If the meeting in Didcot doesn't happen will I try again?

 Meeting Svitlana

Older Ladies

I hope the meeting in Didcot with Svitlana does happen. I am prepared for it not to, though, as I have my doubts. Most of the doubts are based in a lack of self-confidence.

If the meeting doesn't happen, I will not rush into another meeting, that is not to say I am saying I am not willing to meet another lady, only it will take longer than my usual time.

After October I may leave the Dating App

 Meeting Svitlana

Charming Talks

Meeting in Didcot

As I hope to meet my friend,Svitlana, hopefully by my birthday in October. If I can get her to add WhatsApp to her phone, I would leave the app we are using now, Charming Talks. 

My departure will upset some of the ladies as they see me as attractive, and try to tempt me for a chat, but I only stay on the site because Svitlana is there.

We had a laugh last night, I told Svitlana "some of the ladies call me a heartbreaker for not replying," her reply was they must think you have a girlfriend by now."

I am taking my profile offline

 A Turning Point for me

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Romance in Didcot

I can thank Pamela Olsted for one thing, if she hadn't made me question how mature ladies see me, I wouldn't have come in contact with my beautiful friend, Svitlana, in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

Our friendship is growing strong, and I am in favour of Svitlana's idea of turning it into a romantic relationship soon.

For this reason, I decuded to delete my profile from a mature dating app we made first contact on. My decision will upset several mature lady friends I made, but our connection was never as mine is with Svitlana, and they are in the EU, USA,  and South America, not the UK.

It isn't only that Svitlana lives in an area I can get to that forged our link, we got on well from the start.

A Suprise ending to 2026

 Meeting in Didcot

Action Stations !!!

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Today will begin the end of my time in hell. In November, 2025, I was contacted on Twitter, and later via WhatsApp by a lady calling herself Clara Kent, she turned out to be scammer Pamela Olsted.

By various means, she convinced me she cared for me, when all she wanted was my money. I was for a short period, under the impression she lived near me in Bristol. I stayed in contact, to give her the opportunity to prove she lived here, but it was soon clear she didn't.

By July, 2026, I had put her out of my mind, and resigned myself to losing the money I sent her, despite her saying she would refund me at some time. In September, 2026, her sister said she would repay the money owed to me, today, I am hoping this will happen.

I can finally put Pamela, and her family, out of my mind, and concentrate on meeting my friend   Svitlana in Didcot, Oxfordshire. Svitlana and I made contact on SoulmateMeets, and have continued our friendship on Charming Talks, we got on well from our first chat.

On a more personal note, today I will be going into hospital to have a lump removed from my neck.

I have no doubts over Svitlana

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In discussion with Svitlana

Svitlana's dedication

My friend Svitlana has made her situation clear to me, despite my limited cash, she is adamant that I am the man she wants in her life. Our friendship is strained as I am trying to get some money I have been owed for almost a year, this means we can chat for only an hour each night for now

Losing track of time

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We have to gel

Svitlana

A  new Romance blooms in Tropico

It has taken weeks, but I have finally got the majority of posts about Pamels Olsted from showing in the statistcs of the blog. Most I pushed out with new posts, others I changed the context from her, to the lady in my life, Svitlana, who DOES live in the UK.

Thre are no posts showing Pamela until the six month list, and they are not in the immediate ratings list.

After months of online chatting, I hope to meet Svitlana, I am sure we'll get on well when we meet.

Another aspect of my confusion is I keep losing days this month, with concerns about hospital appointments.

A new beginning

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 The Mysteries of Romance

Latino Street Bites

I have put the last several months behind me, and I am now back to visiting my friend, Michelle's, cafe in Redcliffe, Bristol, twice a week when finances or health allow.

Romance in Didcot

Another improvement to my life is the hope of meeting my new freiend, Svitlana, who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire. Svitlana and I get on well with our online chat on Charming Talks, and she has made it clear she wishes to have sex with me.

An evening with Svitlana

 My birthday present

                                                Film Noir evenings

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The ideal birthday present for me, would be a sleepover with my friend, Svitlana, she has suggested it, not at my request. As Svitlana mentioned the subject, it is her choice to ask. I will not raise the subject again, if she raises the subject we can discuss how to go forward. I will be happy to spend the day with her, and return to Bristol with happy memories. All this is a long way off, as my birthday isn't until October

Will we meet?

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Romance in Didcot

Be Prepared

Though, Svitlana has made it clear to me that she wishes to meet me, I am still not totally sure our meeting in Didcot, will happen. Even if we don't meet, I can still enjoy the day out.

I would love nothing more than to meet Svitlana, we get on so well in our online chat forum, it would be a shame if we didn't have the opportunity to meet, especially as she is keen for us to have sex.

Plans for 2027

 My online romance

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Cash Shortage

My first task is to clear the cash shortage caused by getting involved in a scam with Pamela Olsted, and her sister. This I hope will be settled by Feruary,

The next stage will, hopefully, be to arrange a meeting with my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot. I will be happy to carry out her first wish for a sleepover, it would make my trip calmer, for little extra cost. Her other wish, to marry me, is something we need to discuss.

I have a few short break holidays I would like to take too, perhaps a day out in Exeter, or a few days in Edinburgh. I have no plans to go abroad. I may even go back to Yorkshire sometime.

Some of these ideas depend on if Svitlana and I get on well when we meet, I am sure we shall, our online chat is relaxed

Another Life

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A new Romance

While Svitlana and I are keen to meet. Next month will be hard for me, it would have been my 40th Wedding Anniversary, had my late wife lived 😢😢💔💔.

