Has my popularity on Mature Dating sites changed my decisions?

 Mature Dating Sites 

What is my attraction?

You may imagine knowing my popualrity on Mature Dating Apps would have changed some desicions I make, but it hasn't.

I joined two apps to verify a thoughtline, I had harboured for most of my life.

The last thing I was after was a female companion, as I think I have one in Bristol, even if she is loathe to meet. I did point out, as our friendship is not moving to the relationship she wishes, though I may not be looking for a date, if a lady asks, I shall consider the option.

I was pleasantly suprised to find mature ladies find me attractive

Mature Dating Apps

 Alan Place - Sex object?

I never considered myself attractive

Though my popularity on Mature Dating Apps is growing by the day, I am still not sure why?

Is it because I am the new man on the block?

Could it be that ladies find me attractive?

Could it be ladies find my profile interesting, and wish to know the man behind the enigma?

Global Warming

 The Mature Dating Trend of Alan Place

Mature Ladies

My appearance on Mature Dating Apps has caused a stir, without trying, I have caused a trend of mature ladies asking to meet me. Some are very explicit in how they view the possibility of what they see in me.

Some of the ladies have openly said, they wish to have sex with me. If I wasn't trying to form a relationship with a lady in Oxfordshire, I would be tempted, some of the ladies are to me, very beautiful, such as the lady I am chatting who lives in Spain. I do have a passport, though I haven't used it for travel, as I got to be used for identity for government purposes

The Complete Alan

 Alan Place 

I never considered myself attactive to ladies

Mature Dating

Since I aded my profile to two Mature Dating Apps, I have been engulfed by mature ladies wishing to meet me. Several have made sexual advances to me.

Before I consider the possibility, the question I ask is when did you decide you wished for sex with me? To my suprise, the most frequent reply is as soon as I saw your photograph.

I never push my appeal to ladies, I leave the choice to them. Also, I am happy to let them decide when, or if we make love, and what we do. I get my arousal seeing the lady I am with aroused.

I couldn't cope with the requests

 Frequent Flyer MIles

                                                  Mature Ladies

In my wicked way, I smile at the many requests I have had from mature ladies to meet via various mature dating apps I used last month.

At the same time, reading their posts on SoulmateMeets is a little concerning to me. I didn't realise so many grannies see me as attractive. I have no issue with making love to a lady who is a granny, so long as she is in her late 50s. That is because, I couldn't make love to a lady ying enough to be my daughter.

Looking at the requests, if I accpted half, I wouldn't be in the UK for more than two months of the year. This raises the question, when would I get a rest?

If I can't relax, my performance as a lover would drop rapidly.

This is all conjecture, I have one lady in my life, she lives in Oxfordshire

An Unavoidable delay

Pleasing the ladies

                                                        SoulMateMeets

I have several ladies on soulmatemeets who think I have neglected them, this is far from true. The reason for not being in contact is I cannot afforf the cost of chatting more than twice a week, at the moment.

I have been asked, how much like the character in my award-winning book - The Chronicles of Mark Johnson - am I?

We do share various matters, we hate the trend of celebrity.

We love the sea, peace and quiet, and a good mystery.

However, we differ in one area, Mark is considered a ladies man, while I am not, even if my popularity on mature dating apps would indicate otherwise. I have no control over how mature ladies see me, I don't go out to gain mature lovers.

Are ladies on Dating Apps paid by the site?

 Mature Lady

Granny

Sex with a Granny

I can't help feeling tha ladies on the Dating Apps I use are paid by the site.

My friend, Svitlana, who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, always seems to have an endless balance to chat, while I need to limit myself to an hour a day. Ihave tried to ask her to leave the app, so we can chat longer, but she keeps baulking on the idea, which fuels my thoughts she is paid by the site,

Alan's Harem

 A long time ago

Alan Place - Trendsetter

Though for many years, I had little contact with ladies online, I had a group of friends, who referred to themselves as Alan's Harem. There were about a dozen I was in contact with, mainly in the UK.

