Operation Trench

 Plans for 2027

Silver Surfer

Dating a Granny

In November 2025, I will start my recovery from the ruins of chatting to a person, who "claimed" to live close to me in Bristol, UK. The effects of her scam went beyond financial, I was so exhausted from the strain of walking twice to possibly meet her, in September, I fell in the street, and was taken to hospital.

Something good did come out of the period I was in contact with her, at the time I ended our business association, I added my name to two Mature Dating apps, and found, to my suprise, ladies do find me attractive. One of the ladies, who lives in Didcot has taken great interest in me in the last four months, and is keen to meet.

After my last encounter, I am being cautious, and preparing myself for a planned meeting, not to happen. If this falls through, I probably won't seek a romantic partner again

Lost in Space

 Sex with a Granny

Alan Place - Lover

Grandfather I'd like to F##K

Over the last two months, since I added my profile to two mature dating apps, I have had many ladies, both young, and mature, asking to meet me. Some ladies have offered to have sex with me.

I have formed a relationship with a lady who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, and though I will be out of touch over the weekend, she knows I am not ignoring her, other ladies.

I am a one-lady man, and Svitlana is that lady to me.

Are ladies on Dating Apps paid by the site?

 Mature Lady

Granny

Sex with a Granny

I can't help feeling tha ladies on the Dating Apps I use are paid by the site.

My friend, Svitlana, who lives in Didcot, Oxfordshire, always seems to have an endless balance to chat, while I need to limit myself to an hour a day. Ihave tried to ask her to leave the app, so we can chat longer, but she keeps baulking on the idea, which fuels my thoughts she is paid by the site,

Peter Lorre

 Robert Mitchum

Hollywood Mysteries

Noir

For most of my life, I considered myself like the roles Peter Lorre played in Hollywood, the mysterious outsider. Since July that has changed, now I consider myself more like Robert Mitchum, deep and mysterious.

The reason for the change is I added my profile to two mature dating apps, and found ladies find me attractive, I wasn't looking for romance, but it found me

I don't know why ladies find me attractive

My Personality

Character is more impressive than beauty

                                                    Why do ladies feel safe with me?

Contrary to my view of my sexuality, ladies do find me attractive.

I never considred this possibilty, until July, 2025, when I added my profile to some mature dating apps, and was amazed by the reaction from ladies worldwide.

I have built a personality, that draws ladies to me, not only from a sexual view, but from the respect I show the ladies online. I do not push myself on a lady as some men do, I let the low of the chat draw us close. The subject of the chat is determined by the lady. I happy to chat about sex, if she chooses, but I don't take that direction.

The outlook appears good

Oxfordshire

The Oxfordshire Romance

A  new Romance blooms in Tropico

Despite my reservations, mainly about my self-esteem, Svitlana is determined to make our online friendship into a relationship. I don't try to say no, but I do tell her about my limitations.

I would like nothing more than for our relationship to bloom, as we both have a sexual context for our future meetings planned.

I never imagined anything like this would happen, when I added my details to two dating apps, I had no wish, other than to get an honest opinion of how mature ladies saw me. After the Pamela Olsted incident, I put all thoughts of a relationship out of my mind, until Svitlana contacted me. It was she who made the moves, something I find arousing

Have I missed chatting to Pamela aka Clara?

Pamela Olsted 

Something good from my time with Clara

Svitlana

It has been a month since I stopped chatting to a lady who "claimed" to live in Whitchurch, Bristol, not far from where I am in Hartcliffe.

I had long considered her a scammer, at least once a month, she'd ask for money for "car repairs," then there was bus money.

The answer to the question is No, I do not miss chatting to the lady.

The best thing which came from that time is I added my profile to two mature dating apps, and the lady above, who lives in Oxfordshire, contacted me.

Svitlana and I hope to turn our online friendship into the relationship that the other lady "claimed" to want.

