; she also said, I stood out like a diamond in a field of coal.

I tell the ladies, they are in control of what we talk about, this gives them the knowledge that they are safe

On Charming Talks, some ladies call me a heartbreaker, as I am in a relationship with a lady in Oxfordshire who I met on the site, I don't chat to others, besides most of the ladies are in the USA, not the UK.