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The Dangers of being an Introvert 

I never considered myself attractive

I never see myself as ladies see me

The main risk of being an introvert like me is you have to rely on online chat rooms to make contact, as I found out with Pamela Olsted aka Clara Kent, this can leave you vulnerable to scammers. Most people online are genuine I have found out.

My problem was until last month, July 2026, I never considered myself as attractive to ladies, adding my profile to two mature dating apps changed my view, if not my outlook of myself. I am still unsure of my appeal

Do I mean somrthing to you?

 Charming Talks

SoulmateMeets

I get many offers

I can't help thinking, do I mean something to my friend, Svitlana, or am I only another customer on a chat site to her?

She is making the right chat to entice me to stay on the site, to chat to her, though the time is limited by how much I can afford.

I have the disadvantage of being an introvert, meeting ladies is hard for me. I could be reading something into the situation, which is not there. Last night when I contacted her, her mind appeared pre-occupied, and her request for explicit sex photographs has me wondering does she wish to meet me?

Alan Place - Recluse

 Would I be missed?

Could I be tempted from Svitlana?

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Until this afternoon, I would have said it would take a lot for me not to want to be with my friend, Svitlana, things have changed. I don't know if she does find me attractive, or if she's playing me to get money for subscription site.

I am prepared for NOT to turn up, when we arrange a meeting, if that happens, I can still enjoy the day as I can vist Wallingford Castle.

The best way to know if a person is genuine is to go out, and meet people, for an introvert like me, that is extremely hard. I thought myself unattractive, then the ladies online said I was wrong, now I find they may have said that to boost their pay from sites.

How do I see myself?

I never see myself as ladies see me

                                                                      Alan Place - Sex Object?

Part of my charm is I underestimate my appeal.

Whether as a writer, or lover, I constantly underestimate my appeal, is that a bad thing?

Another aspect of my charm is that I show a lady respect, this goes a long way. If a lady wishes to engage in sex chat, that is her choice. I don't object, within reason.

Ladies for some reason I cannot understand, find me attractive, only six years ago, I was approached by an attractive lady, who asked to meet me. At the time, I had to decline her offer, I was married.

I may give off a lost boy appeal, or it could be my introvert side which appeals to ladies, who knows? All I know is ladies see me as attractive.

Reckless

 Romance in Didcot

The Oxfordshire Romance

I have moved on

I could be classed as reckless, I started a friendship with a lady online, within days of ending another friendship. 

My problem is being an introvert, making contact in person is impossile, mainly because until July, I thought i was unattractive. The two ladies are very different were Svitlana is kind, generous, and caring about us, all Pamela Olsted aka Clara Kent wanted was to scam me.

The truth is I was over Pamela months before I ended the friendship, she had been telling lies for months, once or twice, I can forgive, but for months is beyond forgiveness.

This film with Wiliam Powell, and his wife, Jean Harlow will be only the second film I have seen with Rosalind Russell in.