Online Chat rooms

The Dangers of being an Introvert 

I never considered myself attractive

I never see myself as ladies see me

The main risk of being an introvert like me is you have to rely on online chat rooms to make contact, as I found out with Pamela Olsted aka Clara Kent, this can leave you vulnerable to scammers. Most people online are genuine I have found out.

My problem was until last month, July 2026, I never considered myself as attractive to ladies, adding my profile to two mature dating apps changed my view, if not my outlook of myself. I am still unsure of my appeal

Alan Place - Recluse

 Would I be missed?

Could I be tempted from Svitlana?

                                                        Mature Dating Apps

Until this afternoon, I would have said it would take a lot for me not to want to be with my friend, Svitlana, things have changed. I don't know if she does find me attractive, or if she's playing me to get money for subscription site.

I am prepared for NOT to turn up, when we arrange a meeting, if that happens, I can still enjoy the day as I can vist Wallingford Castle.

The best way to know if a person is genuine is to go out, and meet people, for an introvert like me, that is extremely hard. I thought myself unattractive, then the ladies online said I was wrong, now I find they may have said that to boost their pay from sites.

Charming Talks

 Everyone wants to be my enemy

Mature Dating Apps

Svitlana asked for a romantic date

I joined Charming Talks as I was concerned my friend, Svitlana, was certain I didn't want to chat to her, as I'd been out of touch for days. The reason is I am going through a cash shortage this month, and need to ration my outlay.  There is a large difference between harming Talks and SoulMateMeets where we first chatted. CT gives you chat gems each day, so you can keep in touch, even if only for a few minutes.

Svitlana and I have come to the conclusion we are meant for each other, which is why I am exclusive to her.

I couldn't cope with the requests

 Frequent Flyer MIles

                                                  Mature Ladies

In my wicked way, I smile at the many requests I have had from mature ladies to meet via various mature dating apps I used last month.

At the same time, reading their posts on SoulmateMeets is a little concerning to me. I didn't realise so many grannies see me as attractive. I have no issue with making love to a lady who is a granny, so long as she is in her late 50s. That is because, I couldn't make love to a lady ying enough to be my daughter.

Looking at the requests, if I accpted half, I wouldn't be in the UK for more than two months of the year. This raises the question, when would I get a rest?

If I can't relax, my performance as a lover would drop rapidly.

This is all conjecture, I have one lady in my life, she lives in Oxfordshire

Stockings or Pantyhose?

 My turn-on

Alan Place - Panties Freak

This is not only my opinion, but it has a basis in medicine.

Stockings are healthier than pantyhose, the reason for this is they allow moisture to disperse from a lady's area, rather than be trapped there to spread germs, ladies who suffer thrush would agree.

There is also a sexual reason for my liking, I enjoy the feeling of the fleshy areas of the inner thigh. I've been told by several ladies on mature dating apps, they are into me licking them over beore making love

The cost of Loving

Romance in Didcot

My Angel

Svitlana

My popularity on the Mature Dating apps is increasing faster than I can cope with, if I wasn't devoted to meeting Svitlana, I could easily take several ladies up on their offers to meet. The main issue is most of the ladies live either in the USA, or Asia.

An Unavoidable delay

Pleasing the ladies

                                                        SoulMateMeets

I have several ladies on soulmatemeets who think I have neglected them, this is far from true. The reason for not being in contact is I cannot afforf the cost of chatting more than twice a week, at the moment.

I have been asked, how much like the character in my award-winning book - The Chronicles of Mark Johnson - am I?

We do share various matters, we hate the trend of celebrity.

We love the sea, peace and quiet, and a good mystery.

However, we differ in one area, Mark is considered a ladies man, while I am not, even if my popularity on mature dating apps would indicate otherwise. I have no control over how mature ladies see me, I don't go out to gain mature lovers.

My sex appeal

 Hunted or Haunted?

I don't know why

The time has come, I think, to attempt to clarify my sex appeal.

This will be my outlook on what is happening, as I have little contact with many of the ladies who see me as attractive.