With my appearance on Mature Dating Apps in the last month, I have become a trendsetter as many mature ladies are taking a liking to me.

I get offers for sex from ladies of all ages, and nationalities, some are sexually explicit.

I couldn't cope with half of the requests, if I wished to, but I am looking forward to making love to one lady in the UK, my friend, Svitlana

My sex appeal

 Hunted or Haunted?

I don't know why

The time has come, I think, to attempt to clarify my sex appeal.

This will be my outlook on what is happening, as I have little contact with many of the ladies who see me as attractive.

From lady friends I used to have, in ages past, certain trends appeared in our chats. It isn't always about physical attraction, I have never considered myself attractive to ladies.

The most common trend in the comments are I respect the ladies. Unlike many men, I see a lady online as a lady looking for someone to talk to, not as a target for a sex chat. If the lady wishes to talk about sex, that is her choice.

I have been told, I have a gentle personality, and I am pleasant to talk to. I built what popularity I have on being a nice person, not on seeing myself as a he-man type. Looks can change, the person usually stays, there are exceptions to all rules.

I have never cosidered cosmetic surgery, even before I knew of my genetic flaws, I discounted the idea. The only thing I would have liked is black hair.

Since joining two Mature Dating apps last month, I have been overwhelmed by the number of mature ladies who find me attractive. I am both delighted, and a little scared. I joined the sites to find out if ladies found me attractive, end of the story, I never thought of going further. I have a friend in Oxfordshire who is adamant she wishes to meet me soon

Is my presence arousing?

 What is it about me?

                                               The Appeal of Older men

I am at a loss to define my appeal to ladies.

Several on Dating Apps have said they find my presence as a turn-on, I don't show any nude images, the most you are likely to see is a bare head and shoulders.

I am polite, and respectful of the ladies wishes, and try not to chat about sex, unless the lady wishes to, and I never push my sexual attraction on a lady.

Though I'm on a mature dating app, I do not try to take advantage of a lady by forcing the chat, I am as happy to chat about cooking, gardening, and other non-sexual topics, as I am to chat about romance, or sex

Sex with Alan

 Alan Place - Sex Object?

Alan Place - sex toy

By adding my profile to two Mature Dating Apps, I created a scenarion I never imagined.

To understand the dilemna, one must understand the reasons behind my decison to add my name to the sites. I am trying, after several months, to meet a lady who "claims" to live close to me in Bristol.

Each meeting we plan, she has an excuse not to be there, so my thoughts turned to do mature ladies find me attractive?

I added my profile, and to my suprise, many ladies do find me attractive, and some have offered to have sex with me.

As it stands, until August, I will remain loyal to the lady in Bristol, after that I have a friend in Didcot, who is wishing to meet me.

An Exclusive Friend

 Romance in Didcot

Alan Place - Exclusive Lover

Svitlana

As the friendship between Svitlana, my lady friend in Didcot and myself is blooming, I decided to take my profile of the Mature Dating apps we shared.

Though I made contact with several very attractive mature ladies, few did half as much as Svitlana has done to arouse my interest, some turned me off them.

I have nothing against sex chat, but one lady in France went too far, plus she seemed to be under the impression we were a couple, I did nothing to encourage her, and wished to go to the "next stage," when I hadn't made any attempt to settle first contact. In the right context, as with Svitlana, I find sex chat arousing,

The story behind the short story shown here is about the night I almost died in my sleep

Operation Trench

 Plans for 2027

Silver Surfer

Dating a Granny

In November 2025, I will start my recovery from the ruins of chatting to a person, who "claimed" to live close to me in Bristol, UK. The effects of her scam went beyond financial, I was so exhausted from the strain of walking twice to possibly meet her, in September, I fell in the street, and was taken to hospital.

Something good did come out of the period I was in contact with her, at the time I ended our business association, I added my name to two Mature Dating apps, and found, to my suprise, ladies do find me attractive. One of the ladies, who lives in Didcot has taken great interest in me in the last four months, and is keen to meet.

