One-lady man
A rare insight
I was born in Middlesborough, North Yorkshire. I say I was born in Yorkshire, as it was Yorkshire when I was born, since then the area has changed its name twice.
My family moved to the Bristol area of England in 1963 when my father got a job in the area. I lived in Clevedon, North Somerset from 1963, until 1986 when I got married, and moved to Bristol.
I spent two years in college, in my teens, before I joined the Royal Air Force, in in 1974. While in the Royal Air Force, I served in Scotland, Germany, and Ireland.
I was in Germany months after the Baader Meinhof group were sent to jail, for the period of my tour NATO was on full alert, expecting an attack at any moment.
I was in Ireland towards the end of the period known as The Troubles. Again, this was a time when an attack could come at any time; being English in Ireland at the time was almost as bad as being English during my time at RAF Lossiemouth, Moray, Scotland. Added to the nationality issue was that RAF Lossiemouth used to be Royal Navy base, so we had the Royal Navy against the Royal Air Force as well.
While I was in Ireland, I was awarded the General Service Medal, it wasn't until recently I felt worthy of the medal, when a man pointed out that any service personnel in Ireland wee liable to come under attack, at any time from a terrorist. I lost the medal several years ago in a fire.
While I have not been on the frontline, like people in Israel, and the Ukraine, I have been close, and I can empathise with the tensions they are under.
After leaving the Royal Air Force, I spent a year unemployed before I joined the museum service in Bristol, were I stayed for 15 years. I was made redundant under the Labour government under Tony Blair, when they implemented the Zero-hours rule; at the time, I was the last man on a regular contract.
Though I lost my job, I didn't see it as a loss, at the time I left, the museum had become a police state. again, going against a Labour policy of banning a closed shop where only certain people can get a job. In some jobs, it is accepted to get a job though your family connection, mainly because those jobs are high-risk such as mining, and fishing.
In 2011, an injury I had during my years in the RAF returned. The original injury was a slightly torn tendon in my left foot, on a rainy Friday in 2011, the injury became a torn tendon, leaving me disabled. I was fortunate, the injury happened while I was at home, five minutes either side of that time, I would have been about a mile from the house.
It was at this time, I decided to write short stories for my friends online. Mainly, because I am not a TV junky; I can watch TV, but I can't spend all day watching it, these days I do watch more, but that is more YouTube than TV.
My early rep as a writer came from writing ghost stories, which I still write, and enjoy. My most notable period came during 2012, when a collection of short stories I wrote earned an award, and my science fiction series - Forgestriker - sold well.
I class myself as a writer, not a genre-writer, I have written stories in many genres, but I cannot write a sex story; I have written stories with sex in, but not a story were sex is the theme.
My latest stories are spiritual stories, and stories based in, or around India.
My wife, Linda, to whom I had been married for 38 years, passed away in January 2025. Her death lead to a period of seclusion, then to the knowldege, to my amazement that ladies see me as attractive.
Since July, 2026, I have made a new lady friend, her name is Svitlana. We are in our 70's, and have found romance in our later years.
Young ladies online
Do young ladies find me attractive?
I am popular with Ladies of Charming Talks
When you are in love with a beautiful woman
Lee Andrews
Ukraine
What do you see in me?
This week my self-doubts have risen again, the reason is on soulmatemeet, the mature dating site, along with my good friend Svitlana, I am being approached by several ladies.
While this is a thrill, it also eaises some concerns, not about my relationship with Svitlana, I can handle that. The issue is some of the ladies are judges, other own their own business, which comes back to the question, what can ladies with that degree of knowledge see in me?
I had a friend in Seattle, who had been to university at the time I was born, we got on well, but that was because we knew the boundaries. Though we got on well, extremely friendly most of the time, Julia and I knew it was only friendship. She did offer me the opportunity to visit her, there was a contest she thought I had an opportunity to win being run in the area, we used to play Words with Friends most nights, Scrabble under a different name. Julia was amazed at my ability with words.
I politely declined, not only because the contest was ongoing for weeks, but I pointed out the styles of the players, I had no doubt, I would not lose many games - no bragging - but I wouldn't get far, most of the people in the contests win by closing the game down with words of two, or three letters.
I have no issue with being the "bit of rough on the side." for an attractive lady, but we have no common ground for conversation. We had the same issue at Bristol Museum, when they tried to get the curators, and the security staff to share a rest-room and have a conversation.
I pointed out to my friend, Francis Greenacre, we don't share the same world, while they talk about trips abroad, we'd talk about the football on tv. What they class as a once-a-week treat, we'd call it a once-a-month splashout. Despite our different outlooks on life, he saw my point
Granny Sex
Glamorous Granny
Alan Place - Exclusive Lover
It could be understood that with my popular appeal in the Mature Dating scene, I could have several relationships, but that is not me.
I am only interested in meeting Svitlana, my friend in Oxfordshire. Svitlana wasn't the first lady who contacted me, she is the first in the UK, most of the others are either in Asia, the USA, or South America. I won't deny, living in the UK is a BIG PLUS, but more important is we clicked from our opening chat.
Some men could have been put off, by a lady who isn't worried about expressing her sexual desires, but within reason, I find it very arousing.
Meeting Svitlana
Romance in Didcot
Svitlana is the only lady for me
I have room in my romantic sphere, for one lady, that lady is my friend, Svitlana, she lives in Oxfordshire. In a short time, we have formed a strong friendship online, one we hope to turn into a relationship once we have met a few times
The difference between Pamela and Svitlana
Other than Svitlana doesn't keep asking for money, the big difference between our chats, and those I had with Pamela Olstad "AKA Clara Kent," is Svitlana interacts with the chat, whereas the other lady only agreed with my suggestions.
It was hard to chat to PO, whereas chatting to Svitlana is a pleasure, as we got on well from our first chat. Svitlana often chooses to chat about sex, which I find arousing. Unlike some men, I find a lady who asks for what she, is a delight, not a threat. What can be more arousing than kowing you are arousing your partner?
It is the lady's choice
I wouldn't have believed it
An evening with Svitlana
I have moved on
Dating a Granny
My friend, Svitlana, has made her intentions for us clear, she wishes to have sex with me. She didn't tell me straight away, but it became clear not long after our chatting began. Some men would be put off by a lady hitting on them, but I find a lady who knows what she wants arousing.
I won't deny I was a little put aback by the speed she approached the subject, I hoped we'd get to the subject of sex sometime, but I had no schedule. I let the lady choose the speed and direction of the chats to make her feel safe.
Recent events are proving interesting, I have been asked to keep in daily contact, this shows a deep connection, to me. This is not always possible, for the next month I have a cash shortage.
Svitlana isn't the only mature lady friend who says I should stay in contact, there are several others who get worried if I don't show on the app we share. I find it hard to believe I have had this effect on ladies, after only a few weeks.
It is the lady's choice