From lady friends I used to have, in ages past, certain trends appeared in our chats. It isn't always about physical attraction, I have never considered myself attractive to ladies.

The most common trend in the comments are I respect the ladies. Unlike many men, I see a lady online as a lady looking for someone to talk to, not as a target for a sex chat. If the lady wishes to talk about sex, that is her choice.

I have been told, I have a gentle personality, and I am pleasant to talk to. I built what popularity I have on being a nice person, not on seeing myself as a he-man type. Looks can change, the person usually stays, there are exceptions to all rules.

I have never cosidered cosmetic surgery, even before I knew of my genetic flaws, I discounted the idea. The only thing I would have liked is black hair.

Since joining two Mature Dating apps last month, I have been overwhelmed by the number of mature ladies who find me attractive. I am both delighted, and a little scared. I joined the sites to find out if ladies found me attractive, end of the story, I never thought of going further. I have a friend in Oxfordshire who is adamant she wishes to meet me soon

Alan's Global Harem

 What is my attraction?

                                                                     Alan's Harem

The harem I mentioned yesterday was based in the UK, with friends from as far away as Kilmarnock to as Farnborough.

My global harem is scary for me, since joining Mature Dating Apps, and WhatsApp, I have requests for sex from as close as Bath, to as far away as Australia.

The thing that arouses me most, is I find most of the ladies very attractive. I had requests from Spain, Portugal, China, and France. Many of the ladies are very descriptive in their sex life, this too is arousing, as it would mean I can please the lady. A turn-on for me is having a lady tell me what she likes.

I have had requests for sex from ladies as young as 30, to late 70s, this may appear off-putiing to have sex with a lady in her 70s, but I am 70 in a few months.

Alan's Harem

 A long time ago

Alan Place - Trendsetter

Though for many years, I had little contact with ladies online, I had a group of friends, who referred to themselves as Alan's Harem. There were about a dozen I was in contact with, mainly in the UK.

With my appearance on Mature Dating Apps in the last month, I have become a trendsetter as many mature ladies are taking a liking to me.

I get offers for sex from ladies of all ages, and nationalities, some are sexually explicit.

I couldn't cope with half of the requests, if I wished to, but I am looking forward to making love to one lady in the UK, my friend, Svitlana

Grandfather I'd like to F##K

 Why do Older men make better lovers?

                                                                   Alan Place - Lover

From my appearance on the Mature Dating Apps, it would appear, I have become the male version of a GILF, in this case, a grandfather I'd like to f~~k.

I have had many requests to meet young ladies, the issue is I am old-fashioned, while some men would have no objection to having sex with a young lady, young enough to be their daughter, I do.

I prefer my romantic partner between the ages of 50 - 80. After all, I am 70 in October.

I think it sad, young men don't appreciate young ladies these days. This is why the girls tend to older men, we appreciate ladies, and care for their pleasures if we can

Is my presence arousing?

 What is it about me?

                                               The Appeal of Older men

I am at a loss to define my appeal to ladies.

Several on Dating Apps have said they find my presence as a turn-on, I don't show any nude images, the most you are likely to see is a bare head and shoulders.

I am polite, and respectful of the ladies wishes, and try not to chat about sex, unless the lady wishes to, and I never push my sexual attraction on a lady.

Though I'm on a mature dating app, I do not try to take advantage of a lady by forcing the chat, I am as happy to chat about cooking, gardening, and other non-sexual topics, as I am to chat about romance, or sex

What is my type of lady?

 Do I have a type?

Ladies over 50

Until I lost my wife last year, I didn't give much thought to if I had a "type" of lady I may look for, that has changed since adding my profile to two mature dating apps.

I prefer ladies over 50, living in the UK.

Friendly personality, able to chat freely online.

Fuller figure, though not what I call too large bodied.

I don't object if the lady wishes to chat about sex, I try not to lead the conversation that way, but if the lady makes the choice I will follow