After my last encounter, I am being cautious, and preparing myself for a planned meeting, not to happen. If this falls through, I probably won't seek a romantic partner again

Lost in Space

 Sex with a Granny

Alan Place - Lover

Grandfather I'd like to F##K

Over the last two months, since I added my profile to two mature dating apps, I have had many ladies, both young, and mature, asking to meet me. Some ladies have offered to have sex with me.

I have formed a relationship with a lady who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, and though I will be out of touch over the weekend, she knows I am not ignoring her, other ladies.

I am a one-lady man, and Svitlana is that lady to me.

Have I missed chatting to Pamela aka Clara?

Pamela Olsted 

Something good from my time with Clara

Svitlana

It has been a month since I stopped chatting to a lady who "claimed" to live in Whitchurch, Bristol, not far from where I am in Hartcliffe.

I had long considered her a scammer, at least once a month, she'd ask for money for "car repairs," then there was bus money.

The answer to the question is No, I do not miss chatting to the lady.

The best thing which came from that time is I added my profile to two mature dating apps, and the lady above, who lives in Oxfordshire, contacted me.

Svitlana and I hope to turn our online friendship into the relationship that the other lady "claimed" to want.

A new direction

Meeting Svitlana

It is the lady's choice

Svitlana's wish

In the last two months, my life has taken a new direction. In June, when I ended my business partnership, I can't say friendship, as we never met in person, with a lady - who turnined out to be a SCAMMER - I decided as a final act, I would add my profile to two Mature Dating apps, to find if ladies see me as attractive, not for vanity but for an evaluation, I never consider myself as attractive.

I was proved wrong, ladies find me attractive, at the point when I had given up on romance, romance found me. A lady in Didcot, Oxfordshire, has taken a shine to me. Svitlana is adamant she wishes to meet me to form a relationship.

Her birthday is a few days before my late wife's in March.

Online Chat rooms

The Dangers of being an Introvert 

I never considered myself attractive

I never see myself as ladies see me

The main risk of being an introvert like me is you have to rely on online chat rooms to make contact, as I found out with Pamela Olsted aka Clara Kent, this can leave you vulnerable to scammers. Most people online are genuine I have found out.

My problem was until last month, July 2026, I never considered myself as attractive to ladies, adding my profile to two mature dating apps changed my view, if not my outlook of myself. I am still unsure of my appeal

Charming Talks

 Everyone wants to be my enemy

Mature Dating Apps

Svitlana asked for a romantic date

I joined Charming Talks as I was concerned my friend, Svitlana, was certain I didn't want to chat to her, as I'd been out of touch for days. The reason is I am going through a cash shortage this month, and need to ration my outlay.  There is a large difference between harming Talks and SoulMateMeets where we first chatted. CT gives you chat gems each day, so you can keep in touch, even if only for a few minutes.

Svitlana and I have come to the conclusion we are meant for each other, which is why I am exclusive to her.

Stockings or Pantyhose?

 My turn-on

Alan Place - Panties Freak

This is not only my opinion, but it has a basis in medicine.

Stockings are healthier than pantyhose, the reason for this is they allow moisture to disperse from a lady's area, rather than be trapped there to spread germs, ladies who suffer thrush would agree.

There is also a sexual reason for my liking, I enjoy the feeling of the fleshy areas of the inner thigh. I've been told by several ladies on mature dating apps, they are into me licking them over beore making love

My Film Noir Romance

 Romance in Whitchurch?

Romance in Didcot

My partnership / friendship with a lady who claimed to live in Bristol is over.

It ran like a classic film noir movie.

Guy with a good heart falls a pretty lady, who turns out to be a rat.

The difference is I am not heart-broken at the end, I'd decided it was over months ago, when she addmited shed been telling me lies, not that I hadn't reckoned that long before I was told. Like any good guy, I hoped things would turn out well for me, and like every dame, she betrayed me.

I'm moving on though, by adding my profile to two Mature Dating Apps, I have found ladies find me attractive, to my suprise