If Svitlana wishes to meet before August 16th, I shal tell her.

I know my wife would wish me to go on living, not rot away in seclusion, and the family are happy for me to find a compsnion too

Brief Encounter

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Senior Railcard

Cash Shortage

My friend, Svitlana, is partially correct in saying th loan I have not been repaid is harming our friendship, and the growth of our relationship, another factor is the cost to me of keeping in contact on Charming Talks. It costs me £10 a night, for an hours chat. She is worth much more to me than that, but I can't keep paying out at this rate, even if I get my £3,000 back from the sister of scammer Pamela Olsted.

I don't wish to lose contact with her, but somethings are beyond my control. My money issues will probably mean I will not get the Senior Railcard I had planned to buy to pay for my trips to see Svitlana in Didcot, also I shall delete my info from the dating apps I was on. 

I will miss our chats, and it will take a long time to get over our seperation, even though we have not met, if this does happen, I have no plans to attempt another relationship.

A new direction

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It is the lady's choice

Svitlana's wish

In the last two months, my life has taken a new direction. In June, when I ended my business partnership, I can't say friendship, as we never met in person, with a lady - who turnined out to be a SCAMMER - I decided as a final act, I would add my profile to two Mature Dating apps, to find if ladies see me as attractive, not for vanity but for an evaluation, I never consider myself as attractive.

I was proved wrong, ladies find me attractive, at the point when I had given up on romance, romance found me. A lady in Didcot, Oxfordshire, has taken a shine to me. Svitlana is adamant she wishes to meet me to form a relationship.

Her birthday is a few days before my late wife's in March.

How did it start?

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Online Chat rooms

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A year ago a comment I put on Twitter stired up some interest in me among ladies. I said, "If I was to look for another relationship, I wouldn't consider doing it, until April."

A history teacher from the USA, who lives in Gloucester asked "Why wait so long, when the lady you may want is here now?" I explained that from October to April, I had several family related matters to handle. She made it clear, she wished me to be the man in her life. We had a short time chatting online, our link on Signal was so bad it would take a day for me to get a reply to a message. She didn't believe me when I told her, and accused me of cheating on her.

Next came another lady from the USA, she lives near me in Thornbury. Again, she made her intentions clear, she wished for me to be her lover, I never felt anything for this lady.

After that, I can only describe the next eight months as HELL, looking back. I got involved with a lady I thought at first, lived in Bristol, it was soon clear to me she did not. It tuned out she lives in Pennsylvania, is a scammer, and has served jail time for identity theft. I hope to have a refund of the loan I sent her over the eight months I had contact with her, later today. I emphasise "HOPE."

Finally, afer ending my contact with the scammer, I added my profile to a dating app, to see if ladies do find me attractive, and formed a link with my new friend, Svitlana, who is from Ukraine, but lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire.

Svitlana

My online romance

 Ukraine

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Svitlana's dedication

Because of the conflict in Ukraine, I doubt my relationship with Svitlana will progress further than we are now.

The problem is she wishes to visit her relatives, but cannot get her visa because of the conflict. 

While I am a litle disappointed, I am happy to progress as we are, close online friends. Perhaps, we will meet one day.

Lost in Translation

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Family Assistance

A decade of love

Occasionally Svitlana slips into her native Ukrainian, and I have to ask for a translation.

I think our relationship is going to be romantic, with plenty of fun to recall.

If I had doubts, over her love, this weekend has cleared them. Svitlana has been most upset to have missed our daily chat, so am I. Our chats keep me going through the hard times I am having.

My children would be happy if I had another lady in my life, they know no lady can replace their mother, but they know she would wish me to be happy,

My next objective

 Meeting Svitlana

My Angel

                                                        Glamorous Granny

By next month, I hope to be clear of the damage done to my cash supply by scammer Pamela Olsted. 

This will give me the opportunity to visit my friend,Svitlana, in Oxfordshire. For some reasson, despite me trying not to arouse her, Svitlana has several sexual ideas for our friendship. Though I did nothing to encourage her, she was keen for sex chat from the get-go, and I find a lady who knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to ask arousing

Objective 2

 My next objective

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Svitlana's wish

My first objective was to get so many blog posts ahead of the ones about Pamela Olsted, and her sister, that they are not seen on the immediate opening of the weekly statitics. This has been achieved. The second objective will be much harder, I wish to eliminate them from the immediate monthly views.

My main objective is to be free of the financial stress they caused, so I can visit my friend, Svitlana, in Didcot.

Another goal is to be free of the stress, so i can order some shirts from Hollywood Mysteries for my birthday next month.

A steady relationship

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Charming Talks

A rocky start

After what can only be described as a tumultous beginnging, my friend, Svitlana, and I, are now in a more established friendship with hopes of it becoming a relationship soon.

Some of the bumps in the road were because we began chatting on SoulmateMeets, and I was chatting to other ladies as well. Now we are on Charming Talks, I only chat to Svitlana.

The race is on

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Oxfordshire

Svitlana

The time to meet my lady friend in Oxfordshire is approaching, she has a holiday booked to return to the Ukraine this month. On her return, I am hoping to meet her by my birthday in mid-October.

Svitlana did mention a sleepover, this would benefit us in many ways. We wouldn't need worry about me catching the train back to Bristol from Didcot on the same day.

It would also give us more time to get to know each other, though she suggested the idea, I said we should meet a few times, to see if we get on as well in peson as we do online